"Can I give you a tour of the club?"
This question is more for girls working in show clubs or where you are trying to 'upsell' to different rooms in the VIP area.
Last night I tried something new and it totally worked. I was talking to a customer at the bar and I offered to take him upstairs for a 'tour'. Usually when I try to explain the prices I have to describe all the different choices in VIP. But last night when I offered the guy a tour, it was so easy to get him to come upstairs!!
I could tell he would feel like a looser just being like 'ok, thanks, back down I go,' and so I got him into a VIP suite no problem, for an hour too!!
Does anyone else give tours? Any tips for this tactic? Any suggestions about what I should do if I try this again and the dude takes a tour then still does not want a dance?
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if you get him back there and he doesnt want one, be polite, after all you did tell him it was a tour. YOu know he is interested otherwise he wouldnt go with you, but he may need some time to relax a little bit and feel the club out some more. i think it is a great way to get some sales!
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I think it just depends on the customer, if he really likes you, and how much money he has to burn. Of course a lot of guys nowadays will ask you what are you going to do for them in VIP?
I would continue doing the tours because someone will bite if you do it consistently.
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Of course a lot of guys nowadays will ask you what are you going to do for them in VIP?
I get this a lot, good ideas on how to respond? I've tried saying it is more private, no interuptions between songs, and more senual/intimate, but I often just get annoyed and walk away.
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I only did it once, and the guy actually didn't end up going, and I felt embarassed in front of the boucners which might be stupid.
But since it worked once for you, I say it might work again, keep on doing it! Why not?
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Originally Posted by millionsof_peaches
I get this a lot, good ideas on how to respond? I've tried saying it is more private, no interuptions between songs, and more senual/intimate, but I often just get annoyed and walk away.
lol agreed!
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Of course a lot of guys nowadays will ask you what are you going to do for them in VIP?
I tell them I am going to give them the most incredible dance of thier life!
Unless I am feeling peevish. THen I jsut ask waht did they have in mind. }:D
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Of course a lot of guys nowadays will ask you what are you going to do for them in VIP?
I get this a lot, good ideas on how to respond? I've tried saying it is more private, no interuptions between songs, and more senual/intimate, but I often just get annoyed and walk away.
I finally figured out how to overcome this one. Describe what you will do to him and why you love doing it... and how it is such a turn on for you. Yeh.. it is SS (stripper shit) however it usually works for me.
I'm a very sensual, erotic lap dancer who likes contact (as in I keep my body pressed against the customer's body alot in a sensual manner). I will go into how my body will be against his body, my breath on his neck (if I'm close enough to the guy I will then lightly touch his neck when saying this), how I will be touching him in the most sensual erotic manner possible.... and even tho' he can't touch (this is a major objection that I usually come against) it heightens the experience. Blah blah blah... it is also in the WAY you say it. Then at the end I cut it off and say "Damn it! Now you've worked me all up making me think about what I'm going to do to you. Let me show you that I'm not all talk... let's go have some fun right now"
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I get this a lot, good ideas on how to respond? I've tried saying it is more private, no interuptions between songs, and more senual/intimate, but I often just get annoyed and walk away.
Really? Hmm. I just say that I'll have unprotected anal sex. Not vaginal. Because I don't want to get pregnant.
I think it's funny. When they say either "Oh really?" or "Really!?" I say "No! It's a dance - what the hell do you think I'm going to do?"
Another one: "Well, I'll go back there, let you touch me a little, and then try to jack your wallet."
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Several girls in NOLA used to say "you will get fucked". Of course the guys took that to mean sex and the girls meant they'd be raping his wallet - and of course the girls were intentionally 'misspeaking'. Not a practice I'd recommend because the guys just get pissed off, and you don't want to be stuck in a vip for an hour with a pissed off drunk guy who just paid several hundred for something he's NOT getting.
I tell them it's more fun, more "lenient", whatever. Most who ask that either are cheapasses or not interested in just a dance so I don't waste too much time on them. NEXT!
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I'd say keep doing it but always have maybe a warm up talk/drink with them first in the general area and then ask in a super sweet way if you can show them around a bit? I think it's a sexy idea because it reminds of the 'special clubs' where a LOT more goes down, but as long as they know the deal, I think it still heightens their receptibility to the sale. I mean, it's the same as a car salesman letting a person get into that convertible, feel the interior, imagine themselves behind the wheel....rather than just sitting in the office all day trying to negotiate the deal. Awesome idea in a club where VIPs are the main goal....
or how about, Would you like a tour of the vip areas, or perhaps a warm up dance or two for starters? lol....kind of puts them in a position to choose, eh?
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I think that is a great idea! Unfortunately that does not work for me becausae my club has just one VIP room and how it is set up (the couchs are right next to each other and about three feet away from each) once you walk back there all you see is girls giving dances....But I hope it works for you!