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"I want to see you on stage first"
I remember last time I worked I got the ol "I want to see you on stage 1st". Sometimes there would be 30 girls and I wasnt up for a long time. I would still try to pitch to them about dances n such but they still wanted to see me on stage. Personally I dont think the stage is the best gauge for how great a lapper a girl is. Well, I gues if shes smiling and having a good time yea I could get that. Right now my stages arent as good b/c its been awhile but Im a great lapper still. Is there a way to get around this? Is this the correct place to push a hard sell or is it just useless?
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oooo, tiger.. i hattte when they say that!
Just say, "Hey i was just up not too long ago and there are a lot of girls here, so it will be a while until im up again. Then do a little twirl in front of them and add that you give great dances. If they don't buy from you then, they probally never intended to!
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Ugh's. I hate that, usually I just pass that one on.. Time is money and I don't have time to waste on those sorts of guys. I might come back later and try him again and nine times out of ten they still tell me no, in one way or another. Blah.
Rhiannon
Southern 'gal and sister in the thong brigade.
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I think for most guys, they think they can get an idea of the personality of the dancer when she's on stage. True, it won't tell him what kind of lapper you are, but he can tell what kind of aura you project, and some guys want an idea of what you're like before they chunk out the $2K an hour for your dances. (Your's *are* that expensive, aren't they? :P )
Just my opinon, though. :-\
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I like seeing the dancer on stage first, like blueyez said, to get a feel for her personality a little bit. It's not absolutely necessary though. If the dancer has a nice disposition and doesn't come up and just say "are you tipping? want a dance?" then I'm game to talk for a little and then get a dance. If she's drop dead gorgeous, I probably wouldn't care about her personality. She could sit on my lap and read me the phonebook. It's nice if you get to see it before hand, but it's not a prerequisite.
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Well, all the " I want to see you on stage-er's " have been mostly deadbeats - No offense of course to anyones methods, I'm just relating my experience. Of course I don't go up and fire the " You wanna dance" routine, thats just tacky. Then again at my club, sometimes a "Hey, how are you" can get a " Not tonight." So, there's no telling.
Rhiannon
Southern 'gal and sister in the thong brigade.
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True...sometimes when guys have been approached alot that night or are not time wasters they will say the "not tonight".
Blue: Dances here are from $10-20 top on dances. They are pretty flippen cheap here. Of course alot of clubs here take a cut of that other than your rent sometimes.
DSUs19 Ill read you the phonebook ;) its cuz your cute though.
Tampa thats a great answer to those types.
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I just emphasise the more intimate, fun nature of the private dance over the 'boring' stage... whilst also saying what Tampafldancer stated.
I take it as an easy brush off by the patron. I only check up on them later if I find I have the time to... they aren't high on my list of people to check back on (if I do have time).
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Yeah, I had a conversation like this with a custy:
me: Are you ready to go for a dance? [this was after a few minutes of good conversation, so not "wannadance?"]
him: I want to see you on stage first.
me: Aww, I'm not up for awhile, though.
him: how long?
me: Probably an hour, hour and a half.
him: I'll still be here.
me: I'd really rather give you a dance first, they're much more fun than the stage.
him: I want to see you on stage first.
guh, fine, I say "great, well, I'll see you after my set!"
not twenty minutes later another girl takes him for a dance. :P
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I hate it when guys say this, and it always seems to happen right after I've been on stage recently and won't be up again for a while. But it's not always BS, some guys really do want to see you on stage first to get an idea of how you are in the lap dance room. It's not really your dance moves that they're paying attention to, but rather if you look like you're having fun (smiling, making eye contact and sexy faces, etc.) If I'm not up on stage for a long time and a guy says this, I'll chat with him for a while, find another customer to talk to, and then ask the first customer if he's ready for a dance after I finish my stage set. :)
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Originally Posted by Crow
Well, all the " I want to see you on stage-er's " have been mostly deadbeats - No offense of course to anyones methods, I'm just relating my experience. Of course I don't go up and fire the " You wanna dance" routine, thats just tacky. Then again at my club, sometimes a "Hey, how are you" can get a " Not tonight." So, there's no telling.
Rhiannon
Southern 'gal and sister in the thong brigade.
Agreed. The guys that say this will 9/10 not buy dances from me after my stage set. They are just time-wasters to me.
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I think for most guys, they think they can get an idea of the personality of the dancer when she's on stage. True, it won't tell him what kind of lapper you are, but he can tell what kind of aura you project, and some guys want an idea of what you're like before they chunk out the $2K an hour for your dances.
Guilty as charged.
I have zero problem saying no to a dancer in which I have no interest, and seeing a dancer on stage does indeed give you at least some indication of her disposition.
That said, I'd be hard-pressed to refuse TFD or CL even without seeing them on stage. But hey, we're all PLs sometimes... ;)
Two cents.
