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My friend does this at work..do you??
My friend likes to find a guy with money (who doesn't) but what she does is she'll tell him that she'll sleep with him after she gets off of work (at around three thirty) at some hotel for two to whatever hundred dollar upfront first but just goes home. she has done this about four times and has been in trouble for it once. i know that other girls at my club do this too. i'm glad she doesn't sleep with them but i'm just curiuos if any girls at your club does the same thing too. it's tempting to try but i think it's way too much of a risk. what do you think??
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Sounds risky as hell to me, and terrible for everyone else in the club. Part of me thinks the jackasses deserve it, but eventually someone's going to get sufficiently pissed at the ripoff to harm her. I hope she knocks it off before it happens.
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UhM, does she not realize that she could get busted for prostitution? Even if she agrees to do it and doesn't show up, she could get into trouble with this. I would let her know it isn't a good idea.
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I would NEVER do that. A girl at one club I book at did that several weeks ago, and the next night the guy came in and made a major scene, threatening to take the club to court. This customer is an attorney.
You NEVER take someones money and not deliver. How would you feel if someone did that to you? Rip off the wrong person and you could get hurt or even killed!
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I agree, I think it's a horrible idea! She may make some money doing this at first, but I guarantee that it's going to come back and haunt her. Either she will get fired from her club or some customer is going to get really pissed off and come back to the club and hurt her. It's not worth the risk.
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whoa you know it only takes one vice cop to be in the club just LOOKING for a reason to shut the place down., and they can WILL arrest you for evening agreeing to it.
Then there is the pisssed off stood up guy that comes in the next evening when your shift is letting out and follows you home
TOOO much trouble
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that is so lazy, dishonest and dangerous not to mention:
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it only takes one vice cop to be in the club just LOOKING for a reason to shut the place down., and they can WILL arrest you for evening agreeing to it.
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Well, it'd be a GRAND way to make you, the club, and strippers in general look really, really bad.
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Whether she sleeps with the person or not, it is legally PROSTITUTION.
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this is one of the 'top things a dancer should never do' on my list. like the others have mnetioned- should could get busted for prostitution. i dont care how much $$$ he offers- NEVER do it. i usually say 'that service is not offered here, but i do provide wonderful dances'- a classy, ladylike reply and then i walk away. besides getting herself, the club and staff in trouble with the law, she's putting herself in danger- this guy could: 1 assault or even rape her in the vip if no one's watching, 2 follow her home and rape or kill her, 3 spread rumors around that could get her fired or harmed by others, 4 cause a scene (the least of her issues).
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I have NEVER done this. I know people who would cut my throat for stealing $100. Heck, I have done bad things over being cheated out of money.
Don't go there. America is the land of spendthrifts and complainers.
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I know a girl who did that and they guy was waiting in front of the club when she got off..... huge scene.
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This girl at my old club did that like every single night. She would come in at like 1 am and not even dance but try to get a sucker to give her 500 bucks. It always worked, and even on one guy three times. My husband was the manager and told me about it afterwards. He said they could never prove it, but custys complained all the time about her and even called the police (who told them what they did was illegal anyways). i am sure she still does it where ever she is. i would be scared as hell, talk about bad karma.
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Leadlips, it would be safer to bring her boyfriend to roll him and rob him in the hotel parking lot. That way she'd probably get more than two or whatever hundred dollars the customer fronted. And he wouldn't come back to the club. ::)
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I would be all over her ass about that. If she does that (and if others do, too) ONE of them getting caught saying that to vice could get EVERY SINGLE DANCER WORKING THAT NIGHT arrested with prostitution and intent to prostitute...among a few indecency and lewd act charges.
I would anonymously tip off the managers. If they don't do anything about it, then it's time for you to make your way to a new club.
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Originally Posted by Tina
I would NEVER do that. A girl at one club I book at did that several weeks ago, and the next night the guy came in and made a major scene, threatening to take the club to court. This customer is an attorney.
Hahaha an attorney taking the club to court would be intresting. "Your honor, I, a well respected lawyer, tried to get a stripper to start hookin and she ripped me off! This is an outrage! .... Yes your honor, prostitution IS illegal but still....my money!"
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Your friend needs to improve her ROB game before she has a heap a trouble on her hands. The custy (mark) should be left wondering if he was robbed or if he was in fact overbearing and taking advantage of her sweet, generous nature. This would have been the first time every for her....
At least this is what I've heard. It would be wrong to do this. ;)
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lets be honest we're all for easy money, but that is a "shameful" way of getting it..... your friend obviously has no remorse for the situation.... she thinks she's slick now, but it won't be funny the day some crazy guy that didn't get laid tries to harm her....
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It's illegal, but also wrong. She's going to get caught and DESERVES IT. The poor (well not poor if he's got dough) schmuck is just super horny and willing to pay....not including violence she deserves what she gets (screamed at, fired, arrested, etc...)
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That's just wrong! She is going to get hurt one day. I have a girl at my club who make dates with custys and ALWAYS breaks them with some excuse. She usually walks out with a grand or more when working but she is going to get hurt too one day. There are crazy people out there!
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I know that I have never done anything like that, nor would I ever. Its dancers like that, that lead people to believe some of the stereotypes about dancers...there is no sex in the champagne room...dancers that do shit like that deserve to get busted on prostitution charges!!!!
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Uhm, #1-- Karma! #2 --Get the guy pissed enough and he'll stroll on down to the nearest and dearest police department and report prostitution occurs at such-and-such a club. #3--The cop and/or vice person (who may or may not be there because of someone's actuall complaint) WILL arrest her...just like selling a bag of baking soda to an undercover--BUSTED, called "intent to sell"...This 'friend' of yours is an idiot! Think about all the bond fees, attorney fees, a nice touch on one's record....Oh, and as mentioned before...she could possibly get some nut job to follow her outside the club and rape, rob, or KILL her!!!
Very, very, very, very BAD idea....for a couple hundred bucks? Ask her if that's what she thinks she's worth? Wowzers!
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I know that this is a thread for all you ladies. However, just my two cents. There are some crazy people out there and contrary to what you may think, even your best efforts may or may not keep you safe. I am a paralegal by trade and part of what I do is track people down. With today's technologies one small piece of easily obtainable information can open up who you really are, where you live, your social security number (less so now). This information can be obtained without following you home. In any event I would suggest being careful. There is one lady at the club I enjoy that makes a habit of throwing drinks on customers who she deems inappropriate. I am sure someday that she will mess with the wrong indvidual. I would be very careful about taking money under false pretenses. To illustrate my point, I once tracked down the high school friend of the mother of one of my friends in about a week and a half without ever meeting the mother or the friend and despite the passage of some 30 years with no contact.
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There are other things other than just saftey and legal issues. Although I agree with all of that, keep in mind that makes the club look VERY bad. The guy may have been willing to spend money to get what he could from the girl at the club. He may of even come back another nihgt. When you rip your custys off it is a sure thing that they are not coming back. It is better to just be honest with them and tell them that they cant get that at your club, even if you know girls that give it. If that is all they are interested in then they can find it elsewhere. Maybe the guy will still spend some money on you though.
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This is one of the worst things to do in a club.Tell her to stop right away untill she gets hurt or gets into some serious trouble.