together approaching a custy???
A few girls have asked me to do this and now I refuse. Everytime I'm nice to some of the other dancers, they all of a sudden want me to go together to approach a custy. I don't like this, I feel like it overwhelms the spender and I'm not the type to enjoy making a custy feel like he's getting a 2 for 1 deal. How do you guys feel about it?? This girl I had just started being friendly with, now wants to double team w/ me. We have totally different styles, she's way raunchy. One thing she does when I'm onstage asks the custy she's w/ for a tip for me, then gets onstage to play act like we're going at it for just for a dollar. I do not enjoy this and I feel like telling her. What's the deal?
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I work alone
and that's all I tell a girl when she asks
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I definitely prefer to work alone, and prefer not to approach groups. The middle-aged guy sitting by himself in the corner is my prime target. I will approach a group of guys with another girl. IF there are no other potential customers around. IF its with a girl I'm familar with and trust. IF we have similar styles and I won't feel pressured to do something I'm not comfortable with. You should not feel pressured to go with another girl and approach customers or feel bad if you don't do it.
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You look like a teenie bopper when you double up. I think it is annoying becuase most likely I will think less of one of you.
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Originally Posted by leebay88
You look like a teenie bopper when you double up. I think it is annoying becuase most likely I will think less of one of you.
exactly. My point indeed.
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The problem with girls working double is that when they approach, the customer will often find one gal more desireable than the other (unless they are twins or something exotic). The weaker link of the two just might cost the stronger one a sale.
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I would only do a double with my GF, who also dances where I work. We do a lesbian dance set toward the end of our shift, and it *always* results in customers requesting both of us in the VIP - mucho deniro.
Otherwise, like everyone else, I wouldn't do a double I don't think, unless it was a request by a customer.
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Here's a thread I started a while ago talking about using a partner when approaching a pair of custies....
"Ever use a partner to sell dances to customers who come in pairs?"
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=42295
Now in this situation it may be helpful to use a partner. Otherwise, approaching lone customers in pairs may be overwhelming unless you know a custy is in to double dances.
I think in most cases f a custy does want a double dance, he may likely request it, and then you could just grab a friend as needed.
However, if a place is a little slow, and you've already been through the crowd once on your own, it may not be a bad idea to switch things up and see if you can change someone's mind with a double dance. You never know.
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Im happy to work alone when its quiet during the week but at the weekend its vital to work in pairs or more because our main clientele is young large stag parties and they only seem to buy dances if you bring other dancers so all the guys can have a dance at the same time. Iv tried working alone when its like this but all the dancers have come to the conclusion that we need to work together otherwise the guys arent interested. Plus its intimidating going up to a group of 20-30 young guys when you're alone.
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Just random thoughts....
Im ok with double duo's sometimes.
As mentioned,they work great for multiple custies in parties,the more the better imo.
They also work great for the solo custie who ASK for two girls.
But for solo guys on a budget,they suck!!!!!
Many custies know,the price for everything,drinks,convo,or laps just doubled.
I see it very often actually.
Two girls will double up on a custie and do really well one night,then they spend the next week or two running around the room like they are connected at the g-string bombing out on ld's.
They sell about the same number of laps as they each would have,only now its split two ways.
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Unless I'd already expressed a desire for doubles, I don't see how it makes sense to approach me as a pair...
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a girl i work with and myself do this when it's very slow. (read: more dancers than customers) it works for us because we are very similar. the other day we gave a few "double" dances to a guy and i'm pretty sure we made more than we would have alone. you just have to judge by how the customer responds. we both work alone when it's busy though.
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Only if it’s a table of guys.. I think more girls should work together.. of course respect must be there to avoid stepping on each others toes.
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From a customer's POV, I don't much care for being double-teamed. The first time I was double-teamed, one girl was extremely raunchy and wanted to go to the back for extras. The other girls was just kind of along for the ride. Not my deal at all. I wound up taking one back for a lap dance and she turned out to be a decent, no extras girl. The second time I was double-teamed was by my ATF, and I just wound up taking her back for lap dances. I can barely handle one girl at a time, let alone 2 really gorgeous ones. I just might take her up on her offer one day. Like Doc said, it usually results in one girl being singled out and the other left to her own devices. But it works sometimes.
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Teaming up with other dances is not a totally bad idea when the situation calls for it.
Sometimes it's profitable to work alone. Other times (esp. with groups of 5+ guys) it would be best to work with someone. When it is a duo or trio of guys, I will approach by myself.
Just read the situation and determine if 'teaming up' is warranted, basically. Find someone you can do lesbian double shows with as well as just double shows (therefore have a similiar dancing style)... or compliment...
For instance, one dancer who I would team up with occasionally has great natural large tits. I complimented her as I was the ass girl and she was tit girl... we joked that with her volumptous figure, tits with my legs and ass ... you'd nearly have the perfect dancer :laughing:
If I work with a dancer, figure out who will be the dominant of the team. I'm usually the quiet dancer who will allow the other dancer to close the sale... whilst doing my thing subitely (sp?)....
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Hmmm, I used to do doubles all the time with a couple of girls. And yeah, sometimes the custy liked them more (and told me so), and sometimes the custys liked me more and I felt bad. I usually made about the same money as a loner.
I prefer to work to alone--trying to dance around another girl and not being able to touch is really difficult--it's too much. I work better solo.
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From a guys POV, 6 wise words. Work alone, work alone, work alone. I have passed up many of hot women because they were attached to a girl I didn't prefer. As guys, we don't know if that is a roommate, friend or girlfriend. We wouldn't want to hurt your partners feelings so we just avoid the situation.
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Actually, there are a couple of strippers at my local club that I like to get together for a private dance. The reason is they are very good friends and they have a great rapport with each other. And you throw me into the mix...and it's a recipe for a good time had by all. But it's rare...I only double up with these particular two. Otherwise, I prefer to get a dancer alone.
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Yeah, double teamed dancers scare me and that doesn't change if I'm solo or in a group.
I'm the type of customer that will simply walk in with enough cash for one dance and all I want to do is walk around the club to find that one girl I'm looking for, then I'll go and approach her myself and ask for a dance.
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Please do not double team me. As others have said a lot of times I'll prefer one over the other and will end up passing completely.
In fact I got double teamed twice in like 20 mins this past weekend at Scores.