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$escorts and happy endings$$$
I'm not gonna lie i've done parties when i first started i was 17 so i couldn't legally work in a club even though i did under a fake id that said i was 21 but any way befor i got the id i would go to these parties with this stripper i meet she was 34 and had a lot of experience in the business she had me and another girl dance at a barber shop for tips and perform extras or VIP as she likes to call it in a VIP room i made $500 easy and we were there maybe 3hrs. I thought this was so much money since i was still in high school and it was a bigg difference from burger king. Well bottom line we did every thing safe nothing w/o protection. But after i told a fellow stripper at a club she said i was selling myself short litterally rates were $100 fuck and suck 15 min and $50 suck 15min. After hearing this i searched around and found that escorts services were charging $250/hr and an "exotic massage" $310/hr advertised in the paper i also searched the web for escorts and girls pages said $500 first hr $200 every hour after $2000 over night and $2500 24hr. I don't care what anyone says $500 an hr is alot and i'm willing to do what i have to do(safely of course) to make that kind of money. Is there anyone out there that has done this or has any advice on how i can become a HIGH CLASS escort. }:D
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More power to you, and be safe, but you probably will find better advice if you look in some of the women's forums over at ASPD. Not a lot of women here post about experiences as escorts.
Try here:
http://www.aspd.net/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=763
And take care of yourself; getting into the industry at such a young age (I mean, high school?) can fuck you up.
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Nope..escorting isn't my style at all...sorry.
So, how long have you been an escort? I have always figured escorts as prostitutes. How long do you think a client is just gonna be cool with an "exotic massage"?
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Originally Posted by Casual Observer
Troll much?
What? What are you trying to say?
ok and to Cinnammonkisses the first night i ever danced as a 17years old i have sex with a man for a hundred dollars and aa "exotic massage" is what they put in the paper the client is buying you for $310 an hr to have sex!! And as far as it being prositution thats exactly what it is your getting paid for sex. So you can call it what you want i mean i've basicly prosituted in other ways if you think about it i fuck my boyfriend and he buys my clothes and jewlery! And I love it!! }:D
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See http://toxin.org/~javina/faq.html
I know people who have done it and in the long run, it will mess you up.
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I'm not trying to be mean or harsh but I think you need to worry less about fucking for money and more about educating yourself a bit.
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I hope people don't get me wrong i'm not trying to be out there on the corner strung out on crack selling my ass for $40 and doing blow jobs for $20. Im trying to do the exact opposite i just graduated high shcool in june and I start college Sept. 8th i major in business administration and i've been a single mom for over a year now and i've done a very good job so far my son is well tooken care of and i plan to keep it that way i've worked two jobs as an exotic dancer and a research associate for about a year now all i want to do is make dough so my son could stay in those baby jordans and rocawear jeans and hustling, pussy poppin, and droppin it like it's hott for a dollar and i mean a dollar with theses cheap customers is not gonna do it even they will tell you they don't want to pay if they can't touch. So you can call me what you want just don't call me broke!!!!!
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Look,i'm not against escorting, working in porn, etc, I just think if you're going to do those type things the first thing you need to do is become educated or you're going to find yourself not only getting screwed (no pun intended) but possibly hurt, ck, dead, etc.
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cinnamon - nice booobies girlfriend !
henessey - do what you want but you should go to school and learn a trade first -- dental hygeine, nursing, something -- why not just stick to dancing part time ??
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Originally Posted by cinammonkisses
See again..the issue with this is...you fucked someone for $100 or $300 and a massage. Fuck that lol. Obviously you don't value your p***y to much to only be making that.
You know what...for this dude that you CALL your "boyfriend" he aint your man baby..your his trick. When you prostitute..you're not fucking your boyfriend, your fucking the client.
So please, don't confuse every guy that you meet up with that is willin to throw you a couple of dollahs an buy your baby a new Rocawear outfit as your boyfriend lmaoooooooooooooooooooo baby it's soooooooooooo tacky.
XOXOXO
The infamous,
CK
If you were paying attention and not jus tryin to put me down you would have realized that i know $100 and $300 is not worth it that's why i'm tryin to make those G's and yeah i know that Rocawear is not something my baby has to have but i don't like my son looking like a foster child he's too cute for that so i choose to pay the extra dollar for designer boo boo okay my son will b/c i didn't have nice things coming up so he gets it all. And as far as thinking that every man who gives me money is my boy friend there my dough boys my man gives me money on a regular so don't get it twisted.
XOXOX
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OK i am cleaning this thread up.
This is OTHER WORK after all.
Pamela.
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I say do what makes you happy. But since you know already just be safe in all ways mentally, physically and emotionally.
The only suggestion I can say is to research your market and see what high class escorts are charging and try to go the same route.
For the record ....escorts are not prostitutes.....but that was a thread long ago.
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all i want to do is make dough so my son could stay in those baby jordans and rocawear jeans
I think you should reevaluate your priorities- is it worth selling your body and messing up your kid's mind (because he'll likely be messed up by it if he finds out) so that he can wear name-brand stuff?
I mean, really- not only buying into the giant sales pitch that is pop culture, but whoring for it?? I'm glad you're in school- that will help you a lot, and maybe you have other reasons for considering the escorting, but good god! that hit me the wrong way, you saying you want to hook so you can buy your kid baby jordans.
