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strippers vs. escorts: who would win?
Just kidding in the title. My real question is:To the gentlemen who patronize both clubs and escorts: when you can get full sex with an escort, often for less than you would pay for dances, drinks, cover, tips ITC, why do you keep going to clubs where you (normally) can't have sex with the dancer? Or do you find dancers that you can have sex with?
Please note: this is not a rhetorical question, and I don't ask it a snide or spiteful way. I have no problem with escorting, or any other facet of the sex industry. I just really want to know what it is dancers offer you that escorts don't, so I can do my job better. Thanks!
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I just really want to know what it is dancers offer you that escorts don't, so I can do my job better. Thanks!
Others, will have to comment as I've never done the escort thing or even hired a dancer for a private show, but I'll bet a common answer you're going to get is that clubs offer variety.
The reason for me going to a club, (aside from the fact that I'm not looking for sex), is that the club grants me the power of having options. I can preview the merchandise so to speak for only the cost of cover and drinks. If I don't like what I see, I can then leave.
When I choose to spend my money, I have the option of doing it on several small expenditures on several girls as opposed to one big one on one girl (of course with the advent of VIP/Champagne rooms in many clubs, I have that option too provided I can afford it). If I run into a disapointing experience, I can keep the losses a bearable cost. If I meet the girl of my dreams, I can always buy in volume or go for the upgrade.
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I am female of course but i will give you one hell of a good reason why many guys do this.
Because many many dancers go home with them, do what an escort will do for a fraction of the price!
Also to your question...dancers offer fantasy! Escorts give reality!
Pamela
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some areas don't have access to escorts and depending on the guys taste there might be escorts but not attractive enough. I went out to the best local club last night and had a great time sitting around drinking with the girls and talking. Don't get me wrong I would have liked to got laid, but it doesn't always have to be about actual sex. The stripper is putting on a show and the illusion of sex. Where an escort is more to the point of action. I have never went to an escort but have been looking. I have hooked up with 2 strippers in my 10 years of going to clubs. The strip club is alot less expensive then an escort.....escort is 500-600 and my trip last night with getting drunk and a few dances was less then 200.
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Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo
To the gentlemen who patronize both clubs and escorts: when you can get full sex with an escort, often for less than you would pay for dances, drinks, cover, tips ITC, why do you keep going to clubs where you (normally) can't have sex with the dancer?
Your description fits me well (have both been seeing escorts and going to strip clubs on a regular basis for decades), and I think it is a good and interesting question. (Aside to JZ - I don't understand the logic by which it belongs on the blue side any more than in this particular forum on the pink side, but whatever...)
Several comments and answers in no particular order:
- First of all, I spend more, *much* more, in total on escorts than in strip clubs and for exactly the very simple and straight forward reason you mention; escorts typically provide more direct, extensive and satisfying sexual entertainment or stimulation per dollar spent than dancers. To me, strip clubs are a sort of exotic side dish; they give me an option for an alternative experience when I happen to be in the mood for something a bit different. I suppose this is my most useful and direct answer to your question.
- Second, escorts are not actually cheaper than strip clubs if you patronize ones who are typically at least as personally engaging/entertaining, good looking, classy/sophisticated and generally sexy as the better dancers one meets in strip clubs. And I do. When I see these sorts of upmarket and high class escorts, I typically spend a few times more *per hour* than I would in a strip club, even when I am purchasing private dances fairly extensively.
- Third, when I was younger and had less money to spend on this sort of thing, I spent a larger fraction of it in strip clubs for the reason implied in the previous paragraph, namely because I could often afford to spend time with dancers but not with escorts (of the sort I found attractive).
- Fourth, I travel A LOT (thus my screen name), around the country and the world, and filling my spare time on these (sometimes long) trips with female companionship is one of my main motives for patronizing both escorts and strip clubs. (In fact, it is very rare for me to do either when I am not "on the road" somewhere.) From this point of view, an evening in a strip club is better than an hour or two in the arms (and legs) of an escort; namely, it passes larger chunks of time more gracefully. I can easily spend a long evening in a club, getting to know several dancers and perhaps eventually settling down to spend the balance of the evening chatting with and getting dances from one with whom I "click". By contrast, an escort encounter can run its course, so to speak, and still leave most of the evening open.
- Fifth, spending some time with dancers in a strip club can be a nice way of "warming up" for a "date" with an escort later that evening, treating the club as an appetizer rather than a side dish, so to speak. Of course, a good escort does her own customer "warming" perfectly well, but too many escorts neglect that part of their service and get down to the main event way too rapidly, probably with the motive of getting the guy off so that they can be on their way asap.
