Fell in love with a bunch of dancers....
I have a confession, and I need some advice. About 12 weeks ago. YOung cowboy walks in to club. On the first night he slips, gets drug into VIP room by a dancer. she gives him her number. No money ever exchanged. He dates dancer. He dumps dancer. Two weeks later. Dancer B grabs customer and pulls into Table Dance area says I want to give a free dance. Instead we talk. We exchange numbers. We go out on a few dates. I decide to just be friends. This happens a few more times. I now have a bunch of friends who are also dancers.
But there is one dancer I want to be friends with, and she wants to be friends with me. But I broke my personal rule of tipping her last week. It's a simple rule I set for myself. And now I need advice. Would you think less of a guy if he tipped you?
What would be your response later, would you remember. Would you hold it against him?
I really like her. We had a wonderful conversation. She is attractive. She is so bright. She is the opposite of me, and yet she is such a genius. Our music interests are similar.
What do I do to erase this blemish in my brain? Do I have a problem. I love having dancers as friends. They are so interesting. Law Students, Pscyhology majors, intelligent, sexy, and yet emotionally distant, just what I need.
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Have you tickled her tonsils yet?
If yes > You're on the right track.
If no > go here and repost your question.
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So you don't think she will like you as a friend if you tipped her for doing her job?
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Cowboy, I feel your pain. You do them twice and then realize there's nothing else there. Nobody home. No lights on. :-\
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Dude, your IP says you are a student which in my mind puts you in the 18-22 yr old range. The strippers you are dealing with are way, way more mature than you from a street-wise point of view. You are outclassed and doomed, Im sorry to say.
Focus on your education. Get your degree. When you have that piece of paper, move out into the real world, get a good job and make some money. Then and only then visit the clubs of your choice with a fat tip roll and a realistic attitude. It can be fun as hell if you keep the drama in perspective.
FBR
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This made my night. Shut up, FBR, he might stop talking.
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Originally Posted by Lilith
This made my night. Shut up, FBR, he might stop talking.
Damn Lil I was just trying to help out a potential Junkie. After thinking about it for a second, fuck him. I'd rather suck up to you :P My lips are sealed henceforth and I will not reveal any veteran knowledge. You can use use and abuse him all you want ;D
FBR
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Wow, free dances and VIP, and all you're interested in is being their friend. Sooey, the pigs are rollin' in the bullpen!
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I really don't believe that there is some magical strip club somewhere where girls are dragging you away for free VIPS and free dances, and you're dating and dumping them with great abandon. Where do you live, never never land?
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ok...i'll go ahead and be the bitch.
that's pretty retarded to think that a stripper who is working would be offended that you tipped her.duh, that's why she's there. or should be why she's there. if you're so fabulous and they have been giving you all this time for free, i'm sure she feels very special that you chose to give her a dollar and not any of the other girls who gave you free vip's.
>shakes head<
where do they come up with this stuff?
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And now I need advice. Would you think less of a guy if he tipped you?
You're asking us? :O
I have a hell of a time believing these free dance/VIP "just cuz they think I'm hot" stories, but should something of this nature occur, I advise never to look a gift horse in the mouth.
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Originally Posted by liberalcowboy
I have a confession, and I need some advice. About 12 weeks ago. YOung cowboy walks in to club. On the first night he slips, gets drug into VIP room by a dancer. she gives him her number. No money ever exchanged. He dates dancer. He dumps dancer. Two weeks later. Dancer B grabs customer and pulls into Table Dance area says I want to give a free dance. Instead we talk. We exchange numbers. We go out on a few dates. I decide to just be friends. This happens a few more times. I now have a bunch of friends who are also dancers.
Okay, I don't take anybody seriously who posts about themself in the third person, but if your gonna do it at least STAY in the third person.
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Originally Posted by liberalcowboy
But there is one dancer I want to be friends with, and she wants to be friends with me. But I broke my personal rule of tipping her last week. It's a simple rule I set for myself. And now I need advice. Would you think less of a guy if he tipped you?
Are you fucking serious? You TIPPED a dancer? In a strip club! What where you thinking?!
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Originally Posted by liberalcowboy
I really like her. We had a wonderful conversation. She is attractive. She is so bright. She is the opposite of me, and yet she is such a genius. Our music interests are similar.
Similar music tastes? Well that's the deal maker right there, hire a preacher.
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What do I do to erase this blemish in my brain? Do I have a problem.
Was that a question? If so, the answer is yes.
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I love having dancers as friends. They are so interesting. Law Students, Pscyhology majors, intelligent, sexy, and yet emotionally distant, just what I need.
Yeah, sexy and emotionaly distant gets me every time too....;)
Where do these people come from and how do we get them to go back there????
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Uhhhh.... must resist urge to invite obsessed customer to come see me. Temptation to scuttle my anonymity strong. Must resist lure of easy money ...
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Originally Posted by liberalcowboy
But there is one dancer I want to be friends with, and she wants to be friends with me. But I broke my personal rule of tipping her last week. It's a simple rule I set for myself. And now I need advice. Would you think less of a guy if he tipped you?
What would be your response later, would you remember. Would you hold it against him?
Cowboy, Cowboy, Cowboy. You are worried over nothing. If you like having dancer friends, you've stumbled upon the magic formula. We are a very friendly bunch! You can double your dancer friends if you tip, triple them if you tip really well, and quadruple them if you cash your paycheck and bring all the money in to tip. Full speed ahead, dude.
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Originally Posted by liberalcowboy
Law Students, Pscyhology majors, intelligent, sexy, and yet emotionally distant, just what I need.
Hey, I'm a quantum physicist. Wanna discuss Schroedinger's pussy?
-Ev
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What's the deal with these totally clueless guys that keep popping up on here? Do they miss the whole point...that strippers are at their JOB and are trying to make money? Why would you NOT tip them? DUH!