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I, just like CO, am guilty of wanting to see a girl on stage first. But then again, a LOT of the girls at my club use the "you tipping, wanna dance?" line. They don't even attempt a convo. I'm already a little nervous when I go in, and more nervous when a beautiful girl approaches me (yes, I stutter some). The last thing I need is someone who is very blase or uninterested (unless you're smokin, in which case, I reiterate the phonebook comment). Like I said, seeing her on stage is not a prerequisite, but some convo is. I see where you girls would get tired of that though. It's basically a "come back later" stand-in for most customers.
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Originally Posted by DSUsb19
She could sit on my lap and read me the phonebook.
I can see it now. :laughing:
Aaronson, Arthur ...555-0123
Ababbab,James L...555-4562
Acron, Suzi G.... 555-4897
That'll be $20 please!
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Here's the deal...
Guys will say this for one of two reasons-
1-They really do want to see you on stage first...either to see how nasty you'll get, or whether you really do have a great rack, or whatever. If you suspect that this is the case, dig a little deeper...ask the guy what he is hoping to see on stage that might make him more interested, and tell him not to be shy in his answer. Give him some ideas..."Do you want to see how nice my body looks?" and maybe give him a quick flash...or whatever.
2-He is not interested. If this is the case, there's nothing you can do, don't waste your time, he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
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Gah - this is SO one my pet peeves. I do my utmost to try to treat the patrons of my home club with respect. As I don't travel anymore - so why can't they just give me a Polite no thank you - instead of the " I want to see you on stage" junk letting me know up front he is not interested. That way I wont waste his time, and mine.
It is right up there with the come back later line.. * mutter *
Miss R.
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I try to find out if they are interested in the personality part or just how I look with no clothes on. If its about looks I justquickly flash them my boobs. If its about personality I just talk theminto it. It usually works for me. If they are still not buying them they really were not interested and never will be or a small minority really need more time.
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Personaly in a new club. I will tip every girl I think is cute while their on stage.
which ever one I feel the most energy and I feel the most connection with.
will be the one pic for the night.
you can determine alot about a given dancer by her stage dance.
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Originally Posted by playboycntrfold
I can see it now. :laughing:
Aaronson, Arthur ...555-0123
Ababbab,James L...555-4562
Acron, Suzi G.... 555-4897
That'll be $20 please!
*Happily forks it over, with $10 tip* I'll be back later for the B's...;D
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I had one of those guys fri night at my new club. The same I wanna see you on stage 1st. I didnt see him get any dances before me either. So I chat for 2 songs and he tells me blah blah blah.
I go on stage 15-20 later and after I get off stage and freshen up I sexily walk over to him and chit chat for a sec and ask for him to join me in VIP.
He immediatly says yes and off we go. I guess its a good thing to come back at least and just ask w/ in one song. Worked for me!
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If I am new to a club I want to see all the gals on stage first.
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Well it'll depend on the club...if you're in a show club in a major city (NYC, Vegas, etc.), you'll probably *NEVER* see every girl on stage before getting the opportunity to decide whether to get a LD or not. There may be 100+ dancers on a given shift, and unless you spend an entire 8-hour shift in a club, AND they have multiple stage rotations, you may only see half of a shift's lineup on stage. Also, from my observation, if a dancer finds a guy who wants an extended amount of time with her, she'll gladly pay a DJ fee to get out of the stage rotation (so she can make the real dough with her custy).
While the general rule is "never get a blind lap", you'll likely have to find a different method to "I'll wait til I see you on stage" in order to decide whether to get a lap with a particular dancer or not.
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Crow: Is
<Her> Want a dance?
<Me> not at this moment. Thank you though. I'm just not interested yet.
Ok?
I do that. and have had no obvious complaints.
::Mast::
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Originally Posted by Mr Hyde
Here's the deal...
Guys will say this for one of two reasons-
1-They really do want to see you on stage first...either to see how nasty you'll get, or whether you really do have a great rack, or whatever. If you suspect that this is the case, dig a little deeper...ask the guy what he is hoping to see on stage that might make him more interested, and tell him not to be shy in his answer. Give him some ideas..."Do you want to see how nice my body looks?" and maybe give him a quick flash...or whatever.
2-He is not interested. If this is the case, there's nothing you can do, don't waste your time, he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
Dude,your sooooooooooooo on point,im thinking your have what it takes to start your own stripperwealth seminar and start charging!!!!
Fuckin exactly "here's the deal" if I ever saw it.
i would add a #3 though...
3-My beer that i ordered hasnt even gotten here yet,back the fuck off and let me take my coat off first and sit down.
lol i keed i keed!!!!
Go with #2 ladies,its a really nice way to say"no".
What the fuck????ya all bitch about "No"and now your bitching about a polite "No"???
Kripes,it aint always gonna be a "yes".
fuckin brats/
You dont even really gotta go back to the table.
If he said this,and ment #2 or #3,no big deal,move on to the next guy,your money is waiting,and its not back at that table.
If he ment #1,he will find YOU after your stage set,if your what he really wanted,only now,he has to wait in line with the rest of the guys who saw you on stage/showcased.
Snooze ya loose.
Now its time to start the bidding to up your place in line.