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Or do you find dancers that you can have sex with?
This does happen of course, and moderately frequently, but I am not generally interested in having sex in the club, and one cannot find a dancer who will provide an outside the club escort reliably enough (in most places I travel) for it to be a good approach. So, while being open to the possibility, I do not go to clubs looking to find dancers who are also escorts.
One further point, you often see comments along the line that dancers sell sexual fantasies while escorts sell the reality of actual sex. However, as is fairly well known but not so often noted, escorts are also perfectly willing to sell their customers sexual fantasies too...and are in fact a lot more flexible about the fantasies they will enact than the strip club environment and most dancers allow. And, of course, an escort provided fantasy can conclude with a real sex act, or not, at the customers option. So, I don't see this argument as a reason for preferring strip clubs to escorts.
-Ww
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Here are some of my hypotheses as to why a given customer would prefer the SC experience (with or without "extras") to incall or outcall prostitution:
1) It seems less hardcore, less deviant, and is generally more socially acceptable.
2) It's less risky (in many ways).
3) It's more convenient and more passive: requires no phone calls or planning or preparation, other than stopping by a cash machine, walking into a club, and waiting to see what the evening brings...
4) There is greater choice: If you call an escort service, you kind of have to take what they send you. And if you hit a brothel or massage parlor, the selection of girls is usually more limited than it is at the average strip club these days. If you don't see anything you like in a strip club, you can just have a drink and walk out; it's a little weirder to do that when you're trolling for escorts.
5) If you're a little unsure about the whole thing, SCing offers more chances to chicken out!
6) According to some of the boys on Blue, dancers, on average, are generally hotter and "more congenial" than escorts.
7) Some guys don't like the idea of "having to pay" for sex; it doesn't serve their self-image very well. However, if that same guy is offered "extras" in a strip club, it feels more like the girl is "making an exception" and "breaking the rules"--undoubtedly because the guy in question is so irresistably hot. ::)
8 ) For married guys, it feels less like a violation of their marriage vows.
9) I think there's something kind of hot about the tease: I imagine that, for some guys, it's kind of like being transported to the backseat of a Chevy, circa 1968; it brings to mind that lovely girl they lusted after in HS, and the heavy petting sessions she deigned to allow...
Any truth to these statements, guys?
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I think Nicolina has covered most of the guy's rationalization. Me, I've never really found a compelling or persuasive answer to that question - like dancers are prettier than escorts? Sorry, but no they are not. Dancing, like escorting, has a spectrum. Dancers are nicer than escorts? Y'all have never met me.
I think it has something to do with girls making exceptions - largely because guys talk about it a lot. What they convinced a girl to do, etc., etc. and what she doesn't do for every other guy, sometimes accompanied by "proof" - how he KNOWS she doesn't do it for every other guy. I also think there is something about getting/talking/making/whatever a girl do things she doesn't want to - I think there is an element of conquest, whereas escorts are doing exactly what they want to do (not on a personal desire level, of course, but they want you to pay money to have sex with them. Most dancers don't - which is why they are dancers, not escorts. They may do it - either because they feel they have to, their rent is due, the guy is forceful or intimidating, or she's drunk or lot's of other reasons, but she doesn't go into work planning or hoping that a guy will offer her money for sex.)
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Originally Posted by Nicolina
7) Some guys don't like the idea of "having to pay" for sex; it doesn't serve their self-image very well. However, if that same guy is offered "extras" in a strip club, it feels more like the girl is "making an exception" and "breaking the rules"--undoubtedly because the guy in question is so irresistably hot. ::)
:shocking: She....doesn't?! OH GOD!
*runs away crying*
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8 ) For married guys, it feels less like a violation of their marriage vows.
Hey, I didn't dance back!
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Originally Posted by Nicolina
9) I think there's something kind of hot about the tease: I imagine that, for some guys, it's kind of like being transported to the backseat of a Chevy, circa 1968; it brings to mind that lovely girl they lusted after in HS, and the heavy petting sessions she deigned to allow...
Any truth to these statements, guys?
Hmmmm, I don't remember paying $200 to get in the back seat of my 1968 chevy for a half hour.
I could make a funny and say 'I didn't notice a difference between the two' but I like my nuts where they are. On the shelf over there in a Jar.
