Re: Performing for your SO?
my b.friend always wants me to give him lap dances, and for some reason i don't get in to it with him, probably because i don't want to bring work home with me... i get shy and awkward with him.. he always gets upsets about me not giving him "good lap dances".. i guess i don't want to put any more images that he already might have of me doing this to other guys... what part of ohio r u from????
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I don't do it because like Kamyrn said, I don't want my boyfriend to have images of me doing whatever to other guys at work. Plus, I would probably get carried away and start doing some super skanky shit, and I wouldn't want my boyfriend to think that I did that to everyone, which I don't!!
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Nope!!!
My mates get hammered into the mattress..no sublety. No ritual.
I dated a great guy whose stripper ex in Phoenix AZ could NOT dance for him at home...talk about sex fatigue.
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Gah! No! Ew! In my mind, dances are not sexual. They are a means of retrieving money from men vulnerable with excitement. They incorporate moves to save my breasts from being touched and my ass from being grabbed. Dancing is both defense mechanism and a distraction. I don't want this in my bed.
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Lizette, you wrote this so right!
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We've tried it and just ended up laughing. But I do strip for him sometimes but we skip the lap dance part and instead go for other more fun activities
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Hmm, well, I can say a few of my exes did get the opportunity to see me dance while actually at work.
At home?
No way in hell.
If I look like an ass in front of a hundred men whom I may or may not ever see again (but certainly don't *have* to), no biggie. I can laugh at myself.
But I'm not about to risk it at home with the person I deal with day in and day out.
I'd rather spend our private times doing things I *know* I'm good at.
(Although, for the sake of total honesty, one of my exes commented on me doing a floor routine in the middle of the bed while I was dead asleep, during the early months ofmy first pregnancy.... I was dreaming that I was at work...)
~~McCain
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Haha, only when I need to practice new moves.... I know he won't mind an accidental stilleto to the eye.