i call everyone names like that.
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i call everyone names like that.
I call everyone names like that too..including friends and family. I dont know why it would bother anyone....esp if its someone you just met....we meet a million guys a night..it's not always easy to remember their names right away.
Plus...for me...if I'm calling you hon or sweetie it means I like you. Or at least that you havent pissed me off yet...so it's a good thing!! LOL!
Just don't call me "sir."
I dont mind those names, depends on how/who says it though....
I can't help it, I'm awful with names :(
My stage name is Honey, so I think it's obvious that I adore terms of endearment!
I use Hotstuff, Handsome, Darlin', and occassionally, for a laugh, Bumble Bee!
There are a few I'm called that just make me cringe.... Princess, Babe, and Pumpkin. But I do have a good reason for all of them: babe- (hunter, enough said) Pumpkin (ummm, it's what my mom calls me) and Princess (dad)
I don't mind as long as they don't sound too fake, or emphasized on. My fav. is baby, it feels more natural and it feels great to know that a girl wants to take care of me and considers me like family..... I also like to think they wouldn't mind my lips on their breasts:D . Oh, I can't stand babe though, (For the last time I'm not a pink baby pig!) Sorry, flashback.
It's weird, but my next favs. are daddy and papi.
I don't much care for it, but especially when someone I know pretty well uses it, I can't stand being called "Baby" instead of my actual name.
I have a hard time remembering names, so I can't complain if a dancer relies on terms like "baby" or something.
As long as it doesn't sound like she is on autopilot. She can use a term like that and still sound sweet and sincere.
Meh, I call people little names all the time. I don't seem to have any trouble with it at work.
I'm actually pretty good at remembering names. So that's usually what I do during th e conversation. I repeat it often to remind myself.
I've been practicing, and I AM getting better! woohoo! lol.
I personally call EVERYONE sweetie, honey, doll, etc. In the club or outside of the club. I don't mind when people call me those names, and I don't mind using them. If someone is going to be pissed that I call them sweetie, oh well, Iwas trying to be nice!
The other day, as a dancer was doing her tip walk, I handed her a dollar and said, "Thanks, beautiful." She took it and said, "You're welcome, handsome."
I thought of this thread and it gave me a chuckle.
im southern so u know, sugar, honey, bb, sweetness... i call em everything but their name, tho a good percentage prefer daddy...lol
i use them all the time! mostly with customers i have built a rapport with though. it sounds so akward to hey " hey richard, would you please refrain from touching my ass?" baby, hon,etc seem to make whatever you are saying less cold. ill also use ' bad boy, big boy, cowboy," etc too. people here in boston are very standoffish, grumpy, and mad at the world so many of them think its funny or cute unlike in the south where that is the norm
Wow, this's an old-ass thread!
I love it when a girl greets as Master out of the blue, instant boner.
Honestly I usually too busy staring at your tits to notice being called Sweetie, Darlin', and stuff like that.
And I wear a purple hat pimp hat so people tend to remember me more, not nessarily my last name. I will say I experienced a waitress who went out of her way to remember my name, so I tipped more then I usually do.
Hell I usually don't bother to give my name if they don't ask, just as I don't ask for a girls real name.
I really try to remember names but most of the time I call them "baby", "hunni", "sweety", etc.
I hate when I hear the term "daddy" used, whether on customers or in real life.
"Hey, daddy, how's it goin'?" Barf-o-rama. Instapuke. Pardon me while I remove this bile from my throat... Raaaalph.
But I LOVE when girls use terms of endearment because they're agro! Best ever. Adds flavor to the bickering. }:D That's when you know it's getting serious. OH SHIT SHE CALLED THAT BITCH "SWEETIE-PIE!".
I aGree. Daddy, Papi , any variation of "father" grossss.
I call the girls more endearing names than I do the customers... I don't know why. Probably because I like them more. With customers, I'm a big fan of "hello, stranger," when I first sit down. Corny, but it's just what I do. And it's better than "hello...., uh, you," because I never remember anyone's name. (I has this regular for 3 years and never learned his name. After the first year, it seemed rude to ask. "By the way, who are you?" I referred to him as Kevin, with the other dancers. When every he came in, the girls would tell me, "Get out of the dressing room! Kevin's here!")
My CF and I communicate via texting and she frequently uses "love", "boo", and similar terms. I'm sure it's all SS, but I appreciate that she's making an effort to create a more intimate vibe. I'm good with this.
Eh, think it's substantially a matter of how they say it. Most girls, coming and calling me "babe" or "sweetie" right away, it feels more impersonal, practically a defense mechanism. Once we know each other a bit, I actually like it. Some girls, like the proverbial southern girls, somehow manage to make those terms endearing right from the beginning, just so natural they can pull it off, but most can't.
Agree that I *never* like papi, daddy, etc
if you don't like the fakeness then be glad we don't call you what we do in the dressing room!