3 is more my style. I go because
10 ) Strip clubs are more like a party. You go to have a good time, not just get some sort of sexual attention. I like going to meet people and interconnect. And if I meet a chick I dig its like going to a special corner of the party to get to know her. I rarely ever am interested in the dance per say. Tho in my opinion, the dance starts the second you pay your entrance fee.
Yea. I'm stalking. Deal with it.
Mast!
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Here's another (related) question for the guys: For how many of you did SCing serve as a "gateway" to patronizing other sectors of the sex industry?
(ok, ok, maybe I should take this question over to blue...Sorry, J, I didn't realize that dancers weren't supposed to ask customers questions here. However, it seems there really should be a place on pink for this, because, as you point out, some dancers don't know about Blue, and furthermore, many of the dancers who do know about blue don't feel particularly comfortable posting over there....)
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Any truth to these statements, guys?
The claim of some Blue siders reported in your #6 is incorrect, imo and experience, but there is indeed some truth to all the other points you list, I think.
Your #4 is valid in most cases, but there are places (e.g., Melbourne) where strip clubs, quite similar to those in the US, and (legal) brothels exist in close proximity and offer very similar selections of "companions" to their customers...so it is not always an issue.
-Ww
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Here's another (related) question for the guys: For how many of you did SCing serve as a "gateway" to patronizing other sectors of the sex industry?
Me for one.
-Ww
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^So...strippers are weed and escorts are crack??? :P
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I also think there is something about getting/talking/making/whatever a girl do things she doesn't want to - I think there is an element of conquest, whereas escorts are doing exactly what they want to do (not on a personal desire level, of course, but they want you to pay money to have sex with them.
I have more than once seen guys posting on prostitution-related message boards say that they miss "the thrill of the chase" when they patronize escorts, and while it is not a big factor or concern of mine personally, I guess I have occasionally felt that way a bit. Of course, I might see it as a bigger issue if I did not also participate in "the chase", outside of the realm of commercial sex althogether that is, with limited but satisfying occasional successes.
-Ww
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Originally Posted by Nicolina
Here's another (related) question for the guys: For how many of you did SCing serve as a "gateway" to patronizing other sectors of the sex industry?
Not Me!
Mast!
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This thread is sort of making my head spin because I am also participating in a VERY closely related thread on a private (invitation only) message board for "hobbyists" (johns) that started yesterday and is still in progress. There are a bunch of points being made here, and not just mine, that are echoed and/or contradicted in the thread there. I wish I could connect the two somehow, but I can't point you there (against the rules of that site and you couldn't get in anyway), and if I point the guys in the other thread here, there is a fair chance that several of them will show up and post things that will almost certainly offend "pinkie sensibilities" and probably quickly engender flaming, thread locking, bannings and so forth.
Oh well...
-Ww
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Not Me!
Don't worry, kid; you still got plenty of time.
-Ww
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This thread is sort of making my head spin because I am also participating in a VERY closely related thread on a private (invitation only) message board for "hobbyists" (johns) that started yesterday and is still in progress. ...
Re the thread I mention above, it would be against that site's rules for me to quote anything said there by anyone else, but I can (I think) reproduce my own posts. The one below seems reasonably relevant to this thread. I have replaced one word and one other line of text with XXXXXs because they mention the name of the other site and of some of its members, but no significant content is lost.
-Ww
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Originally Posted by Wwanderer (elsewhere)
Back on topic to an extent, on thinking about it a little, my one modest experience with trying to initiate a good male friend of mine into a bit of hobbying supports the notion that a lot of guys might prefer a HJ to something more, at least when they are newbies:
He seems/seemed to me to be a pretty fun/vice-loving sort of guy; I knew that he was (and still is) into drinking and gambling and off-color jokes and at least softcore porn, Playboy and such. Years ago he once happened to be in Tokyo at the same time as me, so I showed him around in our mutual free time for a couple of days...generally had a good time hanging out. At one point we walked through one of the mizu shobai areas (nightlife/redlight districts) where he gawked at all the very explicitly identified/advertised sex shops of various descriptions. Anyway, to make a long story short, I took him into a pretty mild place that I knew welcomed foreigners. He seemed very nervous but excited. We both picked our ladies and headed for private rooms. I told him to expect nothing beyond a nude massage with maybe a happy ending for the fees we payed out front. I gave my selected partner of the moment some tip, probably 10,000 yen, and got a BBBJTC. Afterwards he raved and raved about how great it was, still mentions it occasionally now, many years later, but it was clear that he only got a HJ release. When I asked him if he offerred his lady a tip, he said that he didn't because he was "afraid she would do something gross" and that there would be a "misunderstanding" (he doesn't speak any Japanese and could only communicate with her by gestures). He also told me at one point that, having thought about it, he felt that he really "only got a massage" and that it therefore wasn't cheating on his wife. It is my impression that this is by far the most extreme commercial sex experience the guy has ever had; other than that one time, I think he has had nothing beyond an occasional strip club lap dance.
