Re: Manager hitting on me
Just try to act really serious whenever he tries to talk to you. Not quite bitchy- but close. Working in a club that allows that is almost impossible to deal with. You might want to find another club.
Re: Manager hitting on me
Just tell him that you are not ready for a relationship or dating. If nothing else just make up an ex boyfriend who hurt you. Pretend that you just broke up recently. Sometimes honesty is not the best policy.
Re: Manager hitting on me
Don't make shit up. If he thinks you are on the rebound or in a weak spot, a true hound will try to exploit that making it worse for you.
Re: Manager hitting on me
Are you new?? My manager was like this with me when i first started but once a few new girls came in then he backed off, he hits on most of the new girls.
Re: Manager hitting on me
I have been through this too....Just try telling him you are not intrested in dating a coworker and if he doesn't let it go then talk to another manager about him. You may want to see if any of the other girls are having the same problem with him, and go to his boss as a group.
Good luck!
Re: Manager hitting on me
from personal experiences i have found that managers love to try to "get their hands" on the new girls... they are considered "fresh meat".... its kind of like a change of scenary for them.... theres nothing wrong with telling your manager thats its not just him, but that you just really don't want to be involved in any kind of romantic relationship..... I'm telling you from some of my friend's experiences, its not a good idea to date someone from work, especially a manager.. your just asking for more drama.....
Re: Manager hitting on me
Tell him you have a boyfriend already. If you have a big male friend, bring him in one or two nights and introduce him around. Those kinds of guys will usually back off if they see a really big dude.
Re: Manager hitting on me
Well,he's a young guy who is managing a club,and is trying to use his position.Like the others suggested,bring a guy friend in and introduce him as a boyfriend.If that doesn't work,go to the owner and say that he is making you uncomfortable and it's hard for you to work that way.