Stripper got physical... normal?
Hi everyone! Newbie here.
My boyfriend and I visited a club out of town the other night after a show; it was our first time in a strip joint! We had a blast; everyone was so sweet to us. Now, my boyfriend and I swing sometimes and I am in no way a jealous girlfriend, so the girls on shift and I were poking cute fun at him and getting along fantastically. ;D
Eventually, I decided to get a dance with one of the women; she was very curious about the boyfriend and I, and offered to give me a couch dance with him watching. She asked all about what I'm into, if I had been with women before (yes) and would I be uncomfortable (no). What went down was that she ended up getting a little physical with me, licking my nips, kissing me on the lips, nuzzling her nose into my jeans, et cetera.
I loved it, he loved it, and she seemed to enjoy it as well. We ended up getting a few more dances before heading out back to our hotel.
My question is: is that a normal thing for a dancer to get physical with a customer? Boyfriend and I surmised that she may have been okay with it as we were both the same age, gender and I and boyfriend are a very unthreatening and easy-going couple. This was by no means a seedy club.
Re: Stripper got physical... normal?
I'm not sure how much physical contact goes on at this particualr club, but she might have just been a great saleswoman. Did she imply in any way that she was interested in swinging with you? Was her kissing and stuff during your dances or was it while sitting with her between dances? The questions she asked you I have asked lots of women myself while selling dances. Did you see any other dancers in the club kissing other customers at all?
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Well, it's not exactly uncommon, though you'll hear plenty on the Pink Side about how the only girls doing that are whores or extras girls, blah, blah, blah...
I'd post my last experience with a ladyfriend in an SC, but the sordid details would likely relegate this thread to the Blue Side...
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Usually, I'm not like that with the male custys that I do dances for, but if I'm really into the chick and she's hot and well kept, then I might do stuff like that. I definately will if I've had a shot or two of Cuervo!
That does seem pretty normal for the area I work in though.
Normally, (speaking for myself and a few other I know, only) we tend to give a more sensual, seductive dance for women than men, since that's what turns women on more.
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Its fairly normal where I am too. I love giving women LD's.. if they are clean and into it i'll have my fun with them... a lot of girls at my club are like that. Besides I trust the ladies far more then the men.