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What to do?
Hi there,
I have a problem. While I am not a dancer, I work as a massage girl (we have them in Vancouver) and do private parties. Recently, the owner of the strip club that I work at asked me to become a private dancer in the VIP rooms. I have no problem doing lapdances (I do them at the private parties) but my boyfriend does. At the moment I have no private parties to do in the future because the company I work for is new and has no leads at the moment. Also, I was covering massage shifts in December but am now just on call, and noone calls! I'm a student and have no plans on finding a normal job, way too many hours! My boyfriend, the amazing man that he is, takes care of our basic needs, but I would love to make some money for school, etc.
How do I convince him that I should be able to work at the club? And if not, how else can I make some good money on a regular basis?
Thanks for your advise. :)
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please excuse me if this sounds crass, but am i correct in assuming that you are using the term "massage girl" as it is a popular euphemism for a prostitute? i have no problems with this whatsoever, mind you- if my bf weren't uncomfortable with the idea, i would probably offer full service. however, i don't understand why your man would be upset about lap dances but not about far more intimte encounters. or have i missed something?
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Umm VOW shes not a prostitute... she walks around the club or at private parties giving neck massages to customers.
How about working in a massage parlour? You could do a rub and tug... you dont really have to do the tug if you dont want to :D
Or waitress in a SC... damn good money... or shooter girl.. only have to work weekends if you want. You'll find something hun ;)
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o, all right. that makes a bit more sense. :)
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Why is your bf ok with you giving lapdances at private parties but not at a club? I'm sure he wouldn't mind the "dirty" money after it gets into his hands!
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I agree with Cally-maybe becoming a shooter girl or waitress at the SC...good money.
Have you ever thought of doing some internet modeling...I do alot of it...I get all then negatives,just got to be careful what company you work for,but they are always looking.
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i am having the same problem, but i have a passion for dancing. i stopped doing it in november and i dream about it often.
i will be watching this thread. hopefully someone has a good solution.
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I'm with Cally here also. A waitress or shooter girl can make great money in a SC. I worked in a "rub n tug" and the money is also great.
Good luck in your decision.