Grr.... Management Is Unfairly Using Me!!!
HI ladies...
I am SOO mad right now!!!
ever since I went back to the club, the management has had an INFLUX of older dancers.... wanting to dance at the clubs' busiest times! (nights, esp. thursdays->sundays) I LOVE and really appreciate the older members of the clubs... they make work fun, add humor, and they know the ins and outs, and they give the best advice and *really* look out for others... BUT managemet at the club didnt express this feeling to me... they specifically got mad at, yelled, and cussed me out in front of a bunch of customers... the yelling went something like this " I DONT NEED YOU WORKING DAY TIME! I NEED YOU WORKING NIGHTS! I GOT THEST OLD BITCHES IN HERE TRYING TO SHAKE THEIR WRINKLES AND ITS NOT GOOD FOR BUSINESS! YOU DONT KNOW HOW EASY YOU HAVE IT! IF I WAS A STRIPPED, ID MAKE A KILLING! YOU HAVE GUYS IN HERE THROWING MONEY AT YOUR FACE FOR DOING NOTHING!... YOUR YOUNG! YOU ARE STAYING UNTIL 2 AM EVERY SHIFT YOU DO!"
Now ladies, you can imagine my feelings after that mess....
He was WRONG on sooooo many levels!!
First, Management FAILS to realize that I am a FULL TIME HONORS COLLEGE STUDENT! You cant THREATEN to fire me if I dont stay until 2 am when everyone knows I have school the next day! Second, why is he talking shit about older dancers... the gentlemen seem to love them, they have the best experience, and they have several regular customers who frequently visit them, bringing in hundreds, maybe thousands more into the club!
THIRD... why was he running his mouth about dancing...... if he thinks itz that easy, let HIM suffer for hours on end, faking a smile, coziing up to smelly guys... doing acrobatic-worthy tricks on a damn death-pole!!! UGH!!!!!
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Ok, so he cussed you out in front of customers? Not taking up for him, but did you bring this discussion up in front of customers, or did he just walk from the back immediately going off on you.
I would simply go, and sit down with him and express my concerns.
Other than that, there isnt' really much else I can say. I have yet to have problems with my managemment team
Good luck,
CK
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Gee - I bet that manager wonders why s/he has so many problems with his/er dancers.
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hey cinnamon...
I WAS UP ON STAGE, AND I GUESS THE HEAD OF SECURITY/DOORMAN LET THE MANAGER KNOW THAT I WAS BEING INFLUENCED TO LEAVE BECAUSE I AM A STUDENT, AND *RIGHT THERE* IN FRONT OF EVERYONE, HE STARTED YELLING, CUSSING, SCREAMING!!!! AT TIMES, HE WAS LOUDER THAN THE MUSIC!!!!
THEN I NOTICED HIM, AND HE WAS POINTING AT ME, AND SUCH, AND I GOT A LIL FREAKED OUT! I MEAN, I WAS WORKING THE STAGE, I WASNT DOWN THERE, AND I DIDNT KNOW ANYTHING AT THE TIME, I JUST KNEW HE WAS MAD AT ME FOR SOMETHING. I WAS SOO FREAKED OUT AND NERVOUS, MY CONFIDENCE IMMEDIATLEY SHOT DOWN, AND I THOUGHT IT WAS MY NEW OUTFIT.... WHEN I GOT OFF STAGE, I HURRIED BACK TO THE LOCKER ROOM TO FRESHEN UP, CHANGE, AND THEN GO OUT TO SEE HIM. HE CORNERED ME AT THE FRONT OF THE CLUB, AND PROCEEDED TO YELL AT ME IN FRONT OF CUSTOMERS... I GUESS THE OTHER GIRLS AND EVEN THE OTHER MANAGERS ALL KNEW THAT HE JSUT HAS A BAD TEMPER OR SOMETHING. I DUNNO! BUT THEY JUST LOOKED AT HIM AND ROLELD THEIR EYES... I DONT THINK ITS FAIR! NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO ENDURE THAT KIND OF TREATMENT!
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Wow you must be damn good for a manager to risk his clubs reputation by presenting this behaviour in front of the entire bar... ::)
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I think that it is a total reflection of his personal insecurities, and that he's an absolute total ass. I kept the fact that I was in college quiet because it did cause me problems with management-they seem to want to believe that you have no other life but stripping. Shame.
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Originally Posted by Cally
Wow you must be damn good for a manager to risk his clubs reputation by presenting this behaviour in front of the entire bar... ::)
I second that - Never heard of a club needing night girls... usually the other way around.
Want some advice? Go to a different club.
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Exactly Audrey... my club is begging me to work day shift lol. I HATE days... money is way better at night. Mind you I HATE working fri/sat nights... to many kids in the club(kids being 19 - 25 year olds). Anyway... yea as I said... you must be like uber hawt stripper that clubs would fight over for a manager to ream on you in front of the entire club to get you on nights.
If your story is true(which im having a hard time swallowing) go to a new club. Obviously your manager is unprofessional.
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Managers are always yelling at me to work more shifts in front of customers.. cos Im a super duper hottie tottie!
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Yes audrey you are a super duper hottie tottie }:D
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Originally Posted by reiredstrippergal
I think that it is a total reflection of his personal insecurities, and that he's an absolute total ass. I kept the fact that I was in college quiet because it did cause me problems with management-they seem to want to believe that you have no other life but stripping. Shame.
Ummm hey MsGigi, looks like you forgot to sign in under your other screen name :O
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Meh I just figured fake... I didnt even read much of it... god im sick of people making stories up..
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This post reads like BS. Why would anyone stay at a club after being treated like that? Especially if if you are so hot? I have walked out the door of clubs and never looked back for much milder treatment then you got.
Managers try to pin me down to a schedule, and the harder they try, the less I comply. I've never seen a girl get bitched out for not working the more desirable shifts, ever.