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Financial Domination/Dominatrix
I'm totally turned on... I think I might have found something that I can do.. ;D
I found my way to "The Top Spoiled Bitches TOP 100 List"... then clicked onto both...
http://www.valentinedeville.com/ and http://www.financialmistress.com/
I had been toy-ing with such an idea for some time now however didn't really think it would work... hmm....
Anyone got any tips, suggestions, ideas and so forth so I can start myself in the land of financial domination ?
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I have seen financialmistress before. Some say she used to be on and this was how she was going to try this.
I will be honest, from all the ladies i ever worked phone with and who fell upon a financial slave, they don't hunt sites for this. They know they will find a greedy phone sex operator to take some money.
I found a man on millionare.com who STILL sends money....lol, i will never meet him and he knows this. I send him letters via email, and pictures of my outings and he seems happy peeking into my life. Strange.
Set up a site like this see what happens, but you WILL get fucked with i promise! When a lady has a site up asking for the money from strangers, i don't think they are into that, they do want a more personal relationship. emails, postal letters, pictures, and at times a telephone call! At least this has been my experience, you have got to get him to like you, because these guys move on quickly to an "easier" woman.
But again, you may be able to pull off a few, and have fun with their money.
PS they really do hunt the phone sex lines....Big time!!!!
Just my .02
Pamela
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Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl
I'm totally turned on... I think I might have found something that I can do.. ;D
I found my way to "The Top Spoiled Bitches TOP 100 List"... then clicked onto both...
http://www.valentinedeville.com/ and
http://www.financialmistress.com/
I had been toy-ing with such an idea for some time now however didn't really think it would work... hmm....
Anyone got any tips, suggestions, ideas and so forth so I can start myself in the land of financial domination ?
Shit, financialmistress isn't even ALL THAT! She makes it look easy. Do you really think guys are giving her money like that?
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NO. ^^ I agree. Anytime a person has a site built, usually under a company, they want you to beef up you're messages to the public. This (again phone sex comes to mind) is big with some phone sex companies. See, the PSO can make her own page, put up any words she wants to make it look more inviting to the target audience!!! If she wants slaves, she can throw up a few "fake" names and how well they make her car payments, etc. See this draws in guys who think she really is that good!!!
Don't you think anyone wanting $$$$$$ is going to beef up their page? Of course.
The site i mentioned in the earlier post looks like her pictures have been used for other comapnies...I said looks like, i could be wrong. However buying content is very very cheap, especially out of Canada.
It could be the real girl, but again a search would not surprise me.
I have been seeking financial domination for YEARS and the best place i have found it is in the phone sex industry! No shit, because you get rich guys who have lots of money who want to send you presents and tips. What SUCKS is alot of companies are not allowing this anymore. So a woman is forced to feed her "habit" outside of PSO work these days.
LIke i said it's worth a try. But this money comes with a price. In phone sex, it comes with spending usually about 2 hours worth of his boring life, then he wants to send you off money because a person actually cares enough to listen to him.
Beggers DO NOT get the $$$$$.
Pamela
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I'm not thinking of doing it this year.. it is something I might do later on.. I was just toy-ing with the idea. I can totally understand if some of these financial dominatrix -es have "beefed up" their sites... put in some false information here and there.
Just thought it might be a nice little 'side' income and addition to dancing... and kinda help me pass the time when I am 'home' as I don't get bookings every day (I work maybe 3-4 days out of the 12-14 I spend @ home).
As for having to listen to dribble for 2 hours just so he thinks someone cares... well.. not to be harsh... I listen to that if not more at the club... and sometimes on the phone with a friend of mine who just loves to whinge, complain and so forth.. :laughing: I know how to be the passive listener in those circumstances and seem like I care... ;)
Yet I'm the dominatrix at the same time... so I call the shots to a certain degree. :P
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I just joined this site and noticed this post. I am involved a lot in Financial Domination. I have been a Money Slave all my life to some degree. Presently, I am a Money Slave to a Woman whom I never met. She collects about $200.00 a week from me every Wednesday to Friday (whenever we can do the transfers). Generally we use pay transfer services such as Western Union or other services. She also has access to some of my financial assets and information.
I have always enjoyed being of Financial use by beautiful Women and am quite happy in doing such. Like I wrote, I have never met her. I found her online a while back and we developed the Financial Domination very quickly as she was quite aware of my Financial Domination susceptability. I get great pleasure out of it knowing that I am being of financial use for the betterment for my Money Collector (Goddess).
What I get for my loyalty is Pictures of her, IM Communication, Phone Calls, some Video Clips, Reports of what she does with the Money i.e how it benefits her. , I also get to watch her on Cam with outfits that she obtained with that money. Later in November she is going to get a Cheerleader Outfit.
