Re: How to Hustle the Knight in Shining Armor?
IMO you don't need to put on some big act for a guy like this. Just color your regular persona a shade more vulnerable. Make big eyes and bite your lip. You probably already know how to do this if you think about it.
I don't usually make up complicated stories with customers, because then you have to keep track of what you've said to who. Keep them doing most of the talking, and let them assume what they want. They'll project their own fantasy onto you, which is better than anything you could make up, anyway.
I guess if a customer seemed like a real sucker you could ask for $5,000 for a kidney operation or whatever. But I would just keep asking for dances/VIPs/CRs until the money was all gone. If he decides he's rescuing you, it might make him spendy.
Re: How to Hustle the Knight in Shining Armor?
Relayer hun, you're trying to use your own preferences to make judgments about why other custies seek out dumb strippers and it just doesn't work. This is, IMO, one of those times where the custy can't possibly understand because he hasn't dealt with 1000s upon 1000s of custies the way a veteran stripper has ;)
A whole lot of custies do have some serious ego problems and they come to the strip clubs for 'help' with that. We see it every single night.
Generally speaking, the guys who are more turned on by intelligent women have a better handle on their egos and self-confidence.
Guys don't become dumb in strip clubs, if anything they simply let their true asshole colors show. A guy who thinks he'll beat a stripper at her game may be pretty dumb ITC, but I'll bet my eyeteeth he's none too bright OTC also ;D
Quote:
Keep them doing most of the talking, and let them assume what they want. They'll project their own fantasy onto you, which is better than anything you could make up, anyway.
A very good point which I could probably stand to keep in mind sometimes. I don't make up stories either, but sometimes I find it hard to avoid telling it like it is...
Re: How to Hustle the Knight in Shining Armor?
Quote:
Generally speaking, the guys who are more turned on by intelligent women have a better handle on their egos and self-confidence.
Why, thank you, B.
;)
Re: How to Hustle the Knight in Shining Armor?
In my years of experience, those who flash the money don't ever spend it....actually they're some of the cheapest guys around! The guys who pretend to not have a lot of money are usually the ones to go after..afterall, they are at the strip club for a reason. One of the cheapest customers I ever danced for is a legendary baseball hall-of-fame player who now owns part of one of the best teams in the US! I'll never forget how cheap he was...he actually wanted a discount and I had no clue who he was until the girl next to me yelled "Did you know that _______" is here?" and his face went white.
Re: How to Hustle the Knight in Shining Armor?
["You know the type. They want to take you away from it all. They think you're way too nice/smart/great to be a dancer. You don't have to do this for a living. You're not like these other girls. Etc."]
I dont think you should give him anything other that a simple thank you and cheeky smile. You are still a fantasy and an enigma to him. Be elusive, ie. close enough to touch but to far to feel. This behavior will support his fantastic thoughts for as long as you need. He is wondering two things right now:1)"Does she need my help?' (How much money will she take/accept?) or 2) Is she one of those 'independant' women that don't need [me] help."
Be attentive enough for him to feel special, but briefly direct your attention elsewhere from time to time. Give him a 'progress report' on his rescue attempts. When conversation gets slow or if he gets handsy...(anything really).... walk- a few steps away, as you very slowly close the space. Tell him about your "secret fantasy". Tell him today felt like some naughty-girl daydream. Being on a stage surrounded with people for your entire set, and the amount they tipped was truly an ego-boost to say the least. If you get to a point where a second article of clothing is removed, and he still hasn't made your garter usefull", invite him to join your "fantasy." With a great strip tease performance, he will probably go through the money quickly, and feel totally exausted when it;s time to go........... (sigh) he almost rescued you.
If you have the patience, people like him could become your true VIP's.
Re: How to Hustle the Knight in Shining Armor?
Quote:
Originally Posted by Bridgette
Generally speaking, the guys who are more turned on by intelligent women have a better handle on their egos and self-confidence.
All I know is intelligent women that are open about it, and can actually back it up, are inspiring and rare. The more I know the better. Actually, add opinion in there too. If you have an opinion and can have reasonable discourse. Inquire within. A free dinner is included in your interview.
It's seriously getting harder and harder people. Pick up a book!
The bad decision is that if you want to feel thin, you should hang around fatter people. The good decision is that if you want to always learn, surround yourself with people smarter than you.
Now....back to our regularly broadcasted network programming.
Re: How to Hustle the Knight in Shining Armor?
Quote:
Originally Posted by AutumnLeaves
I had a bunch of guys come in last night, pot growers from Humboldt county. .
Suhweeet.
I knew sooner or later I'd be able to contribute. I know these boys and what makes them tick. It ain't pussy. It's the best fucking ganja on the planet. Speak Humboldt chronic to them and watch their dicks get hard. No joke.
Get a copy of High Times. Learn it. This is their Penthouse, Playboy, Hustler, Barely Legal, and Big Asses stroking mag all in one. Complete with the bud-fold and phony sappy letters about great buds readers smoked.
True Humboldt growers are very talented, very crazy, and very rich, mofos. They had a fucking great year, with better buds than any hydro, mex, maui, or thai I've ever seen.
They like buds the way custys like strippas -- full of sweetness and power. Talk their talk and you will own them.