Re: i need back my hustle
Let your years of experence work for you. So you don't get pity money anymore....SO WHAT!!!! You have stories to share......alot of my more "normal" customers love to hear about the cutist lines ever heard or sickest requests.
Sometimes when I am in a real money crunch, I grab a good friend and we tag team....It is harder if not impossible to say no to 2 beautiful women....plus guys see others getting attention from 2 dancers and they want it to.
Best of luck on your goal!
Re: i need back my hustle
you don't just need your "hustle" back, it also sounds as though you need your "confidence" back!!! I know its easy to compare yourself to a little 18 year old amateur, but you just can't do it... Embrace yourself for what you are... an experienced, beuatiful, seasoned professional!!!
Re: i need back my hustle
Thank you... :)
I think my issues is more in " what am I doing to miss those dances"
now I am one of those ladies that thinks there is a type for everyman. Because we all know no matter how hard you hustle you aren't always going to get the dance, because you aren't always his type.
But I did watch the newbie...just seeing if there was anything she was allowing that I don't. ( anything at all I could use as a " oh that's why ". ) nothing. Infact the custys were more respectful to her lol.
I try to play up everyone by sizing them up when I see them. The pro guys I sit down and cut the chase, the very anxious nervous ones I know I have to soothe first. :sigh: Lately it's been so hit and miss for everyone ( not just me ) that I've lost touch I think.
Maybe tonight I'll regain it and walk in feeling like a gazillion bucks!!
Lets hope :) Im looking forward to work.
:)
Re: i need back my hustle
When having a bad nite I think " thank god I am not in Louisiana, Mississippi, Southern Cali, or any areas HARD hit by disasters." I was speaking with several colleges on a particularily bad evening and to help put things into perspective I suggested, well at least we have a dry home, our family members aren't missing, our pets are safe and we have a club to return to on a better night and can more easily regain money that wasn't there at that particular time...sometimes keeping in mind the bigger picture helps us appriciate what "little" we may have at the momment. My friend (leaving out name) says, "well, the worst that can happen is we could loose money!" That made me laugh and we kept each other motivated!