Thanx to all for great advice
:D Thank you all on this glorious forum...The other nite a friend of mine came up to me and was really distraught over another gal sitting on her "main man's" lap.
She was about to leave to go pick up her child (so she couldn't stay long enough) and was 'blocked' from getting dances from this gentleman. She asked me what she should do, so I asked her "is he still here?" --No, he had left, without giving her any time and/or money. She asked what I would do/ have done in such a situation. --Recalling the many wonderful pointers found on SW I suggested to her, "well the next time you see him smile, and state how she felt really bad about not being able to take proper care of him, and that she would love to make it up to him this (next) time." --Her whole demeanor (she was quite distraught) changed, she smiled, tilted her head and said "thank you, that's a wonderful idea!" I explained where I had picked up some pointers, reminded her that she would come off looking like an admiring gal instead of a complainer; for most likely the guy would completly forget about the other dancer...and she would look like a beautiful, thoughtful person instead of a "b*tch"...so thank you all for allowing me to help another college out, and she went home in a good and optimistic mood 8) --very groovy! It made me feel good too...anyone else out there had an approtunity to take advice given here and help yourself, or someone else?
It was a great feeling...she's a wonderful gal herself and I am sure mr. feller will be happy too!
Re: Thanx to all for great advice
I use and pass around thie info here all the time. I am the oly girl on my shift with internet access, so I am always helping somebody else out!
Re: Thanx to all for great advice
Thank you Colleen, you seem like a delightful person...and definately one that likes to help others...truly, a beautiful trait to go with a beautiful YOU! ;)