I have been a Money Slave to a lot of other Women, most of them only last for one payment, but I have served some who are long term. I met a few of the Women in person who had me as their Money Slave but most of them I never met. In the case of my present Money Collector since she lives almost 2000 miles away (probably more) I may never meet her in person.
Her benefit is of course the flow of money to benefit herself and family.
I want you to know that for the most part this can be a long and often tiresome process to find a good Money Collector or Money Slave as a lot depends on compatability. But it can work with the right contact. So far I am quite happy serving my present Financial Dominant. (I call her Goddess). Their are plenty of Financial Domination Websites and a lot of Yahoo Groups on the subject. Most are trash but their are some good sites.
;D
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Phone sex is a VERY good way to find a financial slave. Problem: The company usually takes a cut or gets involved with him.
You need to go hunt one via chat. They are there.
I still have jack off from Millionare.com who loves to give some money. But...i am losing interest...How strange.
Pamela
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I do dom work in Houston. I'm going to a lot of parties on the twenty ninth to publicize. Kinda well known in the bdsm in Houston, and I am thinking of making that my primary source of income.
Exclusively stripping is togh, maynard.
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While Pam is right about the fact the money slaves like some type of personalized attention from their Mistress, I disagree that they don't seek out Dommes online with websites. I think they may prefer those with their own domain rather than something under another company though, especially if that company is taking a cut. Part of the fun for the guys is that they're benefitting the LADY, and getting personalized attention form her, not some company site that may or may not be 'legit'. I had a site for a while and had several money slaves through it. Had guys sending me money via paypal and sometimes sending me items from my amazon.com wishlist (they can't see your real name/address if you set it up correctly). Every now and then I'll STILL get a random email from a guy asking to be my money slave, even though I haven't done that since 2001.
In order to make real money at it, you have to spend a fair amount of time with it. Like anything else, nobobdy gives you money for nothing. They like webcam time (clothed - Dommes don't generally get naked and masterbate on cam like on iFriends), emails, pictures/vid clips, messenger chats, maybe phone chats. The pics and such can be really tame too - for example I had a slave who loved to watch women smoke with those really long cigarette holders, so I'd send him pics of myself with a lit cigarette in a holder. Others liked to see me in boots and leather, or a business suit, sometimes other outfits. Sometimes they'd like me to take a pic holding a handwritten sign saying something to the effect of 'you are MY bitch' (I'm sure so they could see it was really me, heh).
Anyway, point is, YES guys do send money like that. But the recipients aren't just sitting around collecting checks ;)
jockey's info is good too - there are a TON of yahoo sites/groups for this. I had one but did better with my regular website. Guess it's easier to take someone seriously when they have a real website with nice pics and info. I think the yahoo groups are probably better for research to start learning how to do this, and perhaps to drive a lil traffic to your real site.
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This post really got my attention.....i have heard of this before, but i didn't think the girls actually made anything, hell i thought they were crazy being on sites asking a complete stranger for money lol!!!!! i would definately consider it.........i am a webcam model now and could use a financial slave when times are tough........
i have also seen girls advertise in the papers example: " sweet 20 something female looking for someone to spoil me" unbelieveable, but definately something i would do...
were do i sign up hheehhehehehe???
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How I ended up with this profile is beyond me. I am supposed to be Jockey.
Anyhow, If you are interested in pursuing Finanancial Domination. I can recommend a few Yahoo Groups such as HumanATM or Financial Slavery. I can tell you other ones if you send me a message. I will give you the link.
The problem with some of those groups is that a lot of the stuff is just crap. However, you can get some good info and may even get a Money Slave out of it. I think the best Money Collectors (Financial Dominants) should be naturally good at it. You dont need to be totally dominating but the nature of Financial Domination usually is easier and more comfortable who truly do have a dominant personlity. Most of the men who are truly Money Slaves may be vulnerable and may be easy to manipulate if under the right circumstances.
In my opinion the Sadistic Dominants are not the most succesful in keeping regular Money Slaves. If you want to pursue this lifestyle I would suggest recognizing your own traits, personality and attitudes. Money Slaves because of who they are may need a little or much more attention then say, guys you meet on cam. My Goddess collected $240.00 from me last night.
This can be exciting if you have the ability for it. ;D
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I´m considering becoming a proDom after a while doing so just for fun, so I have a lot of questions in my mind. First of all, how do you keep your financial privacy doing finantial domination?
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Originally Posted by Susana
I´m considering becoming a proDom after a while doing so just for fun, so I have a lot of questions in my mind. First of all, how do you keep your financial privacy doing finantial domination?
