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give me the straight up- are female custies ok?
ok, i want the straight up. i'm a woman, and bisexual, in an open relationship with my boyfriend, and neither of us have any issue with the other getting lapdances, discretely drooling over gorgeous, talented women, etc. also, i'm interested in becoming a dancer, and want to scout out clubs, and see talented women in action. but i've read so many mixed opinions on female customers. of course, i will be polite and tip well. so what do you say? are women customers ok?
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I like girl customers but sometimes you get a disrespectful one. At no point is it okay to try to grab me, jump on stage or ask me to go home with you and your man.
The only other reason I may not pay much attention to anyone, male or female, is because someone is giving me a lot of money. I gotta follow the cash. I'm an equal oppertunity lap dancer until your wallet thins out.
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I think your poll options already answer your question.
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I was at one club once and there was this fat chick there just drunk enough to be bound and determined to get up on that stage. She must have been told no four times before someone finally let her up there (something that damn near made me leave the club, it was disturbing).
If a woman is packing sixty extra pounds of 'junk in the trunk' i don't want to see her naked. If a woman's breasts hang down to her knees, i don't want to see them. That's the LAST stage i'll be tipping at.
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My thoughts on women in my club: It's like bringing your own beer. We have plenty, thanks.
Not that I'll chase a woman customer out of my club with a stick or anything, but catagorically they are worse than a 20 year old Navy kid, in my experience. Half of them in any given crowd have never been to a strip club before and vary between an inspired terror of us and the "ho, get your hands off my man!" type. Women don't buy more than one dance at a time, if any at all, and their accompanying men don't buy either out of courtesy. As far as statistics go, I'm more likely to be propositioned by the woman I'm talking to than the man I'm talking to. It's not nearly as likely that a male customer will be rubbing the arse end of the strange man next to him at my tip rail or flashing his chest to the crowd.
In short, I have and will dance for women and a few are farking hysterical and great customers, but my ledger's bottom line doesn't like them much in general. YMMV.
Edit: I should add this. Velvet calls me the card-carrying heterosexual, a 7.0 on the not-gay Richter scale, but I've had two women regulars. Go figure, eh?
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I think females unescorted in the club is a problem,at least it always seems to turn into one.
As for couples comming into the club,I think its where this industry is heading and I welcome them with open arms.
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Girls at the club are usually pretty tame and fun or prissy and snotty, but some girls will try to make you their entrance to bisexual land (the trendy bisexual that makes you popular with the guys and/or makes you "well rounded and PC and trendy," not sexual preference bisexual). I've bent down to take a dollar with my tits to find myself damn near getting lady-raped by a zealous woman who's trying to turn her husband on and take you home. I love polite, enthusiastic female customers and those who remember that rules apply to males and females alike.
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I had a young girl who used to come see me regularly with her girlfriend.. She was fun, cute, and got dances. At first I wasn’t sure how to dance for her since she wasn’t with a man but we had allot of fun lol.. I think she was discovering her sexuality, regardless, I have no problem what so ever with females in the clubs. ;)
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I don't mind ladies in the club, either. A lot of them are nice, but some of them should stay home. Just yesterday, a couple came in and the boyfriend followed me from stage to stage--the girl was pissed to say the least. She just rolled her eyes at me and gave me dirty looks. I don't think I get it--she liked the other girls?:-\
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Originally Posted by Krazyjane
Girls at the club are usually pretty tame and fun or prissy and snotty, but some girls will try to make you their entrance to bisexual land (the trendy bisexual that makes you popular with the guys and/or makes you "well rounded and PC and trendy," not sexual preference bisexual). I've bent down to take a dollar with my tits to find myself damn near getting lady-raped by a zealous woman who's trying to turn her husband on and take you home. I love polite, enthusiastic female customers and those who remember that rules apply to males and females alike.
Well put - and as a male customer I will also say, as much as I have enjoyed seeing some of the female customers who decide to dance for their boyfriends and start giving their own tabledances (because there's something about amateur tits :P ), I don't know that it's good for the club. What does a place degenerate into if this happens continuously? What would happen if I decided to take my wife and give her a table dance while getting naked?
I voted for, as long as they obey the rules and don't annoy the other customers, I'm fine with it.
Bradford
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i don't really mind seeing female customers in the club, for the most part they are respectful. But i really don't like the girls that come in with 2 of their girlfriends and get really drunk and start to dance by their table. You are in a strip club, NOT a regular club. Don't start dancing and taking off your clothes, leave that part to the professionals.
I agree with Lillith though, most women will try more than the average male custy will. They will try to take off their shirt when you are dancing for them and then get upset when you tell them to put their clothes back on. i just wanna yell at them and tell them that I'm the dancer, not them and i have no urge to see their breasts.
but as long as the women are respectful and polite, i have no problem with them being in the club. I'll talk to them but i don't dance for them anymore. It's just not worth the hassle
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Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM
I think females unescorted in the club is a problem,at least it always seems to turn into one.
As for couples comming into the club,I think its where this industry is heading and I welcome them with open arms.
I agree I love couples.... None of the clubs I have worked at will let unescorted women in. The only exception was when the national womens bowling league was in town.... man did I get some bills paid! }:D
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In my city, only the upscale clubs let women in unescorted. I like to go to strip clubs. I always obey the rules, tip, and buy lapdances. I find it annoying when I can't go because I don't have a boyfriend with me.
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I have a female regular, but she's a butch lesbian and dresses and look like a guy. She very nice and respectful. She's got a crush on me, it's so cute. I have no problem with it, but that's me. Most dancers that aren't comfortable with dancing for women just pass them up.
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wimmin appreciate lapdances more, imo. :)
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I can't stand female custys. When I see couples walk in, I say to my dancer friends "Hey! It's BYOB night!!"...(Bring your own Bitch)....