Anyway, the more I think about it, the more I feel that my friend may be a lot more typical than most of us here on XXXX and other PMBs.
XXXXXXXXXXXX
-Ww
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For me, SCing has very little to do with sex. Actually I have never patronized the services of an escort because it is against my conviction to pay for sex because I think it demeans this most sacred of natural acts. When I make love to a woman I require that it be with a woman I admire and care for, or whom I consider a friend, or click with on some emotional or intellectual level.
Anyway, going to SC's for me has always been about having fun....I happen to think ladies that take their clothes off in front of strangers are so cool. I have always considered strippers to be mavericks in their own right--people that exist at the edges of societal mores and constantly push the envelope of what extant society considers 'acceptable behavior'. I'm the kind of person who, even though you can't tell this by looking at me, is a non-conformist and extremely open-minded. I'm a closet moral and social revolutionary. I imagine the courage it takes to be a stripper must be phenomenal. For this reason, I have the utmost respect and admiration for strippers.
Speaking of gateway...I started going in to the SC regularly only about 4 months ago and the reason for going regularly was because I was going through a particularly tough time at work, e.g., during that time I was putting in 18-hour days at the office, had no time for lunch, actually slept in my office sometimes to save time commuting, etc... So I put in 5 consecutive days of 18-hour shifts and I justified this 'corporate madness' by 'treating' myself to an SC fantasy where I would drink myself to a stupor such that I couldn't remember wtf I actually did at the SC the next day, which is too bad because I imagined those lap dances must have been pretty good. That was my gateway or outlet, if you will. Now that things have slowed down considerably at work, I've become somewhat 'bored' with the strip club scene. I am now debating whether I should keep going.
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Are the sensibilities of the pinkies really that delicate????
Is that a rhetorical question?
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3) It's more convenient and more passive: requires no phone calls or planning or preparation, other than stopping by a cash machine, walking into a club, and waiting to see what the evening brings...
4) There is greater choice: If you call an escort service, you kind of have to take what they send you. And if you hit a brothel or massage parlor, the selection of girls is usually more limited than it is at the average strip club these days. If you don't see anything you like in a strip club, you can just have a drink and walk out; it's a little weirder to do that when you're trolling for escorts.
5) If you're a little unsure about the whole thing, SCing offers more chances to chicken out!
6) According to some of the boys on Blue, dancers, on average, are generally hotter and "more congenial" than escorts.
9) I think there's something kind of hot about the tease: I imagine that, for some guys, it's kind of like being transported to the backseat of a Chevy, circa 1968; it brings to mind that lovely girl they lusted after in HS, and the heavy petting sessions she deigned to allow...
These are accurate. Plus, strip clubs aren't about sex, for me, anyway.
Two cents.
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I agree with Jay that this thread is definitely blue around the edges. I havent been on line at all today so when I finally logged in and saw the thread title Im like "Oh shit...here we go", figuring it would have to be moved. But everybodys being cool and just talking about the topic like adults without button pushing. Like Jay said, its not always necessary to stick to the letter of the law as long as folks are getting along :)
Nic, I thing you nailed some very good points. If I may:
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1) It seems less hardcore, less deviant, and is generally more socially acceptable.
I dont consider either hardcore or deviant but i agree regarding social acceptability. Id say most guys have maybe one buddy to whom they would reveal an escort encounter. OTOH I bet we all have dozens of friends who would enjoy sharing tales of strip clubbing
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2) It's less risky (in many ways).
Agreed. But interestingly enough, I believe escorts apply a greater effort towards mutual protection (health and legal) than many high mileage extras strippers.
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3) It's more convenient and more passive: requires no phone calls or planning or preparation, other than stopping by a cash machine, walking into a club, and waiting to see what the evening brings...
