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Phone Sex & BFs
Another Phone sex question.
From the phone sex tread there seems to be a fair amount of interest in the job. I am most definatly interested. But I don't think my BF will be comfortable with me doing the job. I am interested in other peoples experiences.
How did you handle telling him about it?
If you live with him did you work when he was home?
How did he handle it if he heard you ?
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Re: Phone Sex & BFs
i would hide in my bedroom while my husband was either in the living room or computer room. he said he's never heard me, but if he did, he would laugh, lol. He says he doesnt care what i do because im not sleeping with anyone, im not doing anything illegal and the guys dont mean anything to me. he's a good one :)
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I lost my Bf, and one very big reason was my phone sex job.....Tell him.
Pamela
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Unless a man is supporting me, & even if he is, he has no right to control. It's a living, & $ & jobs are hard to come by these days.
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My Bf and I have been together for 9 years and we have a 6 year old little boy. He's not controling at all. I'm worried about him being hurt. I think he would be hurt because he knows I would really enjoy most of it. I couldn't lie and say it's just work that I never like it.
With dancing it was so different.
It was "as soon as I can do this I am .like it or leave" . I can't be that selfish all the time.
He knows how much I love dancing ; but I can't really use well you know how much I love talking dirty.
I think I need an argument for my side of the case. I can't use honey you know I'm a perv. The extra money is a poor argument. he works so it's not like we need it.
I guess all I really have is " honey I want to do this".
I always end up getting my own way anyway. I think it's just the first time I really cared if it hurts his feeling. Well I always cared but not enough to change the dessions I made. Wow I'm such a bitch.
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Don't worry about loving and feeling like a perv. A few months and you may not think this way about phone sex. Many calls are guys who want to call you names or role play a small child. I hardly ever get the callers that want sex talk these days. I get alot of gay men wanting advice, and women who talk about their husbands who are boring.
Sure you're going to get some calls about sex, but trust me when you hear them talking it's well kinda...Not real, so it's not a turn on. At least for me, it's just a job.
Pamela
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Thanks Pamela your the Greatest .