Mom Indicted for Hiring Stripper for Teen
I apologize if this has already been brought up I checked and couldn’t find it.
Mom Indicted for Hiring Stripper for Teen
NASHVILLE, Tenn. A mother faces criminal charges after she hired a stripper to dance at her 16-year-old son's birthday party. Anette Pharris, 34, has been indicted by a grand jury on charges of contributing to the delinquency of a minor and involving a minor in obscene acts. The boy's father, the stripper and two others also face charges.
"I tried to do something special for my son," Pharris said. "It didn't harm him."
About 10 people under the age of 18 were at the birthday party in September, including minors who were not related to the family, authorities said.
Police spokesman Don Aaron said minors are not permitted in adult establishments.
"A person shouldn't be allowed to circumvent that law by hiring a stripper, a lady who took all her clothes off and spent a good amount of time dancing around minors," he said.
Anette Pharris took photos at the party and tried to have them developed at a nearby drug store. Drug store employees notified authorities, police said.
"Who are they to tell me what I can and can't show to my own children?" the mother said.
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There is a very similar story on "thesmokinggun" website. See the following link.
http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/boysenparty1.html
I wonder if this is becoming an urban myth.
Phil.
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...well, it only would have been an obscene act if the stripper was 70 years old.
>>See Sassy the stripper here<<
"It's a bunch of bull," Anette Pharris, 34, said yesterday afternoon in an interview at her east Nashville home. "I tried to do something special for my son. It didn't harm him."
From the family's front porch, which sits on a small street off Dickerson Pike near Hart Lane, her children have witnessed prostitutes with customers, people injecting drugs, smoking crack and doing other misdeeds. A naked woman was nothing to get upset about, Pharris said.
"Age is just a number," she said. "My son is very mature."
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I'd be more worried about the other minors there and their parents finding out. Just curious though, would it still be illegal/a big deal if she didn't take off everything (still had her chest and bottom covered)? I wouldn't think so because every little kid sees that everyday on tv...
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wow. just...wow.
It's too bad that we can't make it possible to require a license to have children.
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I saw this on oprah i think...and the mom was definitely in the wrong. The stripper was totally nude and performing acts on herself and mimicing acts on the boys. The dad was even uncomfortable with it. The irony is she sent her daughter out becuase she didnt want to see it. I obviously dont find anything wrong with stripping but you have to draw the line with kids...
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Um. She lived on Dickerson. Ha.
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At the agency I work for I get calls from moms wanting to hire strippers for their sons about once or twice a month.
I don't get it. I would think most parents would be mortified at the idea of their 10th graders seeing strippers. I don't get calls from dads trying to hire male strippers for thier daughters, though.
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My son can go... when he is legal to. I don't think it is a good choice for a 16th birthday. I'm sure at 16 my son will have seen it all on the internet. I know with few exceptions, I had. I just hope I can bring him up to be a decent gentleman etc.
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Originally Posted by Paris
At the agency I work for I get calls from moms wanting to hire strippers for their sons about once or twice a month.
-Paris, you do get some Dads calling right? I gotta wonder about these Moms. My mother was always cool.... but level headed. Not at 16.
I feel this woman lacks common sense. She could not envision this being illegal, or at least irresponsible? Then to make matters worse she just gets the photos done.
Would you guys get prints of nude photos at your local big chain photo lab? I'd think it would be from the photographer, and his/her sources, or a place with a trustworthy reputation. If I had any and I wanted prints... onto the computer and its photo quality printer, or a trusted friends system (with me deleting them afterward.
Was trolling smoking gun and found this:
http://www.thesmokinggun.com/stripper/stripper.html
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I think they are worried that she may be corrupting her son. There is a case where a grown woman was supplying drugs and alcohol to some young teens. She rightfully got arrested. Now if this mom was doing this for a 12yr old, I may think she was a bit off her rocker. However the boy was turning 16, an age where boys are getting the first taste of their manhood. Hopefully she wasn't paying for him to have a prostitute.
Funny though she should of waited 2 years could give him that surprise, then it would of been legal. Of course whose to say the boy is more mature at 18 then he is at 16. According to the law he is, but that too is a bull and maturity is based on the individual. Ladies we have all dated grown men who act like freakin little boys.
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my friend's mom did the same thing for his birthday...only he was 18 so i think thats alright...cool mom too :)
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I know the DJ that is one of the "other" parties being charged. He got arrested for bringing the stripper to the party, and his mug shot was on the news every half hour for almost a week. He was all drunk looking a dirty in a wife beater. He said that since the mom said it was ok, the stripper went ahead and did the party.
I actually made fun of this DJ and his little birthday party stunt in one of the Music Mix threads talking about ridiculous DJ names.
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Well, I have issues with this, and I think mom's kinda fucked up.
I have issues with mom that would hire strippers as entertainment for their son, but flip out if he were to "date" one- and that seems to be a lot of mothers still. BARF. My friend worked for a Bday party where the mom hired her as entertainment, but threw a shitfit when he started to show actual interest in her, wanting to sit and talk with her, etc. To the mom ,my friend was only OK as a "thing" that's dancing for "mah boy." I dunno, but I see some weird oedipal issue happening with moms that ire strippers for their sons.