No, he'd rather get head followed by sex by the beautiful girl, but the odds are the shabby one will actually do it...Quote:
wouldn't a guy rather get a dance from a beautiful girl rather than a shabby looking dancer????
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No, he'd rather get head followed by sex by the beautiful girl, but the odds are the shabby one will actually do it...Quote:
wouldn't a guy rather get a dance from a beautiful girl rather than a shabby looking dancer????
I'd say something like "But it's such a good place, they're very kind to me here" -- although that depends on the type of place you work in -- I imagine for some of you it's hard to say with a straight face.
I absolutely hate hearing this. Who are they to judge what I too good for? This is the one thing I don't have a clever comeback for as it doe my head in. I tell them that i go to uni etc etc and then they are like "oh you too good for this" and I'm like, "well dah, its a job, not a career" but still I love my job, who are they to judge. If it wasn't for guys like them I wouldn't be employed. ARghhhh!!!
So, I'm not the only one who does the teacher thing! Yes! They DO love it!Quote:
Originally Posted by Yekhefah
The most annoying thing about this line is not only does it mean they don't want to give you their money, but it buys them a few extra seconds/minutes of free face time with you while you scramble for an answer instead of scrambling for a couch dance with someone else. It's like not only are you not getting a dance from them, they're also demanding that you defend or explain yourself to them.
I always just agree with them that no, I shouldn't be here, I should be on some cruise ship somewhere counting my diamonds.
darcy.... this is off topic BUT.... i love your hair.....how do you do it????? }:D
So, the guys that responded on this say to take it as a compliment. I've tried that and played it off with a smile (all that stuff) and then the guy gets serious and says "No, get out of this business, you're too good for it." Okay, I work at one of the cleanest clubs around where you can't even take off your top during a dance. I might as well be at Hooter's. How am I too good for the place? Compliment? I don't think so.
^^^ well, just because the guy means it as a compliment doesn't mean he's not an asshole. And if he doesn't then he's definitely an asshole. So either way...
guys tell me the same thing all the time......argggh!
You just have to 'play it by ear' with this one. For the guys that use it as a compliment, close the sale on them. For the guys who get all serious (and moral) about it ... just say good bye to them (and move on).
Harden up people, don't take everything that comes out of a guy's mouth so damn serious... think of the saying 'like water off a duck's back' in re: to 'lines' that they use. The only time you should be concerned with what comes out of the guy's mouth is if he is accusing you of being a drug addict or anything that you obviously are not...
;D
I had a great customer on Friday, yugh. He carried on and on about marriage and children and how much he REALLY liked me, etc. Wanted to sit with me endlessly talking, would tip me well on stage, etc. He didn't like when I danced "dirty" and acted horrified when I tried to sell him dances, because he "liked" and "respected" me too much. Uh huh. He kept carrying on and on about how he wanted to take me to dinner and take vacations with me and crap, but I would have to quit dancing because I'm too nice for it. <eye rollage>
So I FINALLY got Mr. Respectful to understand that I have to make money and move on. He agreed to buy a dance to spend a little more time with me. I figured what the hell, this guy is so clean-cut he'll just want to cuddle for the whole song.
Let me tell you, this guy spent the WHOLE DANCE trying to lick me and pull on me and rub himself against my leg as hard as he could. I was so glad when he got out of there. WTF?! After that whole sermon....!?
Convinced me - these guys are all full of shit. Don't buy anything they say.
ugh i had one of these guys on saterday he was from algeria he said (pardon my spelling) he walked over to the bouncer and asked him for me when i went to him all he had to say was "why you do this" "why you dance for men" these men bad" "you so pretty why" pointed at another dancer and said i like you and i like her and i dont see why you would do this
i wanted to choke him i find that shit insulting i asked him "why do you come here??" really what the fuck!!!
HE ASKED ME THE SAME THING EVERY TIME I WALKED BUY HIM BUT LOOKED AT ME DISCUSTED IF I ASKED HIM IF HE WANTED A DANCE AND DID THE SAME TO THE OTHER GIRL STRANGE
WHY DIDNT HER JUST LEAVE:O
omg! i got this twice last night! i had 1 guy not buy dances because he said i was too cute and innocent to get a dance from. he said it would make him uncomfortable because he saw me differently. whatever, ithink it was just an excuse to not buy a dance. and i had another pair of guys tell me i didn't look like a stripper. (like there is a specific look? i guess they were thinking fake boobs and bleached hair? i don't know.) and another guy said i looked really young- like 16. ahhh! i know those comments shouldn't be taken as an insult, but for some reason i took it that way. i odn't like being told i look like im 16. i don't even dress young when i work.
sigh.... oh well.
I get that 'young' comment a lot as well. I tend to look fairly young because I have BIG brown eyes and cheeks..lol...It pisses me off because I have done so much more in my life than most ppl ever will.....but I suppose they want the wrinkles to prove it! jk....
i get the young innocent thing all the time (every night)... I am the youngest girl at my club (19) and I am quite innocent compared to the other girls there (ghetto club, ghetto girls, i'm the opposite) but still, i don't want to be reminded of that everytime i talk to a custy. I never have a good response either and end up getting stuck with the "i wanna show you the world" speech... UGH!!! I need to slut up my image a little, maybe that will help
I'd have to admit that i've also gotten the typical "hunnie you don't belong here" bullshite.*SIGH*