Generally, most Money Slaves prefer more personalized attention. The Money Collectors who are overly concerned and protective about their location identity and so on might not attract most Money Slaves. However, at the same time because Financial Domination generally requires more information revealation you would need to be more cautious of who you want as your Money Slave. Generally, the best way is to get a P.O Box. However, a Money Slave might think your being evasive and may seek elsewhere. If your afraid of being stalked then you probably wont be good at the lifestyle. The more successful Money Collectors use common sense for their safety.
Since most Money Slaves are submissive they may allow a lot of the rules being set by the Collector in regards to actual in person meetings. My Money Collector allows me to see her and call her almost anytime (Within reason) The only thing preventing me from visiting with her is just the 2000 + Mile Distance.
As for financial privacy just use common sense.
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The issue is that I´m more used to facesitting, trampling, binding and flogging, that is to say physically dominating and torturing a slave, than having to tell them how I use my money and what my day-time name is
So if you even consider to be a real slave and go another 2000 to the warmer South to know what it feels... give me a post ;)
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And thanks to every body for your help... thanks Goddess I found this community!
have fun, make money and be safe :)
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The biggest problem I see in the world of Financial Domination is that too many women thnk that all they need to do is demand cash. Anyone can do that. ANYone. That does not make you a Dominant. That does not make you able to handle the entire situation when dealing with a money slave. You need to actually give a damn about who you are getting involved with. Yes, slaves and submissives are beneath us. Yes they decide to submit and be the lesser person. But they still need to be treated well, unless of course, they desire to be utterly mistreated. Domination is an art. There are so many Tops that do not know what they are doing or just dont care to make an effort. Meh. Its a shame. Research, ladies. Do not go into this blindly. I see a lot of women who haven't a dominant bone in their cute lil (or big) bodies but rely on simple gold digging to pass off as a Financial Dominatrix. Meh. This bugs me. There is nothing wrong with being out to get your cash from other people. But if you are SERIOUS about becoming a Dominatrix... LEARN. This is a step in a different direction from just a regular at the strip club. Money slaves are emotionally attatched to you, worship you, rely on making you happy to make their lives complete. If most strippers heard that their customer was like that, they'd run off screaming "PSYCHO!"... you need to learn about and understand about the RELATIONSHIP you are entering with money slaves.
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Originally Posted by junker_plunker
Anyhow, If you are interested in pursuing Finanancial Domination. I can recommend a few Yahoo Groups such as HumanATM or Financial Slavery. I can tell you other ones if you send me a message. I will give you the link
I've just joined the first of these two groups. Thank you for the information.
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I'm interested in this. But I don't know where to start. I joined a yahoo group yeasterday too.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/financial-slavery/
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[QUOTE=PaigeDWinter]The biggest problem I see in the world of Financial Domination is that too many women thnk that all they need to do is demand cash. Anyone can do that. ANYone. That does not make you a Dominant. That does not make you able to handle the entire situation when dealing with a money slave. You need to actually give a damn about who you are getting involved with. Yes, slaves and submissives are beneath us. Yes they decide to submit and be the lesser person. But they still need to be treated well, unless of course, they desire to be utterly mistreated. Domination is an art. There are so many Tops that do not know what they are doing or just dont care to make an effort. Meh. Its a shame. Research, ladies. Do not go into this blindly. I see a lot of women who haven't a dominant bone in their cute lil (or big) bodies but rely on simple gold digging to pass off as a Financial Dominatrix. Meh. This bugs me. There is nothing wrong with being out to get your cash from other people. But if you are SERIOUS about becoming a Dominatrix... LEARN. This is a step in a different direction from just a regular at the strip club. Money slaves are emotionally attatched to you, worship you, rely on making you happy to make their lives complete. If most strippers heard that their customer was like that, they'd run off screaming "PSYCHO!"... you need to learn about and understand about the RELATIONSHIP you are entering with money slaves.
Mistress Paige.
It is good to know that you do understand the type of relationship Financial Domination brings. Nothing is more frustrating for Money Slaves to have a Money Collector who does not understand them. You are absolutely correct that many Women who claim to be Financial Dominants are not dominant. Many have to fake their own character and traits and it just becomes a miserable relationship for her and the Money Slave.
I dont think a Woman has to be dominant to have Money Slaves but the nature of Financial Domination makes it better for all involved if she is.
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Financial slaves are great! But remember, they are short lived. No matter what you do or give, they ALWAYS have more than one lady, and will move on quickly. These guys like to be "used" for money, but the demands get very tough to meet at times, and stay safe.
Some, not all like a relationship in one form or (many are married, and have money to play) another. Most will end up wanting dinner for example. Some i have kept for many months with emails, pictures, phone calls, and telling him i need money for Clothes, shoes, or tires for my car. One guy was paying my bills for a time. But again he ended up wanting to meet. He's gone.
