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Interesting responses- yeah, it doesn't bother me much. I was just curious...sometimes it seems like they suddenly get there and don't feel like having a dance after all...or I don't know. Meh.
And yes, I suppose it could've been batman. Who am I to stand in the way of crimefighting?
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maybe he had to go to the little boys room,like pronto......or he just had enough.
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I have stopped PDs twice:
Once due to her bad breath and once a BBW slammed her ass into me so hard that I got whiplash.
The older I get the more I appreciate a slow, up close air dance with light contact.
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I hate to be blunt but are you sure you are smelling like roses at all times.
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You GOTTA be kidding me!
There are more than a few stinky strippers out there. And not the good stinky kind either.
I go with the person who talked about it being overly fake. I remember a dance from one girl I was getting such bad vibes off of - it felt like there were worms between us - I just wanted to be away from her. And I ain't even a hard core club goer like some of you are!!!
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Something like a 'bad vibe' between us, I would understand. There are men who I am clearly not comfortable dancing for- they're just creepy, and I make no strong effort to act like I am enjoying the dance if I am very uncomfortable. However, these guys always seem to keep buying dances! Much to my surprise, and disapointment.
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I'll add that maybe the customer *hasn't* splooged in his pants but just can't take it any longer so is off to rub one out in the boys' room.
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This has happened several times over the years I've danced.
I've had a few custies stop dances early because they had to go pee, or because they were "finished" or about to (told me so, anyway). One was an instance like Mast's, except he thought he could do the dance first, he apologized profusely but he got so uncomfortable, he had to get up to go, mid dance. Poor guy, it was kinda funny though, he took off like a bullet lol. He came back, apologized some more, thanked me for my patience, and bought some more dances (which he stayed for).
A few have left the dance because their friends were waiting, and getting impatient (that was an obvious one - they were *at* the booth pestering us!)
Those sort of instances seem the most common, at least for me, usually during multiple dances. The guys often will offer an explaination. Many have come back for more later or another night. Sometimes they don't say anything, though, so you never know.
I took a guy back to the ld area once who was really hammered, he got up and wandered out of the booth before the dance even started lol. Good for me I was paid up front - who doesn't like free money?!! He was so trashed I swear he got confused and thought he'd already gotten his dance!
It's even happened that a guy saw another hot girl that he liked walk by during our dance, he pd me, then ran off to get her! OUCH!
One custie, however, just got up, said thank you, handed over a $20 + tip, and walked out mid-dance, no explaination - that one perplexed me (mostly because of the tip - he liked me enough to tip, but walked out early?! Confusing!). Dancing for him *had* felt like "going through the motions", so even though it was a blow to the ego, I'd have to guess he just wasn't enjoying my danced (bored, etc.)
So long as you get paid, don't let it bother you, it could be any of these reasons or a multitude of others. I used to worry at times (when the guy didn't seem into it) about "bad press", but it's unlikely to happen, or affect you much if it does.
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maybe because he knows if he waits 'til the end of the song, you'll ask if he'd like another dance and he'd be powerless to say no. The preemptive declining of a dance.
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Maybe they get embarassed...A customer a few weeks ago asked if I'd keep my thong on during the dance (it's a nude club) because it was embarassing for him and me to take it off, I started dancing and got topless, about 30 seconds into it he couldn't handle it, paid me for 2 songs and ran off! Very strange