maybe i'm just doing this wrong. i dunno. but i notice when i act like just a nice friendly girl i've made more money than with the fake sexiness. i've had many a customer comment on this to me. they dont like fake sexiness. example: one custy took me to vip a few times for my funny jokes and kindness and genuine compliments (oh and erotic dancing). i saw another girl trying to butter him up nights later with big fake grins and 'oh so you're single now, tee-hee'. he had been divorced for a few years. he didnt like it at all. but he loved me for telling him about an article i read in fortune magazine. (yes, i know this wont work w every custy)
i will give compliments, but genuine ones. i'm not going to say 'oo you're so hot!' sounds fake. they know that. played out. but what girl will tell you, 'oh hey your cologne smells nice, if i sit a bit closer maybe some will rub off onto me' *smile & wink* 'my god you've got wonderful hair- so many men must envy you!' maybe they're the wrong things to say. i dunno. but if i do give a compliment- it's genuine (and i hear that a lot). i say things i'd like to hear said to me and act in a way that i'd like to be treated. i guess i communicate the 'sexy' part with my eyes (and naked dancing!)- at least that's what i hear most of the time.
any thoughts girls?