However, far be it for me to try to talk you out of it- it's your choice. There have got to be a million memoir books out- one of those would likely help a lot. An old one is 'Working' by Delores French, but there are probably more modern ones.
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Originally Posted by TigersMilk
I say do what makes you happy. But since you know already just be safe in all ways mentally, physically and emotionally.
The only suggestion I can say is to research your market and see what high class escorts are charging and try to go the same route.
For the record ....escorts are not prostitutes.....but that was a thread long ago.
AMEN^^^
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Leaving all moral judgements aside ...
The most important thing for a 'high class' escort to hook up with is an (shall we say) 'agency' that can be trusted. It is absolutely of paramount importance that any 'high class' escort have someone in the loop between customers and herself ... someone who can investigate supposed 'high roller' customers to make sure that they're not on the payroll of some law enforcement agency ... someone who handles transportation and security such that if you find yourself in an unmanageable situation they can intervene ... and in the worst case somebody who will know exactly where you are and exactly when you're supposed to be finished with your 'client' so they can start asking questions/blowing whistles if you don't show up.
Fortunately, every large city has at least one 'reputable' online escort 'agency', and I'm sure that if you do an internet search you'll turn up at least one in your own city. In the North Jersey area is pretty well established.
Again avoiding personal judgements in regard to any girl choosing to do sex for money in any form, IMHO if a girl is going to do this she's much better off hooking up with an escort 'agency' rather than attempting to do 'extras' in the VIP/private dance rooms of strip clubs. In the first case, her actions only generate risk for herself or for the escort 'agency' that knowingly signed her on as a 'business partner'. In the second case, her actions create risk for other dancers and for the clubowner without them being a 'business partner' to warrant accepting increased risk.
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I would think to be a successful high-class escort one would have to be able to carry herself well and be able to fit in in many "high class" settings. It's not like the men that hire you want everyone to know the girl they are with is an escort.
http://www.educatedescort.com/
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That was hard to read.
Punctuation would help.
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Yeah, the guys who are interested in high class escorts want the kind of woman who doesn't appear to be an escort, stripper or otherwise belonging in a nightclub. The kind who knows how to behave in "high class" environments, who can hold intelligent conversations, and generally, who is a tad more educated than fresh out of high school I should think. There are men who will pay $1k+ for a date or $20k+ for a weekend at a 5 star hotel. They are few and far between but they are out there, and the FIRST thing they will look for is a woman who looks, acts, sounds (and writes) like she belongs in said 5 star hotel. We're talking La Perla instead of Victoria's Secret or Frederick's, Prada instead of Rocawear, and proper grammar instead of street slang, for example.
At such a young age I'd definitely advise hooking up with a reputable agency as melonie suggests and/or befriending a lady or two in the high end of the business. You will learn alot this way and avoid alot of unnecessary risk. Educate yourself and aim high.
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Ladies- Do any of you have other reccomendations as to other escort sites. This is such a wonderful and informative site, but I haven't been able to find an escort site similar to it.
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(I'd lurk here, read all you can, and post questions when you feel comfortable, but you have to understand, people must be very cautious as to how they respond to you lest it be construed as pandering)
An interesting article:
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again the bottom line is ... Investigate Potential Clients ahead of time, if you expect to stay in business for long. The New York Metro saga describes the way it WAS, with targeted busts being the way it IS.
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Maybe Escorting here is not the way to go. Have you thought about Adult modeling or maybe even Adult films...what I'm getting at is that you want to make some $$$ and maybe this is the safest way to go...just a suggestion. Also, your son doesn't care what clothes he wears, he just wants your attention, it's us as parents that want to give them the best. I hope you will think about this long and hard.
Good luck!
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Originally Posted by hennessy
If you were paying attention and not jus tryin to put me down you would have realized that i know $100 and $300 is not worth it that's why i'm tryin to make those G's and yeah i know that Rocawear is not something my baby has to have but i don't like my son looking like a foster child he's too cute for that so i choose to pay the extra dollar for designer boo boo okay my son will b/c i didn't have nice things coming up so he gets it all. And as far as thinking that every man who gives me money is my boy friend there my dough boys my man gives me money on a regular so don't get it twisted.
XOXOX
Congrats on being able to provide a higher standard of living for your child than what you grew up with.
I'd love to hear more mothers making $$$ talk about the private schools that they've enrolled their children in, the art, and music tutors that they are able to provide and the college tuition that they have saved for. In 20 year RoccaWear will be the last thing on you or your childs mind, but money invested in his future will make al lot of difference in how you feel about your old career.
I'm not trying to jump on anyone,,,, just don't let the money shift your priorities.....At least two of those $500 tricks should be going toward your childs monthly education expenses.
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I agree with Nina. The whole escorting for clothes for a one year old just hit me wrong. Hed be just as happy (and look just as cute) in Target clothes.... clothes last a couple months, an education lasts a lifetime.
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this thread has just made me sad.
I'm not knocking her for being a prostitute; however, I do have a problem with her
a) being underaged
b) doing it so she can provide designer clothes for her son (the WRONG reasons)
c) doing it in the back rooms of strip clubs
young and naive...
this could potentially screw her up psychologically in the future.
but, I'm sure some could say the same about stripping.
to each his own.