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ok... so I am not sure where to begin with any of this.....
I am a new college student and have been really thinking about becoming a nude dance a lot in the past couple of months. I am already really pasionate of dancing and being an entertainer. I am actually a college drill team dancer ( but i am not sure for how much longer). The point is, I have had friends that knew people who were strippers but I never knew one and I would like to know someone to help me start from the very beginning.
I am talking.... I need to learn how to dance since this is different than what i am used to, and how to become one. I know that my body isnt perfect, but I love it and am working out daily to make it even better.
Basically I am asking for someone who can really walk me through step by step in learning about this whole new world that I am dying to be a part of.
PLease write back on this or email me....
I am sure u were at my position at one point and i need someone to help me get past this and get to a stage to try out on and dance on to entertain anyone and everyone.
:-\
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u obviously go to OU right??? ohio university... hmm. it sounds like your prob going to have to drive to w.virginia if thats the case... bc i don't think there are any good clubs around there to work at.... you need to first go visit some clubs you think you are interested in... you might want to start out at smaller club.... mabye one that is away from campus if your not looking to run in to people.... go in and watch... introduce yourself to the managers and a few girls.. just get the feel of the club or bar before u make any decisions.... there are plenty of girls on here who have danced for years that know what they are talking about.... im pretty new myself..... yeah get back to me if u do attend OU.... i have tons of friends there..
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I am actually from Texas. I live about an hour from dallas.
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Carmen Electra has her striptease aerobics video out there. And there is also "The S Factor", a book that teaches stripper moves. You could be the best dancer in the world, but it isn't going to make you much money in this business. You need to know how to be a sales woman, and then you'll make tons of cash. And there is Skyline services at www.exoticdancelessons.com
Read "Strip City". An awesome book about the lifestyle of a traveling dancer. Also try "The Exotic dancer's Bible".
Read throught the website, and you will find lots of advice on making money, costumes, music, clubs to work at, traps to watch out for, and basic wisdom that they clubs will never train you for.
You should also have huge self confidence, and not wait to be told what to do when working as a stripper. This is not a job, it is essentially owning a small business. If you just sit around and wait for someone to tell you to go do your job, you'll be waiting a while.
Good luck and have fun learning!
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Maybe find a club that's an hour or so away and only go for the weekend shifts. Being in school was something I had a hard time with while I was dancing. I just didn't have the motivation to get to class when I'd been dancing til 2. I also had a FT job to work around so i found a club that allowed me to come in every other weekend for a Fri, Sat, Sun night shift. It was enough to support my fun as well as pay my tuition. My day job has always just been to pay bills so if you can manage to find a place that will work with you on not being in every week or several shifts a week that would be best IMO.
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oh im so sorry about confusing you about what school i thought u went to!!!
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I understand you wanting to learn the art before you try it! it's a smart idea to first see if you can get yourself into shape and teach yourself a routine before you go on stage. As for learning some moves try www.theartofexoticdancing.com and talk to some local girls to see if they'd be willing to teach you some moves on their off time for a few extra bucks. Try to find a pole dancing class in the area near you and even if it's an hour away it's worth it!
Go to a local club and watch the girls, find out how they dance, and talk to them. She what it's all about! Good luck girl
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Paris that link doesn't work for me!
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Thanks for the info that is coming in. I have heard not to go to a stripclub by yourself.... I am guessing that is true. I am not too sure who i would be comfortable enough to go with?? Does anyone know of anyone in the Dallas area that could help me?? It would be much appreciated....
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go w a guy friend and just ask to talk to the mngr. it really is not a big deal.