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how do you get lap dances?
how do you ask for lap dance? do you just walk around and ask, or do you have conversation with someone and throw it in there some how? If so how? and if someone says no, do you just say ok, or do you try again? How long do you talk to someone before you just move on?
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Small talk for a few minutes, then I usually ask. It really depends on the type of club. Do a search because there is tons of specific info regarding this topic.
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I will sit down and give the guy two songs to offer me a drink or ask about the lap dances. I usually explain all the cost and rules of the club and offer a dance. I also started using a new sales tactic to sell two instead of one (we have crazy laws here and it is uncommen for any customer to buy more than two or three from one girl). I will tell them 1 for 30 or two for 50. They think they are saving money by getting two.... works pretty good.
Also if they say no... I let them know it is against an unwritten rule to go to a strip club and not get a lap dance before they leave... then i will ask them who they want one from and i will get the girl for him... usually sells me a dance or two. Good luck!
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Some guys like myself want you to ask for a dance right up front. We have no time for small chit chat with strippers. We go to the mall or the grocery store for that sort of thing. Having said that, we won't buy a dance from you just for your good looks. We have to observe your work on stage and decide if you're worth our time and ca$h.
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Originally Posted by kikin
Some guys like myself want you to ask for a dance right up front. We have no time for small chit chat with strippers. We go to the mall or the grocery store for that sort of thing. Having said that, we won't buy a dance from you just for your good looks. We have to observe your work on stage and decide if you're worth our time and ca$h.
Yikes..someone have a bad day?
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^^^not really. sorry if i sound harsh. but i had a good day, actually.
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How can you tell if we're worth your time not based on conversation or even appearance, but by stage work? You mean you only buy dances from girls that do fancy pole tricks even if they aren't cute and you'll turn down a hot girl with a good personality just because her stage dancing isn't great. I' m sorry that just doesn't make sense to me.
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Doesn't make sense to me either. The girl who does the best stage show at my club us a total bitch. Not just to the other dancers either!
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Originally Posted by pinkkitten
How can you tell if we're worth your time not based on conversation or even appearance, but by stage work? You mean you only buy dances from girls that do fancy pole tricks even if they aren't cute and you'll turn down a hot girl with a good personality just because her stage dancing isn't great. I' m sorry that just doesn't make sense to me.
What Kikin said...
For me, if a girl is a good stage dancer(fancy pole tricks, good hip actions, etc..) and is hot, I will go and get a stage dance. Based on how that dance goes I will ask for a private or LD. Now sometimes with my friends we will bet on witch girl is a good LD based on her stage dance and looks. Most of the time if she is a good stage dancer, she is also a good LD. I have had some great LD from average looking girls and terrible LD from hot girls. Thats why we always sample the goods before buying! :)
As for conversation, I personally do not like the," do you want a LD" as the opening line from a girl. I like a little foreplay :P
If the conversation goes well I usually get multiple LD or Privates. I figured even if the LD is bad I owe her at least two.
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Originally Posted by pinkkitten
You mean you only buy dances from girls that do fancy pole tricks even if they aren't cute and you'll turn down a hot girl with a good personality just because her stage dancing isn't great. I' m sorry that just doesn't make sense to me.
Not exactly...pole tricks do nothing for me. They might as well take down the poles as far as I'm concerned. What I look for is a dancer that knows how to move her body in a sexy way: the way she walks up to the stage, her dancing ability, lack of shyness (e.g., some dancers are too shy on stage to spread their sweetness in a customer's face, in cases like this, PD's are out of the question for me). I look for a dancer who's confident on stage, and is genuinely having fun while up there, with a little bit of sassyness. In other words, I watch for dancers who know their craft well either through hard work or natural talent...only way to tell if their dances will please me is by watching their "work" on stage. I never buy dances based on whether a dancer is "cute" alone...as I said before, I can see cute girls at the supermarket or the drive-thru.
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...lack of shyness (e.g., some dancers are too shy on stage to spread their sweetness in a customer's face, in cases like this, PD's are out of the question for me).
If that's your requirement for getting dances, I doubt many girls would mind being passed over by you...
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Originally Posted by kikin
(e.g., some dancers are too shy on stage to spread their sweetness in a customer's face, in cases like this, PD's are out of the question for me).
Did it ever occur to you that maybe we'll do more in VIP for $100 than we will do on stage for $1?
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^^^ Exactly Yakhefah. Dancing on stage is more-or-less the marketing for the dancer if anything and even at that it's not a good opportunity to do any. 99% of the time, the girls are on stage just to have activity in the club and really are not showcasing their true abilities to what they might do in the VIP room etc. The bottom line is that most customers couldn't care less what a dancer is doing up on stage and most customers don't even remember that the woman he is talking to now sitting next to him was actually on stage 10 minutes ago. At the end of the day, the vast majority of sales is done one-on-one in a conversation, not by how well the dancer swings on the brass pole.
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Some guys want a girl to sit and talk. If a dancer sits and talks to you and you dont feel like the chit chat then just say 'lets go for a dance' there are very few customers like you. So we walk up and say 'wanna dance'? Some guys get pissed off and write us off. Seeing as a majority of guys want a girl to talk we do that. The rare guy who doesnt want the talk says 'lets go'. As for the 'girl who shows it all on stage'. If we show it all on stage, most guys are oging to be like 'well I say it all already why bother getting a dance'..
