Originally Posted by Yekhefah
I've had sex with three men in my life. I am not loose. "Swinging" is a slang term for being in a relationship with a person (or multiple people) and having the freedom to play with others with or without your partner. The key factor is that the partner knows and encourages the outside activity, so it's not cheating or sneaking around.
Every swinging couple has their own boundaries; in ours, both of us have to be there for any play involving anyone else. We play with women a lot but haven't found any men I felt like having sex with (I'm VERY picky when it comes to men).