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I hate to be blunt but are you sure you are smelling like roses at all times. If so, then forgive me and lets move on to other theories:
1.) Bored
2.) Time (I have to go)
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^^^ 3) he just 'splooged' in his pants therefore has no further need for your continual grinding on his lap. <--- most likely reason, imo.
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haha, yes, I am quite sure I smell nice. I am a hyper self-conscious gal, and I refuse dances to guys who smell bad (too much cologne, etc) in fear that the smell will rub off on me. I always have nicely smelling hair and skin (check in the changeroom constantly), but wear nothing overpowering (a little body shop vanilla spray, which seems relatively unobjectionable). Thanks for the feedback though.
and usually I would think I could tell if they came, because that creeps me out (I do very little grinding), but thank god for the towel. Yeah, hadn't thought of that one...
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...I always have nicely smelling hair and skin (check in the changeroom constantly), but wear nothing overpowering (a little body shop vanilla spray, which seems relatively unobjectionable)...
ah yes, i like nice-smelling strippers. it is a turn-on. I used to think all strippers smell alike when i was a SC novice about 3 or 4 months ago, but now I can actually detect minute subtleties in the perfume that strippers wear. The downside, however, is that i am no longer impressed by the scent emanating from their bodies/hair. But I digress; let's get back to the thread topic at hand.
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^^^ 3) he just 'splooged' in his pants therefore has no further need for your continual grinding on his lap. <--- most likely reason, imo.
That was my guess...
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I'm with Kikin on this one. Once the slooge monkey is out it can be quite painfull if you keep grinding on it.
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I admit to ending the dance early a few times for other reasons, but the splooge thing is a likely culprit with some customers, especially the young bucks who have no control ;)
FBR
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I concur - he splooged in his pants.
I remember when I started and was similarly confused, so I went into the dressing room and asked. All the other girls laughed at me.
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I've got to agree with the "splooge theory"
A. The guy got off and had enough for the night.
or
B. The guy stopped so he wouldn't make a mess of himself.
Either way, he's a satisfied customer. ;)
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He left the iron on :/
;D;D;D;D;D
Now that was funny, thanks I'm laughing my ass off
Or perhaps he had to feed the meter...
Reaaally had to go to the bathroom...
There must be other possibilities besides the splooge factor, but probably not.
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Ok, I'm a naive little girl. Thanks all. (and now I am ever so more grateful for my towel)...
but honestly, I'm not a big grinder, though I guess it happens anyhow.
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I've told my ATF to air dance before because I was getting too warm and was beginning to sweat.
Have told the dancer let's take a break between a few songs because I don't want to have an accident.
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omg true story
I had to peeeeeee soooooo bad, but this one girl was in high demand, so I bought dance 1 through 3 and thought I was going to forced to pee if I didn't relieve myself, so I bought a dance and went and pissed during it.
Now THAT'S Niave.
Mast
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holy sheesh! I didn't pee ON her.... all I did was pay for her to wait a dance in fear she'd find someone else!
Mast!
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He suddenly had to do a number 1 or 2 or the gaseous equivalent.
He got a beeper call.
He was embarassed about getting hard.
(I don't know about splooging because it has never happened to me.)
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molly, the reason they leave early because they know what you think and they don't like it. This usually happen after a small chat during your dance in CR. The way you answer, your behaviour, your face... that turn them off because they know you are lying. They just want to stop, they know you don't want to dance/lie/being touch... or something else that fake and don't want to use their money to make you do thing that you don't want to . But dont worry, they will not be angry because they understand this is a part of your job. Those people are very rare, they are usually men who is respected or with high reputation(Dr, Manager, Leader... I mean people with mind reading skill), money is usually not their problems (this is why they usually very nice and tip you some extra, but not much. They are not kind of people who think "Hey, here is money, pretend you like me so I will be happy" , but once you make them like you , they willing to spend money on you.
I have a friend like this. He is barely laugh when watching comedy shows or movies. He tells me they are so fake, and when he does, it must be a very good acting one.(well, the guy works in HR for a big company, his job interview peole and tell who lying) So what to do with them ? Recognize them first when they talk nicely , look straight to your eyes, smile enigmaticly. Well, just don't tell them handsome if they are not. Don't ask them what gym they go to if they out of shape, well , just tell the true or talk about general things...When they ask you something ,just smile when you don't want to answer (dont make up one, they know).
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[QUOTE=GuyPOV]I hate to be blunt but are you sure you are smelling like roses at all times.
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You GOTTA be kidding me!
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AAAHHHH pants splooging , I felt soooo old after reading this thread, mostly because it got me thinking, its been over 12 years since I did that , I guess my hair trigger has become rusty.
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i normally only end a dance early when i see the BATSIGNAL.
Perhaps he was batman?
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I've had a few leave because they were so drunk they thought that when I stood up, it was over.. and a few didn't want to puke on me, I thanked them for those times.
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Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
He left the iron on :/
he he, or he had a roast in the oven.
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You know, there have been many times I have wished a guy would just get up and leave. As long as I've been paid, I really don't give a crap where he goes. It doesn't effect my self esteem. People are strange and do strange things. I would just move on to the next!