I see your point in some ways but in other ways... if you wanna see it all go to VIP.
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^ ^ ^ Thank you. For a minute there I was getting worried that I woul;d never have a good day again. I'd rather develop my conversation and sales skills and my lap dancing abilities over my stage show.
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some dancers are too shy on stage to spread their sweetness in a customer's face, in cases like this, PD's are out of the question for me).
WTF is sweetness? Are you a Harlequin romance novel or something? Who the fuck calls it "sweetness?"
Oh, and while I'm ragging on you trollboy....
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Originally Posted by tool
We have no time for small chit chat with strippers. We go to the mall or the grocery store for that sort of thing.
You chitchat with people when you are shopping for food and clothes but not when you are in an actual SOCIAL environment? And who the hell wants to chat with strippers in the grocery store when they are highly unlikely to undress? ::)
Eh, he's too easy, I'm done with him. Ladies ya'll can have the remains.
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Originally Posted by Katrine
WTF is sweetness? Are you a Harlequin romance novel or something? Who the fuck calls it "sweetness?"
Oh, and while I'm ragging on you trollboy....
You chitchat with people when you are shopping for food and clothes but not when you are in an actual SOCIAL environment? And who the hell wants to chat with strippers in the grocery store when they are highly unlikely to undress? ::)
Eh, he's too easy, I'm done with him. Ladies ya'll can have the remains.
Your fiery posts always do it for me.
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Err, anyways..;)
Speaking as a Custy, I hardly ever ask, I relax, drink, BS with my friends and listen to the music. Usually I get ignored due to....I dunno, I'd say the wheelchair, but I don't really know. Usually they target my friends at the table before me, if they even move to me....which always amuses the table, since I'm the one with the $$$$.
Those that DO come to me, though, I usually don't wait, I just say lets go, assuming they don't appear to be a brainless idiot anyways. I have to be able to BS with them :). Always at least 3-5 dances since one isn't worth getting out of the chair for, 3 if they end up being brainless, more if they can complete actual sentences and seem to down to earth.
So, yeah, I guess the ones that I see get lap dances most often are the confident ones who don't seem like brainless zombies with breasts.
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How much 'showing' is expected on stage will vary by where you're at. Full nude clubs tend to need a bit of leg-spreading to get people putting their dollars on the tip rail, as far as I have seen.
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^^^ Yep...that's what I was talking about. 9 times out of 10, dancers that don't spread it on stage usually give a terrible private dance (read airdance).
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Originally Posted by Katrine
WTF is sweetness? Are you a Harlequin romance novel or something? Who the fuck calls it "sweetness?"
I was trying to be as descriptive as I could while avoiding inciting the ire of the mods. I've had my posts deleted before because I was too descriptive...Give me a break!
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how do you get lap dances?
With wallet sized pictures of dead presidents.
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Originally Posted by katrina428
how do you ask for lap dance?
If I approach for one, I usually ask, "Do you have time for me?"
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do you just walk around and ask, or do you have conversation with someone and throw it in there some how? If so how? and if someone says no, do you just say ok, or do you try again? How long do you talk to someone before you just move on?
I frequently have to walk around to get the girl I want, I've only been unsuccesful twice. I just throw it out there first, and then rolly my tongue back in. They never say no, except for the one girl who quit, I'm thinking about stopping in there this afternoon to see if she's there again.
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just go up to her and say "hey are you free fro some dnaces" not very hard.... screw the buy her a drink she makes more than me she sould buy me a drink.
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Oh, yeah, Oh, yeah, bored?
Looking for a good time?
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Even more so, after this.
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Originally Posted by kikin
^^^ Yep...that's what I was talking about. 9 times out of 10, dancers that don't spread it on stage usually give a terrible private dance (read airdance).
I don't get it.
So what about clubs that are topless only?
Or the clubs in Texas (part of Texas) that only allows you to go nude if you keep you hand over your kity while spread?
And for the record even if I were to work in a nude club, which I don't; I WOULD NOT "spread it" for some jackass waving a dollar bill around like he's G-d gift to me.
While I am pretty sultry on stage, I am better in the back. Why should I waste my time on giving up all the goods for a buck when I can be in the back for $30?
And while I think I look pretty good (others do do, lol), I am much more attractive to men who realize that I have a BRAIN to go with the tits.
Let me guess, you don't care about women with brains. You want a dumbass that only does what you tell her, since you have to be in control of everything all the time. *SDS at it finest!!!
The only reason you want a women is for a trophy and to fuck something other than your blowup doll or your hand right?
Talk about a classic case of over compensation!!!!!
*SDS= small dick syndrome
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Originally Posted by kitana
Let me guess, you don't care about women with brains. You want a dumbass that only does what you tell her, since you have to be in control of everything all the time. *SDS at it finest!!!
Actually, I do care about women in general...and women with brains in particular. Although, you can't tell by reading what I write in this forum; oh well *shrugs*. Having said that, when I'm in the SC I can act like a dick, sometimes; but that doesn't negate the fact that I am an advocate for women and women issues. At my job, I am at times the only advocate making noise for more women to be hired. When I'm on hiring committees, I insist that qualified women candidates be called back for interviews while my colleagues often unconsciously don't even give them a second look. The rest of the stuff you wrote was probably written as a gut reaction to my frank remarks and therefore doesn't deserve a response--at least not from me.