I would like to let everyone know that this is going to be a very long post before you start reading..
This is really hard for me to talk about but I really need some advice on how to handle this. Last week my car broke down when I was driving up to work in Baltimore and it's an older car (1994 nissan) which needs a new engine again. The price to pay for a new engine would be $1000 and it's just a waste of money so I'm going to donate it. I have another newer car but I'm letting my mother use it because she doesn't have one to drive at the moment but is in the process of finding another one. Since I don't have a car I won't be able to get up to Baltimore because I live close to the D.C. area. So, tomorrow I'm going down to D.C. to check out Camelot but I'm not holding my breath because I know it's very hard to get on the schedule..I'm also a smaller figured girl and I think my dancing is good but I'm not very good at doing the pole tricks. I really would like to work there thou. I went to Crystal City to audition there a little over a month ago and the manager was just a complete bitch. She told me to go find someone who would let me take their place for the hour to audition.. I ended up having to wait an hour before I could go up and then when I did go up, she wasn't even looking at me! She then takes my picture without even asking me first when I go over to her..says well, I have alot of girls working here but I'll keep you on the file and then turns away and says nothing else!
The last club I worked at was pretty good money for me but there was alot of crap that went along with it. The waitresses of the club try to push these $20.00 drinks on the customers when the girls sit with them. I would usually sell about 8 or 9 a night but the owner's wife would tell me to try and sell more! The club has alot of foreign hispanic guys who try to get too grabby with you also. One of the other girls was spreading rumors to everyone that I was doing extras with the customers.. because she didn't like me for whatever reason.. I think she did it because I was a quiet person and she thought she could just get away with making things hard on me. Before I stopped working there, there was this guy I was seeing at the time and we had been seeing each other off and on for a little over 5 years. I never thought of him as the guy who would get into trouble but this is what happened. There was another dancer standing outside of the club late at night who was drunk and pushing around one of the guys who worked there.. She was about 5'8 and 180 pounds and the guy was really short.. about 4'11 and a little stocky. After the third time she pushed him to the ground my boyfriend at the time came over to her and told her that she didn't need to be pushing him like that. The girl also had her boyfriend with her and he was a big guy who was in the army. Her boyfriend told her that none of this concerns him..and she turns around and says to mind your own fucking business and she goes over and kicks him in the knees.. My boyfriend at the time was not very big either..he was 5'7 and about 120 pounds. He said to her that if she does it again then he will fight back and she does it again..and he hits her in the face and they began fighting each other and her boyfriend gets in the fight etc.. Then the police came and stopped it.. she went to the hospital but he told me that she didn't need to go.. the police just broke the thing up and they all left. After that happened most of the girls didn't like me after that because I was seeing him at the time.. and they saw me as being involved. Alot of them didn't talk to me and others would just say mean things.. and then these horrible things started being said about me on the stripclublist.com and I knew it was the girls who didn't like me any longer or they had their customers saying it on there too. The one girl who was in the fight and one of her good friends who worked there would talk about me to their customers and they would talk so loudly so I could hear what was being said. It was just horrible. I worked there for about 7 months and I left right before the summer of this year. I left at the time because I felt like the money was getting really bad and I thought I'd try it out somewhere else.. I think it was because it was getting close to summer so there's a chance things could have improved. When I left I didn't say anything.. I just never showed up again so I don't know if they would hire me again or not. I'm going to go ahead and not type anymore for now.. but how would you guys handle this situation? If I go back to the old place I worked at then my plan was to not say anything to the other girls who work there.. ignore them.. and make my money. If they get smart with me then I'll just continue to ignore them and say nothing.
