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Worked at one place where hustling before you went on stage was taboo. Well, no matter, left that place after a few weeks any way.
Hey, I hustled before and after my stage act. And it didn't bother me one bit if the guy gave me some lame duck excuse. I smiled and went off towards the next sucker.
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i never go onstage and i tell them that.
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Okay, but what about after you've been on stage and it is clearly another hour or two until you will be back on stage? I've yet to encounter a club with a true before/after you've been on stage thing, and since customers are coming and going constantly, what's the point?
I rather agree with the 'moving on' comments.
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Im not too good w/ the stage lately either. Honestly, thats not where the money is at anyway. I dont go crazy on stage, I just dance cute, hop around and smile. That works just as well as the pole work. It shows personality. But, I wouldnt rely on making your money off them type of guys. They seem a little too picky w/ their pockets in the 1st place. When I go on stage for guys like that, I always forget about them by the time my set is over. Sometimes thats not good.. but I cant help it.. lol.
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gotta see ya on stage is a stall tactic.
some guys won't get a dance until they've seen the entire rotation & others have no intention of spending money & others get a dance with the next girl to walk up... but maybe he already saw HER on stage... if he takes another girl for a dance, you know he's spending money & maybe you have a shot at some money too.
I say this: "but I am here NOW" & "you can have me ALL TO YOURSELF". If I know he is tipping & I have awhile before my next set... I just keep in touch with him (unless I am so busy i don't need HIS money) & then go sit on his lap during the song before my set to get him good & ready for me. I mean, right before my set, I don't really want to get involved in anything anyway, so if I think i can line up a dance for after my set, I do it.
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Some men actually will get a dance after they see you on stage.
If they say no after you tell them that you just came from being on stage, tell him, "Oh, it's too bad that you missed it. I don't do stage too much because I'm busy giving dances all night. Maybe I can catch you if I have a chance later. Bye!"
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This doesn't make any sense. How can somebody judge your lap dance from what you do on stage? These are two entirely different sets of dogs.
I have had this question posed to me when I was trying get customers into the VIP room, and when you are doing this, they are justified in asking. There is a lot more money involved here.
From past experience, the only guys who asked me this was guys who was a frequent flyer at the clug and they did not know me.
Those who were new to the club would go in a heartbeat, that is, unless they had read some book titled "how to rippoff your stripper" or some such nonsense.
Whenever they said that, I would reply, "Well, I'm sorry, too" and leave.
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I've heard that "I wanna see you on stage first" too...It really doesn't make much sense because most of the moves you do on stage, like sliding down the pole,etc...you can't do in his lap anyways...so I just tell them that I "just got off stage" or that "he won't be disappointed", and even if he is it's too late, I don't give no money back guarantee...
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Wanting to see how you move onstage has nothing to do with it. At least with me, 'cause I can't speak for every guy. But like Sexy_Belle said, a woman can't do in your lap what she does onstage, so how much sense does that make.
Someone else said this, and I'll quote it:
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gotta see ya on stage is a stall tactic.
some guys won't get a dance until they've seen the entire rotation
This is likely my #1 reason. My other reason is what I posted previously.
I want to see you naked, and I want to see EVERYTHING first. Plain and simple. If you are hot, then watching you gyrate onstage will take me to the next step of wanting to blow $$ on dances.
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I dont know about you all, but I always get more requests for dances after I have been on stage anyway....
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Our club runs so many girls its not uncommon to only go on stage one time a night, I think becuase guys know this, we don't get that stupid line.... If I do it get I give them a pouty smile and tell them they got here to late and I've already been up....
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Some clubs have only a single stage, some have more than one. But so what? It still takes time for your turn to come around.
A story.
A customer gave me this line. I told him, "OK, if I get up there, you gonna buy dances from me?" He did not say nothing. I continued. "Sir, you gonna buy dances from after I come off?" This went around few more times.
He finally told me, "Hell, hun, what do we have here, a contract? Huh?"
"Yes, we do, when you entered through the door!"
He bought three dances from me that night. Mission accomplished.
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Men who say I want to see you on stage first rarely have dances after you've come off - they use it as an alternative 'no'. I've tried saying my stage show isn't anything like my private dance but it doesn't often work.
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Really, it makes no difference if the club has a million stages. If they don't want you, this is just another line to get rid of you. Why pay you when they can watch you for free?
It makes sense now, doesn't it? Cheap dumbshits.
I've had line pulled on me before, when it happens, I asked them, could I get them a drink, and some times this works.
Keep moving on to the next customer, like a new day ,a new beginning.
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Most of the guys who say this to me wind up tipping me on stage at least, if not a dance later. I'm definitely a stage girl though, and since I get to keep all that I make on stage, I don't consider them time wasters. It is tough though, since with all the girls, and two-song sets, we don't really get much time to shine. Plus most guys around here seem to think a buck is a good tip.
Sometimes, if I think the guy is serious, I can tip the dj and he'll put me up- way worth the few bucks cuz when they see the way I can twist my body....sometimes they forget that I'm not a Jenna Jameson clone and are more than happy to join me for a dance!
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when they say i want to see you on stage first...
how about saying something like "Come on baby....i don't want to give you the same old routine that everyone else here gets to see on stage. I want to give you a special dance (only)or just for you!"
or is that giving the wrong impression :-\ i guess it wouldn't matter as long as he's intrigued :eyebrow:
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Originally Posted by kathy1234
But when he gives me this line for a lap dance, I just kiss him on the forhead and tell him, "Buddy, you had your chance, you blew it!" and walk away. He has no idea, what he lost.
Kathy, baby, don't walk away, if you got a minute or two, hang around, and smile and look cute at him. He will come around. It always has worked for me.
And start gigling stupid too. He will wonder WTF! and smile back at ya.
Next thing you know, he and you are talking and after that you land right on his lap. Never, never walk away, unless he asks you to. Remeber that!
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i always tell a guy that I specialize in lap dances and rooms. that stage dancing sucks bad.
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"Oh, really, well, I just came off a few minutes ago. Listen, can I sit here for a couple minutes, I gotta get a load off, if you kow what I mean. So, whattaya think about......."
Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah,
At this point, they will either continue talking to you, or give you another brush off.
If they keep talking to you, you got them hooked. If not, better leave and quit wasting time.
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I almost always get some dances and have on many occasions bought campaign. This is a statement that I have used many times. Usually when I have made that statement I just did not want any dances yet. I know why the girls are there. If a girl needs to go hustle and make money I would rather her go do that than keep on asking me for dances every few minutes. I have often asked a girl about dances when she was on stage after I had made that statement to her earlier. I would rather not waste anyone’s time. If I am not interested in the girl then I will say that I am already waiting on someone.