I guess it depends on what endgame the customer is expecting. If he is just looking to have a few beers, see some T&A and maybe get a little worked up during some dances, thats a pretty easy thing to do. Just show up. OTOH, if hes planning to get laid and is OK paying for it, the preparation and upfront work are worth it. And once a guy is established and has references amongst the escorts, it only takes a phone call or two to set things up. Escorts love to do business with established and verified regulars.
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4) There is greater choice: If you call an escort service, you kind of have to take what they send you. And if you hit a brothel or massage parlor, the selection of girls is usually more limited than it is at the average strip club these days. If you don't see anything you like in a strip club, you can just have a drink and walk out; it's a little weirder to do that when you're trolling for escorts.
Most guys seriously in the game would never subject themselves and their money to the whims of an agency. They either know for sure what they are getting or stick to independent providers with credibility
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5) If you're a little unsure about the whole thing, SCing offers more chances to chicken out!
I agree with this one for sure. You can go to a club and just sit there and not do anything if you are a nervous wreck (hard to imagine but I guess it happens). OTOH, if you show up at an escort appointment all nervous and giving the impression you are ready to bolt, the escort will probably bail before you do. Comfort level is a huge factor. Thats why most escorts are reluctant to see newbies.
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6) According to some of the boys on Blue, dancers, on average, are generally hotter and "more congenial" than escorts.
There are angels and demons in both occupations Im sure. But purely looking at the numbers, the average Junkie meets hundreds if not thousands of strippers during the course of his clubbing career. OTOH the average escort monger may only meet a couple of dozen different escorts. Percentage wise yeah he will meet more hot and congenial strippers than hot and congenial escorts.
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7) Some guys don't like the idea of "having to pay" for sex; it doesn't serve their self-image very well. However, if that same guy is offered "extras" in a strip club, it feels more like the girl is "making an exception" and "breaking the rules"--undoubtedly because the guy in question is so irresistably hot. ::)
Hes paying either way and with an escort he can read the final chapter of the book first without feeling disappointed ;) But seriously, there is a large element of what you described and I admit to enjoying pretending like Im the only guy getting the special attention :)
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8 ) For married guys, it feels less like a violation of their marriage vows.
Ultimately it doesnt matter what we feel. For many of us, if our wives found out we hit the strip club, wed be sleeping on the couch. If they found out we hooked up with an escort, wed be sleeping in the front yard along with our suitcase. Either way, were seriously in the doghouse.
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9) I think there's something kind of hot about the tease: I imagine that, for some guys, it's kind of like being transported to the backseat of a Chevy, circa 1968; it brings to mind that lovely girl they lusted after in HS, and the heavy petting sessions she deigned to allow...
I got over the tease pretty quick but I know a lot of guys like it. Me, Id just as soon either make the OTC arrangements or just forget about it if things dont click and just sit at the table with the gals, drink and bullshit
FBR
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I have always considered strippers to be mavericks in their own right--people that exist at the edges of societal mores and constantly push the envelope of what extant society considers 'acceptable behavior'. I'm the kind of person who, even though you can't tell this by looking at me, is a non-conformist and extremely open-minded. I'm a closet moral and social revolutionary. I imagine the courage it takes to be a stripper must be phenomenal. For this reason, I have the utmost respect and admiration for strippers.
Imo, this is very true and is even more true of escorts. If you think it takes a lot of courage and self-confidence to be naked in front of strangers, imagine how much it takes for a woman to have sex with a guy she first met maybe a half hour or less earlier and who picked her, rather than the reverse. In other words, I think that there are few escorts who are mavericks and open minded envelope pushers enough to be strippers, but there are many dancers who aren't comfortable crossing the line into stripping. I don't see why you'd admire one group and not the other.
Moreover, I think the two types of sex work and workers have a lot more in common than many realize/admit. First of all, of course, many women work in both professions, either at the same time or at different points in their sex work careers, so it is really a heavily overlapping group anyway. Perhaps more importantly, having spent quite a lot of time with quite a few members of both groups, it seems to me that they have a great deal in common in terms of their attitudes toward their work and their customers, of their major motivations and problems, of their most common personality traits and so forth...
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I started going in to the SC regularly only about 4 months ago and the reason for going regularly was because I was going through a particularly tough time at work, e.g., during that time I was putting in 18-hour days at the office, had no time for lunch, actually slept in my office sometimes
Hmmm...well, you may not end up being much of a consumer in the commercial sex industry in any way in the long run, given the situation you describe, but if it turns out that you are, I think it is way too early to guess exactly where your ultimate limits and comfort levels will end up many years from now.
