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Working with sluts
I use the term slut loosely so sorry if i offended anyone. I work in a no contact club. The rules were explained to me that you aren't suppose to be all up on the customers when taking a tip. there is a girl i work with who goes insanely out of her way to take tips, she is also the girl that tells the customers not to tip the other girls and such. It's driving me as well as the other dancers nuts. she's not the only one doing it, but she is the worst. I just think that it's doing to much for $1 and it makes it harder for us other girls to get just a dollar. So this leads to my question...how do you out hustle the slut? I've tried the nice girl approach and i always try and help everyone make money..i go tip girls..things like that. but i'm at my wits end with this girl. how do I and the rest of the girls conquer this.
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Are there more 'slutty' girls then there are straight up girls? Either I would talk to management and discuss that this practice is illegal. If they dont care and could care less about people getting in trouble than I would change clubs. No need to lower your standards or cheapen yourself for a buck extra.
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thank you for the replies....management has already warned her...infact i think the county also warned her with a $500 fine...should some of us tell the management it's her or us? or is that too extreme
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You worry about yourself, imo if you are stressed about what she is doing you will make less no matter what. Concentrate on your hustle and what you can do to be better. Don't compare yourself or your earnings to hers. If you have problems getting $$ b/c she is doing more , deal with it, it's not her problem to care about how much money you make.
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Have you talked to any of the other girls about it yet? (I mean the ones you trust.)
Maybe you guys could show her passive agression by not tipping her and tipping everyone else. This will also show the guys that there's something not right about her, since she's not included.
What I mean by tipping is make the guy you are sitting with give you a dollar to tip every girl you see on stage but her. Have all the other girls do this as well. The custys will see that every girl but her is getting tipped by all the girls, and know something is up. She will also get the hint.
I would try that first, and if it doesn't work tell mgmt, if that also fails, then I would call the county. If she won't straighten up on her own, and mgmt won't help the law will.
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If she keeps on getting those $500 fines, she won't be dancing long.
We all work with a few girls who break the rules. As irritating as their behaviors are, try to ignore them. The more you pay attention to them, the less you make. If everyone but you is breaking the rules, then you need a new club.
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I wouldn't stress over her. I feel sorry for the "slut" girls,it's the only way they can make a buck. Dont hate them,it's all they know.
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So she's not the worst? Other's doing the same? Why is she a slut? Is she fucking everyone else? I HATE derogatory terms used so goddamned fucking loosely. Agghhh!!! We bitch and bitch. Please explain EXACTLY why she is a SLUT.
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I would try to just ignore her and concentrate on yourself. I know it's hard- I work with a girl who is always kissing customers on the lips when she thinks others aren't looking, she lets guys lick her, etc. I hate working with her, as do other girls I work with. But I try to just concentrate on myself and how much I'm making, rather than sit and be bitchy about how she is acting. If my money was impacted to the point where I was barely making anything, then I would switch clubs. But I'm still making good money. I'm sure she's making more, but I'm still doing really good, so I'm not too worried. If you're money is strongly impacted, switch clubs, but otherwise, try not to worry about it. Pretty much every club you work at will have a girl who likes to push the limits.
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there are one or two girls at my club who do this kind of stuff too.
i'll be sitting near the vip room and catch a glimpse of one of them with their pussy near a guy's face, or they are grinding the hell out of him...which is a big NO NO in our low contact club.
I just worry about my own money and try extra hard to make my own tips. I play by the rules and I know this will be the key to my longevity in the business.
I'm not saying it doesn't bother me to some extent...I can't deny that...but management lets them get away with a little more than most because they make a lot of money off the so-called "sluts".
It's just something we deal with and try to ignore.
I'm never mean to these girls, or passive aggressive either....this way, they end up sharing their customers with me (which is common with the girls in our club). I'm not judgemental about the things people decide to do for money, but I would like to see a little less of this "slutting" going on.
I don't want to get them in trouble or have them arrested. Those things always come back to bite you in the ass.
I guess the best thing to do is strengthen your hustle techniques. Become more bold with the things you say, or just be more friendly. I find that these girls don't have winning personalities most of the time - all they know how to do is throw themselves at a guy. It's kind of sad really, because they are doing so much for so little.