I have a certain look in my eye's that lets a customer know what I want. I also chit chat for a moment (no more than one song) and then Ill remind him what he came in the club for....a dance from me!
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I have a certain look in my eye's that lets a customer know what I want. I also chit chat for a moment (no more than one song) and then Ill remind him what he came in the club for....a dance from me!
Why did all these customers feel the need to jump into this thread? Seriously, this thread is NOT for you. This thread wasn't about custy's asking for dances, it's obviously for a rookie dancer wanting some advice on how to sell a dance. Custy's I'd like to remind you that you have your own forum here in custy conversation.... that said, to the original poster:
Your approach should depend on how busy the club is at any time. If it's a slow or average night with moderate customer flow then yes definately sit and talk. Make a round of the club and watch for eye contact. When you've made eye contact smile, if the custy smiles back go sit with him. Never sit for more than 1 or 2 songs. Then ask. If they offer you a drink sit for an additional song. If it's a packed night still never ask "Wanna dance?" because the guys automatic response to that is no. Say something like 'Hi, I'm ______, are you having a good time? Wanna come have some fun with me?" or if it's a group "Evenin' gentlemen (they get a kick out of that) is there a special occasion tonight or are you guys just out for some fun? Are you local? Who's ready to come have some fun with me?" Hope that helps!
That's some very good ones Foxey :) I'll keep those in my mind.
Those are good foxey!
I'll say gentlemen too, and they do get a kick out of it lol. The main one I use goes something like...
Hey whats up! Whats your name? (answer) Nice to meet you ___, I'm Rachel. (BIG SMILE)
Then they ask how I am and no matter how bad of a mood I might be in I always say I'm great because guys like happy girls lol. Nobody wants to sit and listen to a complainer.
Then I'll ask how they are and the response almost every single person in the world comes up with is "Oh, Pretty good."
To that I simply respond "Just pretty good hm? I bet I know something that could make it a WHOLE lot better" Big smile and giggle inserted at the end of that.. lol.
Works for me pretty well, but I add in more convo in there, not so straight for the kill.
ALSO! When asking for lapdances, never talk about "Oh god I need to make money tonight my rent/phone/credit card/cable bill is due tomorrow" It makes guys feel like thats all they are to you. They want to feel like you see them as more than money. I hear guys complain ALL the time to me about how dancer girl so and so always talks about her problems and bills. Customers come to forget about things, not dwell in ours. Keep complaints to a minimum lol
Although I know it's supposed to be advertisement, just because we can dance on stage doesn't mean we'll be any good in the back, dancing upright is quite different from that one a couch, in my opinion...
As for asking for a dance.. It depends on how many people there are and how desperate I feel.
Sometimes I will sit and chit chat and then ask, "Would you like to get a dance?" These are the guys that I enjoy tlakingn to and "appear" professional. They usually get more than one.
If we are swamped and I feel ike everyone is getting a dance I will either ask someone to come play with me or grab an arm and playful pull them to me telling them to do so. I don't force them at all, just nod towards the stairs and say "yes, now." when they ask,
There are a ton of ways to ask for dances, sometimes guys want us to sit, sometimes they really want us to ask.. It's hard ot read them, but if you seem to be having a good time, they tend to want to share that good time with you...
Also, sometimes you do not ask... you make a statement that they are going for a dance with you right now. I have found that sometimes making the statement is much more effective than "Let's go, right now, for a dance?"... it really depends on the club culture itself. Are the guys used to 'assertive' hustling or more 'passive' hustling ?? When I say assertive I mean: girls leading guys, girls making statements instead of questions and so forth. Passive.. I mean.. asking.. more conversation.. or even having the patron ask! ;D
I always sit with the cus. for about 5 mins.
I ask them their name shake their hand and tell them it is nice to meet them. ALWAYS with good eye contact and a smile.
Then I ask them where they work (* acting very intrested*) then find someway to relate to there job (* Computer Guy.. I said "O yea my computer has a virus how much would it cost to fix it..*)
Then I ask them if they are single. They respond with "BLAH BLAH BLAH.."I reply with what type of girls do you go for? Blonds Burnetts. The respond with "BLAH BLAH BLAH.."
I put my hand on their leg and give it a squeez. Asking then if I am their "type" of girl. They always say yes.. This is where I giggle and ask if i could dance for them(*and i use thoese exact words, not "wannadance"*).
This is my system and I works I PROMISE }:D s