Originally Posted by skanklover
Is it at all possible to just be honest? Treat people like you would want to be treated. If you don't want to go out with a guy just tell him so. The problem with this whole business as I see it is that interpersonal interaction is reduced to a hustle or what you can get from someone. I know its the job and all and customers should expect no less but my favorite dancer ever said these words to me, "I am not trying to get anything from you, you know I'm married and so are you so we can't date, but I'll give you a call if I'm sitting around in here not doing anything and if your not busy lets grab a drink and chat for awhile since I like your company". And thats exactly what she did and I would tip her and all just becuase I knew she was sincere, I knew where she stood and I knew where she stood. Much better than playing endless games...it also lets you know what a guys real intentions are.