I work as a loner, and when I see a group of men walk in, I don't know how to approach them. Do I have to pick one? How do I let them know that I'd be happy to dance for all of them without sounding tacky?
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I work as a loner, and when I see a group of men walk in, I don't know how to approach them. Do I have to pick one? How do I let them know that I'd be happy to dance for all of them without sounding tacky?
You sit down w/ them (if there's no available chair either crouch down on sit on one of the guys laps) and you start w/ something like "Sup guys- ya'll work together?" or "Boys night out huh?'' You know something simple- can even be corny. Then you find out why they're at the club- thats when you say "Awesome- well I'm (insert name), whats your name." Go around the group and repeat each name after you hear it- then you got their names- they got your name. Then continue w/ the small talk until they're ready for a dance- when you think they're ready say something like "Ok, so who wants a dance first?" or "Who's brave enough to get a private dance from me?" - thats what I usually do when I approach groups of guys- seems to work for me. Good luck! :)
Nina has said it all!! That's exactly how to go about it!! And show no fear! Men are dogs, they can smell it!! haha.
To elabortate on what Nina said, I'll add a bit that we teach in our class. It's a seminar trick that I learned years ago. When you ask the group "who would like to have the first dance?", physicaly raise your hand in the air and add to the line, "raise your hand!" so it sounds like, "Who here would like to have the first dance, raise your hand!" and physically raise your hand in the air. What it will do is force the majority of the group to raise their hand also. This makes a commitment of one person turn into a commitment of two or three or more guys all at the exact same time. Then you just pick one and say to him, "Okay, you're first, let's go the VIP room" or something to that effect. Use this system and you'll knock 'em dead to the point it's like shooting fish in a barrel!
I always ask groups of guys if it's a bach. or b'day party. If so, then ask who the special guy is and who the bestman is or who is going to buy the B'day guy a dance.
If it's not a party then you have already opened things up and been able to sense who is into dances.
DW, you are awesome. I can't wait for the April 16 teleconference.