Certainly, and very obviously, there is no need or reason for every man to be a customer of either strip clubs or escorts; if you aren't enjoying it, why would you even think about continuing?
-Ww
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Originally Posted by FBR
Id say most guys have maybe one buddy to whom they would reveal an escort encounter. OTOH I bet we all have dozens of friends who would enjoy sharing tales of strip clubbing
I believe escorts apply a greater effort towards mutual protection (health and legal) than many high mileage extras strippers.
And once a guy is established and has references amongst the escorts, it only takes a phone call or two to set things up. Escorts love to do business with established and verified regulars.
Most guys seriously in the game would never subject themselves and their money to the whims of an agency. They either know for sure what they are getting or stick to independent providers with credibility
if you show up at an escort appointment all nervous and giving the impression you are ready to bolt, the escort will probably bail before you do. Comfort level is a huge factor. Thats why most escorts are reluctant to see newbies.
Fwiiw, FBR is the first guy posting in this thread (other than me) who I'd guess to have significant actual experience with escorts and thus some real world information, as opposed to reading about it on the internet or seeing it portrayed elsewhere.
(To be clear, that is pure speculation on my part; I don't actually know anything at all about FBR's activities.)
-Ww
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Originally Posted by Nicolina
Here are some of my hypotheses as to why a given customer would prefer the SC experience (with or without "extras") to incall or outcall prostitution:
1) It seems less hardcore, less deviant, and is generally more socially acceptable.
I think this is a primary reason, I don't hapen to follow the logic since I don't think sex with a woman is, in and of itself, deviant.
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2) It's less risky (in many ways).
Definitely a big reason based on the paranoid emails I get from guys who want to take the plunge.
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3) It's more convenient and more passive: requires no phone calls or planning or preparation, other than stopping by a cash machine, walking into a club, and waiting to see what the evening brings...
Yup, all true and also the primary reason that I go to strip clubs
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4) There is greater choice: If you call an escort service, you kind of have to take what they send you.
Not really, the internet has made ordering an escort and getting exactly what you want pretty damn easy. You can search data bases by hair color, breast size, ethnic background, price, location, services provided etc, etc,....Hell you can even read reviews on your choices.
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5) If you're a little unsure about the whole thing, SCing offers more chances to chicken out!
Well yeah, but you either wanna get laid or you don't.
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6) According to some of the boys on Blue, dancers, on average, are generally hotter and "more congenial" than escorts.
That's a popular myth floated by guys who don't want to try an escort. First of all, many of the escorts I've seen are retired dancers meaning they would still posess all of the hotness and congeniality of current strippers. Again, check out the world wide web. Some of the most beautiful women you will ever see are available for escorting. They get repeat business the same way dancers do-looks and personality.
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7) Some guys don't like the idea of "having to pay" for sex; it doesn't serve their self-image very well. However, if that same guy is offered "extras" in a strip club, it feels more like the girl is "making an exception" and "breaking the rules"--undoubtedly because the guy in question is so irresistably hot. ::)
Um, yeah, ok....They pay for lap dances at the club, hoping to get extras. Paying for guranteed sex is wrong though. Fortunately my ego is in check...
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8 ) For married guys, it feels less like a violation of their marriage vows.
I'm sure it's a rationalization for both husbands and for many wives who think the SC is the lesser of two evils. Of course, they don't realize that the hubby is at the club looking for extras....
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9) I think there's something kind of hot about the tease: I imagine that, for some guys, it's kind of like being transported to the backseat of a Chevy, circa 1968; it brings to mind that lovely girl they lusted after in HS, and the heavy petting sessions she deigned to allow...
I think the tease is hot too, that's why I like strip clubs.
It doesn't have to be one or the other. The experiences are similar but different.
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Re: strippers vs. escorts: who would win?
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6) According to some of the boys on Blue, dancers, on average, are generally hotter and "more congenial" than escorts.
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That's a popular myth floated by guys who don't want to try an escort. First of all, many of the escorts I've seen are retired dancers meaning they would still posess all of the hotness and congeniality of current strippers. Again, check out the world wide web. Some of the most beautiful women you will ever see are available for escorting. They get repeat business the same way dancers do-looks and personality.
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Re: strippers vs. escorts: who would win?
It is a little more acceptable to the public, because to significant others and other folks who don't go to SCs, they don't even realize what is available in clubs.
How often I hear from an SO, who knows that their hubby-to-be is going to an SC for a bachelor party , "well, they can't touch anyways? right?" ::)
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