private one-on-one dances
I met a guy my age (23) on myspace who has recently started an outcall service for dancers. I haven't met him yet (but when I do, I will of course be in a public place, with my boyfriend tagging along), but I admit--I'm curious. This guy puts up a website with the dancers' pics, and customers call and "order" one or two girls either for private dances or bachelor parties. Dancer gets 1/2 the price plus tips. I have been dancing in a great club for a year and a half, and I know how to hustle so I imagine I would do fine on my own as well. What I'm thinking is, since it has been somewhat slow in the club lately, and I only work 3 nights a week because I am a student, it would be nice to be on-call certain nights, so I could maybe do my homework, leave for a few hours to make money, and come home, without dancing a whole shift at my usual club. Seems like a convenient way to make extra $$$ on top of what I currently make.
My one HUGE reservation is the issue of safety. How safe can it really be to show up at some man's home and strip for him? Even if the owner of this business gets DL #, that doesn't keep some crazy dude from chopping me into little pieces when he gets a chance. Over emails the owner said he will provide a bouncer for $60 a night, but would the bouncer stay in the car? The bathroom? That doesn't sound like something a customer would be comfortable with.
My other concern is as follows: At my club, guys have to keep their hands on the seat for the entire dance, so I am not used to any touching, although I figure I could show up to this side job and then just charge them like crazy if they want to touch my legs or boobs (no kitty, of course). But what exactly are these guys expecting? To be honest I am more interested in private shows and two-girl shows because to me bachelor parties are obnoxious. This particular business is advertised (all over their website) as: "NOT AN ESCORT SERVICE!" Nonetheless, if I have customers in my *clean* club wanting to grope me even with bouncers walking around, I imagine a if I was in someone's home they might expect at LEAST a lot of touching [gag] or worse...
Soo ladies, it is you to whom I turn!!! If anyone has experience doing private DANCING ONLY shows at a residence/hotel, let me know what it's all about!
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I have left the clubs well over a year now. Went private after that. But, i started my own private dancing. I did not work for a man.
Here is what i did for privacy.
1) i negotiated all monies and what i would do, would not do over the phone first, and how many people would be there for me to perform for, so i knew what i was pretty much walking into.
2) i called a friend on my cell right as i was pulling up to the hotel or home of the party, told her to call me in 40 or 45 minutes, because that is when my privates are over, if i do not answer call the police..Really.
3) I had a driver who was a roomie (old roomie) or a guy friend. Always a man. He would GO IN to the party with me. He could sit in another room if it was a home with the door cracked right there to make sure he heard everything. In a hotel room (see on the phone the guys knew what was going to be going on with me, so they went with the flow) My driver/friend would sit in the same room and read a book or news paper, usually not facing the guys but at a angle.
4) If they are too shit faced and loud when i got there i left a few times. Bull shit on that.
Remember you make the rules! Keep with in the law, because many guys will want to screw you or at best finger you, at least that happened to me alot. They figure they are out of a club she must be an escort i guess, because i charged a good price for these guys. The more guys, the more work, the more $$$$.
Again..Always make sure you have another person with you! Sitting in a car waiting for me was not going to work for me. I have had to walk out on parties being called a bitch, i had my purse stolen, and it does get scary if you do it long enough.
It's all about safety first!
Pamela
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A couple questions for ya babe:
1) Does he have the correct paperwork for this "agency" or is this under the table?
2) How much is the dance/hour? Is this nude/topless what?
3) Who will be your security?
I really think you should hold off from working with this dude. AS "cool" as this dude is, you dont' really know him. I would start off in a more reputable agency befoer I messed with him. All he has is a website, the $$$$ is in having your company in the phonebook!
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Not to mention that he is using MySpace as his website. A reputable company will have a well designed website at the very least as is the case for the two main agencies I work with on the Coast -- http://exotichoney.com.au and http://catharines.com.au
I personally use MySpace as my website because I'm an individual not an agency or company of some sort.
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Seriously, only do it if your boyfriend can come with you and be your bodygaurd, or if you can have another guy friend come with you and actually come into the house. It's not worth getting killed by some psychopath to try to make an extra couple hundred dollars, you know??
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Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl
Not to mention that he is using MySpace as his website. A reputable company will have a well designed website at the very least as is the case for the two main agencies I work with on the Coast --
http://exotichoney.com.au and
http://catharines.com.au
I personally use MySpace as my website because I'm an individual not an agency or company of some sort.
He contacted me through myspace, his website is separate.
The advice you all gave was very much appreciated. I have decided to wait things out at my club, and if I decide to do private shows, I would rather just advertise by myself than work and give 1/2 my money to some random guy. And of course I would NEVER go alone! I'm 5'2" 115 lbs, who am I gonna fight off?!
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^^^ Thank you for playing it safe love. If you still want to get into private dancing, just as a curiosity, just look in the phone book and go see whats it's about. If you're a total newbie, they'll even let you go on shows and watch. So that could help you out too.