Again, use them..it's what they want. And let it run it's course, because it will.
Pamela
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Kind of pessimistic don't you think Pamela? Yes, a Dominant can fake her relationship with her slave but all that does is make her a Con Artist and not a Financial Dominant. I think Paige wrote a good posting. If she is true to her word and does practice it then I think that is a description of a good Money Slave relationship.
I have been doing this all my life and served about a hundred of Financial Dominants and had watched as that number x a thousand dollars end up in their hands. Mmost of the time the relationship is a one time transfer of $$. However, I have met in person a few of my Financial Dominants. Some can be good long term ones as well and do involve some good in person meetings. That of course is not common but it can be rewarding if their is honesty.
Pamela, I think your being too pessimistic.
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Originally Posted by Pamela
Financial slaves are great! But remember, they are short lived. No matter what you do or give, they ALWAYS have more than one lady, and will move on quickly. These guys like to be "used" for money, but the demands get very tough to meet at times, and stay safe.
Some, not all like a relationship in one form or (many are married, and have money to play) another. Most will end up wanting dinner for example. Some i have kept for many months with emails, pictures, phone calls, and telling him i need money for Clothes, shoes, or tires for my car. One guy was paying my bills for a time. But again he ended up wanting to meet. He's gone.
Again, use them..it's what they want. And let it run it's course, because it will.
Pamela
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^^^^^ not at all. I am being realistic!!!!
I don't ever meet these guys. Only while doing phone sex, and a couple guys on sugardaddie. It's 85/% talk. Sure a few letters, pics, etc.
I can only go as far as the company will allow i work for.
Bottom line if you meet with these men you will usually get more. Not always however it seems.
I get on the phone talk to a man and he wants to be TOLD what to do with his money for me! This is attention for him. Some tell me they have a very boring life, and have money to blow.
Again...i have a very open mind. If i had a relationship off the phones with these guys i would do better, and keep them longer! But i can't meet a customer. So i get the begging ALOT from them! Finally the situation ends.
My experisnce has only really been on the phones, and cam a few times (way back) along with sugardaddie as i said. One guy i met in a club he was cool, older, but...wanted sex after a time of buying gifts, and handing over money.
These guys imo move on sooner than later.
It's NOT about the money to them. It is for us recieving.
And that is MY experience with these men who hand over money or presents!!!! I can't speak for other ladies.
Pamela
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Originally Posted by Pamela
Financial slaves are great! But remember, they are short lived. No matter what you do or give, they ALWAYS have more than one lady, and will move on quickly
Pamela
No offence pam, but if it's as short lived as you say, and their moving on that quickly; then you are doing something wrong, and perhaps all you have is a sugar daddy.
make them want to vuy you something, then make them beg for 3-4 mounths, when you finally let them buy it, and perhaps even see you in it, it's a rush. Compairable to being tied for hours then held, or even bungee jumping.
For instance, I have this guy who has begged to take me shopping for over a year, he's so cute! The key is, he has to be reeeealy good to get that, and it's so sad, he always screws up, but I might let him get me a corset here, or a new camera, but what he really wants is to take me shopping, or if he really is good, he can take me to the local strip club and buy me a few dances.
The thing is, to actually enjoy this, it has to be more then just the mony. you have to delve into them, and find out what makes them tick, and to not want to permanently hurt them. If you can't do that, these men and women know, and they won't trust you, and they WILL move on.
In actuality, you have to, at some leval, care about these men. Not so different from having a regular at the club really.
To make a living at it though, you would have to go pro, I would advise seeking out a local dungeon. Beware though, from what I've heard, it's not for the faint of heart; and if you are weak minded, you may have your mind captured.
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blah, I should have read further pam. If you wish to go further, then find a new way if thats your desire, and have fun, their soooo cute in person :D
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Originally Posted by susie
make them want to vuy you something, then make them beg for 3-4 mounths, when you finally let them buy it, and perhaps even see you in it, it's a rush. Compairable to being tied for hours then held, or even bungee jumping.
Make them beg for months? Any money slave with sense will not stick around for that. Any Domme with sense wouldnt want to wait that long either. For the submissive, this is lifestyle. This is what they enjoy. Not even a real emotional masochist will want to wait months to be happy.
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I looked at financialmistress.com and valentinedeville.com. that's the first I've ever seen of a financial dominatrix but I gotta say it seems pretty interesting and something I could do. I just don't know that I'd want to put my pics on a site like that. I could just see my brother finding it or something. I don't know why but it's totally fascinating to me besides just the financial aspect of it.