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Wanna Dance?
Okay I have to vent this out.
There is a 'wanna dance' girl at my club.. honestly I dont care if she does it... custys hate it, complain about her and dont buy dances from her. Thats her problem.
What pisses me off about her is the fact she will see me sitting with a custy.. we're in a serious convo and she will walk over throw her arms around him and go 'wanna dance?' then look at me 'oh sorry I didnt realise you were with him'. The custy tells her off and away she goes. Now if this only happend once or twice I honestly wouldnt care but the fact that it happens like 4 or 5 times a night.. a week straight now... its pissing me off. And its not like I can tell her to fuck off because shes the kind of girl that would flatten me. And its not like shes hot either, im honestly surprised she got hired at my club, shes a bigger girl, has like 'rolls' and trashy looking makeup. Im really getting annoyed with this... Okay sorry im done my rant :-[
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I would talk to the manager about it. I recently had to ask my manager to remind/inform mostly new girls that if there is a girl sitting there, you are not invited. lol.
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Its sad she has to be reminded of that. I mean isnt it common sense that if you see a dancer talking to a customer you dont try to hustle them? And she seems to know very well what shes doing.. she looks at me and say 'Oh sorry didnt know you were talking to him' and has that smirk look in her eye.
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It is pretty bad that someone has to tell yher not to do it, but some girls are just bitches.
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There's a time and a place for everything; the club I work at now is a total "wanna dance" club, that's just how we all do it.
However, there are some places where if you go up to a guy and say "wanna dance" it would be considered rude by all.
But ESPECIALLY if you were sitting there... and she said she didn't see you....yeah, unless you're the incredible invisible dancer, un likely.
If I were you, I would retaliate. Next time you see her giving a dance, start talking to her customers and they say, "oh sorry Ididn't notice you were dancing!"
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I have encountered girls like that. the club just had that kind of atmosphere, I was only there 1 night! All the dancers were trying to 1 up each other. Personally I wound;n't pay her any attention. If she is annoying and disgusting custies won't want to go w/ her. You can use this to your advantage. I'm sure other girls have noticed it, and it is a turn off. She is looking for attention: Remember negative attention is still attention. Ignore her! Play off her annoyingness
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Be careful she might be a "Favour". I made the mistake once going off on a girl like that once,I had not realized (till later) she was a "favour".
a Favour = owners or managment letting someone work there as a personal favour for somone else.(buisness dealish) Most times this person wouldn't normally be hired else where,or would be fired else where.
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This sounds more pathetic to me than anything else. You should just be super fake-nice about it. Perhaps take matters into your own hands the next time she comes over by interrupting her and saying, "Oh, honey, I guess you didn't see me SITTING here! That's okaaay! Go talk to that guy, he's by himself! Good luck! Make moneyyyyyyy!" Treat her like the charity case she is.
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Once again, if that went on at my club, she would get beaten the very same night out back.
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Abbeynormal, do girls really beat up other girls in Austin like that? Is that common other places? I've never encountered any 'beat downs.' Damn.
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It doesn't sound like her approach is actually even working for her. She hasn't succeeded at taking any of your custies away right? Plus, like you said most guys see through that and find it unappealing when they are already talking to a dancer. The best thing you can really do is to just feel sorry for her plus it will make you feel less pissed off (which I know can be totally distracting when you're trying to work).
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Rain, I have worked a lot of clubs as some of these other girls have as well. yeah .. In a lot of clubs if you fuck with the wrong girl you are likly to get your ass kicked. When I first started working at the club I work at now, onw of the other girls that came over to that club with me had some shit. She is really friendly and one of those uber strippers. I guess some of the other girls got pissed off because they were jelous because I know she didnt start any shit, she is uber nice as well. Anyway, they followed her home, spray painted bitch on her front door, smashed her windows in her house and car, slashed her tires, keyed her car ... it was bad. I have also seen several girlsget the shit beat out of em for fucking with the wrong girls. it isnt pretty. Sometimes several girls will gang up on one. I have never had it happen to me and never been a part of it. If the owner finds out you take part in that crap you are gone and never returning. Lots of girls cant work at my club because of it.