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How to get more than one song out of custie
Here's a question, do you ask if they want another dance after the end of a song, or do you just keep dancing until they tell you to stop?
I ask, but I've been in a position that I probably could have gotten away with continuing dancing and lost the next dance because I gave them time to think about it. The only thing I'm afraid of there is them not realizing they just bought three dances from you and not have the money for it, or using the excuse that they didn't realize it.
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be assertive, say I wanna keep going ok? and don't stop while your closing the sale of the next dance to keep him wanting. But unless you know the guy will be okay with it, never never keep going without asking or telling him, otherwise you take a big risk that he will not pay for those extra dances. It makes you look shady and if hes shady too, he will take that as an oppurtunity to get a free dance or two.
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My friend J said 'Keep going?" worked for her. Of course she had bazonga knockers.
I rarely have repeat dances. I'll be watching this thread....
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Dunno, I ask them if they want to continue while nibbling on the outside of their ear, or straddled across them.
I never stop dancing while I am asking them, I just try to still be coy, if you will.
Half the time it works, half the time it doesn't.
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I never sell repeats, probably because all our customers are broke and I get the money before I start dancing. I'd like to learn how to sell repeats too, but I never see anyone else at our club selling repeats either. The only time we ever go past one song is during the 2-for-1 or 3-for-1 specials, or in VIP where the time is sold in increments of 3 songs.
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i try to do a very close or the best revealing dance move i can right as the song ends so they want to keep going.
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For starters, make your first dance as aluring and appetising as possible. Don't just whip off your top and start dancing. Make it more of a strip-tease and REALLY tease a lot. Then, when the song is done, whisper in his ear, "That was the appetizer, ready for the main course?". Then, whe he starts bobbing his drooling head, keep going. Just be sure to remind him after the third song that you're in so far for three songs so there is no confusion when it comes time for him to reach for his wallet. :)
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I usually sell in increments of 3 or 5 or, occasionally, 10. It rarely varies. I'm pretty sure it's because most guys have some idea of what they want to spend beforehand. To actually get them to change their minds about that, I'm pretty sure you have to give them something unexpected. How easy or convenient that is obviously depends on what they were expecting. Usually I slide down their body until I'm on my knees in between their legs (no, I am not making an implication. Well there is an implication. But not a serious implication) and look up at them and say is "That was x. Want to do one more?"
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I always look at them as I slide down to my knees, put my chin on one knee and ask, "can we do another?" I think I learned that one on here and it works about 90% of the time. Sometimes they just don't have the money, or really only wanted one dance before they headed home. I know I know. We should be able to convince them otherwise, but I've had guys come back the next day with more money because they didn't have it before or didn't have the time..
I like the appetizer bit, though... I going to try that.
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Thanks for the great tips girls! I'm so going to remember the appetizer trick as well as the sliding down their body part! Good info.. keep it comming! I could really use it lol
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1. Always ask!!!! "More?" "Another?" Ask right after or in the middle of doing something undeniably sexy like breathing on his neck or sliding down his body. He can't say no.
2. If he says no, tell him you aren't done. Be assertive. You aren't done. He has to let you finish!
3. If his excuse is something like, "I better go," "I'm out of money," or "I really shouldn't," tell him that you will cut him off after the next song. (I got this technique from this forum. I don't know which SW member to credit this to.) If you are cutting him off after X many songs, you are doing it for his own good. You are looking out for his best interests. He appreciates such gestures.
4. When you are doing dances, do not tell him the count between each song. He finds it annoying. He doesn't want his enjoyment interrupted by numbers. Just ask, "More?" Tell him the count every 3 songs. This balances his need for pleasure with his need for responsibility. Tell him every 3 songs and he won't feel ripped off.
5. Every 3 is good for you too. After song #6, "Why not make it a lucky 7?" After song #9, "Why not make it an even 10?"
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Miss Cidiera you got one thing right, right off the bat...always ask the custy if he would like another/or continue...there was an old thread somewhere on this site that said "pull slightly away from the 'steamy' dance just before the song is ending"...that way he's all worked up, and if you leave him hangin' (for just a couple seconds before the next song) he will have no choice...so to speak... but say" yes, please go on!" -- And always start off the first song with a natural progression (like good sex!) and let up a bit, then start where you left off, make the second a little more intense, do the slight "let-up" after the 2nd song and repeat!
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The sliding down between his knees often works for me. I think the looking up at his face while you're down on your knees for him gives the impression that you want *him*; or at least that is what I'm trying for. Gives them a nice fantasy.
I agree with the not tallying the tab every time, once he is thinking about cash, it kills the mood and he is likely to say no.
I also like to use the "this doesn't have to end" approach, whispered breathlessly in his ear.
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I actually sold a repeat the other night! I was sitting on his lap, straddling him, with my tits pressed against him; he had his hands gently on my waist. I lifted off his lap slightly so he couldn't feel me against him anymore and whispered breathily in his ear, "You don't want me to stop, do you?" It was an emphatic no. :)
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I'm more successful if I make suggestion, rather than ask a question. (I think in sales this is "assuming the sale.") "Do you want to keep going?" makes it easy for them to say no. I do better with "Let's keep going." And yes, be doing something particularly sexy when you ask this.
Sometimes I feel uncomfortable using high pressure sales techniques, but they really work.
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I usually say something like "That was fun, but it went by too fast. Is it okay if we keep going?" Sometimes I'll make some joke about how I wish they would play Stairway to Heaven so that we can have a nice long song. It works a lot of the time, unless the custy only has money for one dance.
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The girls who get me to buy more dances than I intended have mastered the timing of the dance... you need to make sure that his desire for you is peaking just as the song is ending...what you say is not as important imho
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This is what I do. After the first dance, I will say, "You want me to keep going don't you baby?" or something to that affect (While doing something sexy). When they say yes, I tell them, "Ooh, I'm gonna keep going til you tell me to stop." That way, after the second song, you don't have to ask again.... you can get on a good roll this way!
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Originally Posted by Bob_Loblaw
One more please Lizette
Oh, you want more than one. ;D
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Ladies?
What about situations where the club requires you to get the money first before each song?.. Customers seem less apt to get more dances when they have to reach into their wallet and "assess their financial situation" first. It halts what (in other clubs) could be a seamless flow.
Any tips or pointers?
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Can't you just get money for 3 songs at a time so you don't have to stop before dancing?
Does the club really require that, or do they just recommend it?
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I read this tip somewhere in HH awhile back so I don't take credit for it! It works well on custies who are into more sweet than slutty girls.
Towards the end of a song (usually 2 or 3) and I think he might be thinking about calling it quits I ask:
Me: Are you comfy? *cute smile*
Him: Yes
Me: Good! Me too *and I get real close to him*
........and the song finishes. Who's gonna call it quits now??
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for the most part asking if they want you to keep going works out pretty well. but a couple of times when i ask they almost seem like they are put off by it because ive gotten "do you want to stop?" and its almost like they think you dont like dancing for them. ive also asked, the guy said yes, then he tried to jip me out of the second song. i was like oh hell no, i asked you said yes so you pay. ive also been screwed by not asking and this guy was like oh, i only have 47$ when it was 90$. its amazing that ive been dancing for 2 years but you still learn something new every day in this business.