what to do for a whole hour?
I have been dancing in the club for almost 2 years, and have recently started my own outcall dancing service so I can make more money in less time. I am advertising as "dancing, NOT escort or massage," and hope to use a phone screening to make sure my customers know the difference.
Now, I practiced last night for a long time and could only come up with about 20 minutes worth of stripping/lap dancing moves, even moving as slow as possible. I need suggestions for some moves because I want to put "1 hour" in my advertisement.
Please respond with suggestions of games or moves (beyond normal lap dance and floor work, which I have already thoroughly exhausted)!!!
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Lotion (rub it on yourself or have him rub it on you).
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Originally Posted by Lena
Lotion (rub it on yourself or have him rub it on you).
True for more time.
But i learned you can't really put a time on a private party. They know they will pay for an hour even if they end it at 45 minutes.
Some of this business is a "meeting" too. Don't 4-get to meet and talk as well. If they rush you, change out a few times. Change songs a few times. And sit on laps and shoot the shit for a few with each guy! Get personal...don't make it all about stripping and lotion. make it more of a FUN time.
Again changing out a few times, dancing to different songs for each outfit, sitting on laps laughing, moving a bit..kinda a tease of what is to come. Flirt have fun.
Slow down....it will go quicker than you think. But you have to meet and greet each and every guy! That alone can take 15 minutes. And that could be for 2 guys!!!
Tell them what you are going to do next, or ask the if they would like to see you in this sexy piece!!! They will. Pull it out and hang it in the air...
Good luck,
Pamela ( i am fuckin rambling here, but it worked for me)
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Oh, I just assumed that she was talking about private shows for one customer rather than parties.
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Oh I know, stripping produces the longest minutes & hours in one's life...LOL
Chit-chat, lotion, role-playing, change CDs often. Babble like a airline stewardess on Benzedrine. Have a few "theme" outfits.
PS Have a third party (friend, roommate, driver, etc.) you call BEFORE the show in front of the customer to show him someone knows where you are & is expecting you back on time.
& Check the custie's ID against the house address. Be safe!!!
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Originally Posted by Lena
Oh, I just assumed that she was talking about private shows for one customer rather than parties.
I am talking about private one-on-one shows. I'll be bringing a second dancer to bachelor parties.
The lotion is a really good idea...please keep them coming!
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Don't know how far you want to go with this, but you could use toys on yourself? Just don't let him touch. But that is more than dancing so I am probably wrong.
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Oh sorry it was rare i got a request for one guy!
Anyway use alot of detail...You may have to cut down to 45 minutes...that is what i did. But charge what you will anyway!
Good luck,
Pamela
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Don't know how far you want to go with this, but you could use toys on yourself? Just don't let him touch. But that is more than dancing so I am probably wrong.
True...find out about laws and tips during or after a show. If you're comfortable i did shower shows and dildo shows as well.
Pamela
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If you want to not spend a full 45min-1hr with him why not give him the option of "getting more comfortable"
When I was private dancing, we would give the client the option to do this for extra tip money, which was in the form of at LEAST $100. Basically "getting comfy" is giving him the lotion to please himself while I danced.
When he would get done "pleasing" the show would be over. The fastest I ever got out of a show was after 10min!!! Piece of cake!
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from what I heard about privates, most of them masturbate...so it's more about how long he lasts, which is normally even less than 45 minutes...and MOST guys want to get you the hell out of there right after they finish, so you could seriously be there for just twenty minutes
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from what I heard about privates, most of them masturbate...so it's more about how long he lasts, which is normally even less than 45 minutes...and MOST guys want to get you the hell out of there right after they finish, so you could seriously be there for just twenty minutes
This can happen i guess, never had it happen. With a properly conducted show, rarely will this ever happen!
They pay the FULL price for the minutes the party is supposed to last up front, even if it ends earlier due to them. One rule...you never end a party before the pay is up!
Good luck,
Pamela
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The time is not the issue, nor is the show... it's all about the $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$.. when that stops, so does the performance. start slow with out dancing, just undressing him and talking about whatever is on his mind, listen to him the way his wife doesn't!! then slowly start to dance and stop every so often to chat a little more and feel him out for tips. Charge xtra for everything!!! the less you charge the harder it is for the next girl to make her Qouta. It sounds confusing, but for those of us who have made a career of private entertainment it suck when a guy says " oh well so-and-so let me get all that for just $100... why do you charge xtra?" all innocence... You will ruin a good-paying client by not taking every cent he's willing to spend, and most of the hustle is in how you lisaten and respond, not in how you dance.
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im sorry if this sounds rude or anything, but how is this fun for a man? A whole hour of teasing, when frankly he could probably hire a callgirl for a little more and have a lot more! I'd like to hear from a guy, how this is fun?!
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The time is not the issue, nor is the show... it's all about the $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$.. when that stops, so does the performance. start slow with out dancing, just undressing him and talking about whatever is on his mind, listen to him the way his wife doesn't!! then slowly start to dance and stop every so often to chat a little more and feel him out for tips. Charge xtra for everything!!! the less you charge the harder it is for the next girl to make her Qouta. It sounds confusing, but for those of us who have made a career of private entertainment it suck when a guy says " oh well so-and-so let me get all that for just $100... why do you charge xtra?" all innocence... You will ruin a good-paying client by not taking every cent he's willing to spend, and most of the hustle is in how you lisaten and respond, not in how you dance.
Just an FYI on some of the advice. In my county or perhaps state, after consulting with an attorney about doing private dancing, he says do not accept any money for something extra. Negotiate the money before the party, accept no tips for say a dildo show, etc.... All money up front.
I followed these rules and never had a bust.
I am sure this does not apply for all counties or states...or perhaps not even mine...but it's a cover your ass kinda thing.
Pamela