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OK, I just found a rude comment about me on SCL! I was pissed & shocked but it just sounds like a custie who has a problem with ethnic dancers.
And this is at a nice club.
Tell you what, when I started dancing the one dancer who singled me out for insults was afraid I'd take her money. (Which I did.) You can have a human reaction to someone's hate- it's self-defense- but at the end of the day if you keep on going and doing your thing, they did not succeed in hurting you.
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The scl post got real bad for where i work so they had to call some guy that works on the site and have some girls banned. Its alwayz the hatin girlz that post that rude stuff on there.
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That site is so uberlame. It's like reading comments off the men's room wall. "APRIL SUCKS IT!". It's just infantile. Although, someone...one of our girls... gave me some major love on our site on there, and now i need to find out who she is. But yeah, all press is good press. If they're talking about you, you made an impression.
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My club is going to join the site, paying for services -
We will be able to delete negative postings (thank goodness!)-
I can't STAND seeing people trash each other, whether it be the club or an entertainer. These websites are to help people searching clubs on the web, and it's unfortunate that SCL allows all the potty talk.
In order to be able to moderate a club forum, you must join the network.
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Take what your read on any public forum, even this one, with a grain of salt. If I had a dollar for every nasty, vindictive or just downright mean rumor I've read on there, I'd have more than enough money then I would ever need. The only useful information I've ever gotten from SCL is maybe the up to date club lineup. Sometimes I think club management pays the removal fee if they feel it is in their best interest.
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I just huff it up and joke right with them. It kind of works in your favor, as shown last week in a series of posts about me on SCL. I posted a picture of myself on a post I made and this was the string (I do have a large mole on my arm):
Poster 1: Haylee, that's a sexy mole you have on your arm. Is it nice and hair too?
Poster Me: Only when I forget to gas up the mower.
Poster 2: Haylee, that sense of humour is sexy. When do you work?
Silly boys.
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The rude comments are almost always other girls...jealous, catty girls. It's the main reason that I love it so much here. After seeing some nasty stuff about yourself on SCL, you can come over here and get involved in conversations that really matter. Makes it easier to shrug off the small stuff.
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^^^^ Yep! I once read that myslef and amother dancer both gave blow jobs to one guy at the same time.. Hmmm.. He even put in the date.. Funny that I was no longer working there and that she was working out of state, wow we must be talented to be in two places at once. At least he (she?) said that bj's were great, what a compliment.
It usually is other dancers, sad to say.. Sometimes they'll tell their "friends" who will get mad at them and spill the beans. Most customers don't pay attention to it, and if they do then I guess they really didn't want to visit the club anyway.
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Yo...clue me in here...SCL?
I know I'm out of the scene...but what the heck is that and where is it so I can leave glowing comments to transcend that crap.
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www.stripclublist.com it's a free chat forum to talk about strip clubs.
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don't feed into it too much. That is what they want. I know it can be hard to do at first but it does gets easier with practice !
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I was once asked on it if I had gained weight. My reply was, "Thanks for noticing I'm not anorexic anymore!"
I had a few lovely custies come to my rescue on that one. And the "person" never wrote back.
the comments really aren't that believable even when they raving about certain dancers <-- could be the dancer, ha ha. But it is nice to see how many people will come to the rescue and try to defend a dancer or two. It gives the place a certain unity I think. Plus, custies can send messages to girls on it and we (who read it) will pass on the message or compliment.
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Most of the time it's other dancers making the rude comments. I haven't seen any bad comments about myself on there yet (knock on wood!) but if I ever do, I'm just going to ignore it. I think ignoring it is the best thing-if you get mad and respond to it, that's what they want-don't give them the satisfaction.
It's soooo obvious when other dancers are posting on there pretending to be customers. You'd think they would try to word it better. For example, say there is a dancer named Bubbles who doesn't like this dancer Twinkletoes. Bubbles would post something like this on SCL:
OMG this is an awesome club except for Twinkletoes. She is a fat ugly nasty hooker! And she has herpes! Stay away from her. The hottest girl there is Bubbles. She is beautiful, sexy, and sweet. Spend all your money on her and buy lots of lap dances.
And girls who usually do this spell about half the words wrong.
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maybe try not even reading up on scl ? there are so many other better options for club or dancer resources
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This month they are talking about strippers...some funny stuff....