Of course, there are some female custys who are cool and don't cause drama, but for the most part, female custsy are a pain in my ass.
We had one come in a few days ago. She walked in and immediately starting talking about how disgusting it was in there, how it smelled like cigarette smoke, "OMG look at that girl!!" whenever a girl did some rather "naughty" floor work....her boyfriend kept trying to get her to the tip rail and she kept saying "NO WAY! I'm not going up THERE!"....she even took her purse outside to the car because "I don't feel comfortable having my purse in here...I don't want anything stolen"...gooood grief. Take your woman home, man!
I also agree that female custys tend to expect more mileage in the dances..and even when you're on stage. They just plain annoy me. So my bottom line...I ignore females and couples unless they specifically call me over. If they want a dance, I give them a good dance...but I dont seek them out. Yea, I might be missing some money opportunities, but I'd rather spend my shift flirting with the guys...and let my bi/gay dancer friends hit on the chicks.
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Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
wimmin appreciate lapdances more, imo. :)
You are so right! When I go to strip clubs with guys, I usually get more lap dances than anyone else. My boyfriend doesn't really care for them at all. I LOVE THEM, especially if the dancer says it's okay to touch her legs and waist. All that softness, mmmmm!
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The problem I see is that dancers give female customers MUCH better lap dances than the males get; you can't tell me that they don't! Dancers feel "safer" with female cutomers, BUT, male customers will notice the difference.
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Originally Posted by infra-red
The problem I see is that dancers give female customers MUCH better lap dances than the males get; you can't tell me that they don't! Dancers feel "safer" with female cutomers, BUT, male customers will notice the difference.
That's very true....I get much better dances than my male friends. I am also (apparently) in that tiny minority of women customers that are well behaved, respectful, and spend lots of $$$$$. I don't go in with a BF or male partner. Maybe that helps.
As for the male customers noticing the females getting better dances....all I can say is " WAA WAA WAA" ::)
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I go in, behave myself, don't drink alcohol, tip generously, and give the respect I would appreciate if the roles were reversed. Seems to work wonders for me. If a dancer doesn't want to dance for me or talk with me, that's her totally her choice. I can't get mad over that. That's like me going to a straight bar and being hit on by men. Not my choice, but I don't flip out on them about it. Just tell them nicely that's not your bag and go on about your business. You'll find that sometimes even if you tell them you don't dance for women, they'll still tip you for being pleasant. I do.
Some of the clubs I would like to visit have the no un-escorted females rule. Hurts my feelings a little, but it's the rule and I can't change it all by my lonesome. I think regardless of sex, so long as you act like you have some raising, the dancer will enjoy her time with you more and give you as much as she thinks you can handle without getting all handsy. If she gives you an inch, don't go trying for a mile.
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I've had nothing but good experiences dancing for women. One time there was a group of straight women in my club for a bachelorette party. Now that was weird and innapropriate, since they were obviously uncomfortable being there.
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So far I've seen three types of women in clubs:
1) Ones who definitely appreciate the atmosphere and enjoy dances. I imagine that these will from time to time get out of hand with the dancers, but they really don't bother me as a customer.
2) Strangely I'm seeing more and more obvious gays showing up at Christie's in Phx from time to time. Unlike DSUSB19, the ones I've seen usually come 2-3 in a group, tend to be a bit passive (not yelling and "woo whoo"-ing like a few in the first group. But they get some dances from the gals who approach them and seem to fit in fine. After I got over the initial minor freak out of seeing this (akin to the first time running into an old good friend after finding out they were gay), now they don't bother me at all. Hey, if the dancers can make money -- get happy ---and further spread the wealth of that happiness - great.
3) I've run into a few couples (probably in a relationship) who come in and don't get any dances at all. In one occasion, the gal sitting next to me seemed to be checking out the room -- of guys! In this occasion, the look she had on her face and her body language definitely let everyone in the room know that she didn't approve. What a freakin buzz kill... It was obvious to the guys and the dancers. I'm a regular at this club and usually always have dancers coming up for a dance. This night - no way. Who wants to get or receive a dance with some church lady prude next to you.
Hey ladies, if you're expanding your horizons by checking out what "what's this all about?" - then put on a decent attitude before stepping into a club. Men - if you're going to bring a gal into a club - your friend, SO, or wife - make sure she's comfortable with at least one of you at the table getting a dance.
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Originally Posted by Abagail
I can't stand female custys. When I see couples walk in, I say to my dancer friends "Hey! It's BYOB night!!"...(Bring your own Bitch)....
LOL. guess my husbands a bitch! :D I'm usually the one that says LETS GO! I love going, I love seeing the women, I love seeing my husband watch them (although it makes him a little uncomfy when he knows I'm watching him lol).
I'm never disrespectful, a little shy at first, though I'm getting more and more comfy there }:D I can't believe that some women would come in there and start taking off their tops and/or trying to dance too! I've never seen this happen here in portland. All the couple's I've seen have been very respectful. I'm not sure I've ever seen other "snotty" women either. AND WHY, would you go to a SC if you don't want to!! I don't get it.
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Originally Posted by hannah83
i don't really mind seeing female customers in the club, for the most part they are respectful. But i really don't like the girls that come in with 2 of their girlfriends and get really drunk and start to dance by their table. You are in a strip club, NOT a regular club. Don't start dancing and taking off your clothes, leave that part to the professionals.
Most women I have encountered in the club are fun and respectful. When I see a couple by themselves I think - easy money. They never try to get more than a dance is worth.
Otoh, I had a group of 3 a few nights back like hannahs who were dancing like a night club all in front of the stage and had brought their mom and supposably gay son and straight g/f with them. Thank god the bouncer was good and asked them to stop or leave. The finally moved to the bar.