Originally Posted by Yekhefah
When I was married, I loved it when he went to the strip club. He would get a dance or two and come home all hot and bothered, and *I* would reap the benefits! Maybe you could point this out to him in some way. Like, "Mm, can I get you all warmed up for the missus before you leave?" or something along those lines.
Or if he says he doesn't get lap dances because he's married, just ask him what one has to do with the other. Since when does marriage mean you can't have a good time on your own?