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Katia, I am also in Ottawa...maybe you are the Katia I used to dance with? If you are, please PM me- I was wondering what happened to you (and not only because I want your locker, lol). And if you are the Katia I remember (I can't tell from your pic), you really shouldn't need surgery to feel confident. You are beautiful.
As general advice, don't get implants because suddenly you are nervous on stage and have lost your hustle. That does not address the problem, and certainly raises others. Maybe try another club? PM me anyway- there are some clubs and managers around here better than others. And it's Winterlude! good business this time of year! lots of tourists in the clubs, if that's motivating...
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there's a site someone posted regarding sugardaddies. do a search. it's the sugar daddy thread somewhere.
as for inspiration, for me, after taking time off it takes a little time too to get back into the groove. just don't force yourself, slow down, relax, breathe, be in the moment, have fun. pretend like you don't need the money and are there because you want to be and you are in charge, it's your choice, it's not end all and be all and you can leave any time.
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Sugardaddy: Sugardaddie.com
Inspiration: any random sales tape, especially the ones recommended by GoldCoastGirl.
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Pm U?what Does That Mean Exactly?ne Wayz-r U From Diamonds? ::) ;d
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do u have a site address for this?
and what salestapes do u mean exactly?
inspirational targetters for dancers?
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Katia! yes, this is Isla (youngish blonde girl, if you don't remember the name) from Diamonds. I pm'd you...uhm. It's the 'private message' thing. I don't want to post my email on a public forum board, but try to find the message I sent you already...there should be a notice that pops up...check the 'my settings' button on the righthand top corner of the stripperweb page.
I was worried about you! And seriously girl, you're gorgeous! If this is a self-esteem thing, we need to talk! Also, if you're looking for a gym buddy, maybe we could motivate each other? I'm here for any advice you may need.
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It's not your body, it your brain. You've lost your confidence. Don't stress about making money for awhile and this will allow you to walk away from the idiots and spend more time with the decent ego boosting customers in the club.
I have seen the ugliest girls make great money. no tits, big bellys, serious stretch marks, extremely mature ladies, HUGE ladies. Ladies that I wonder what the hell they were thinking to believe they could be dancers. But they are there in the clubs and making money because the have confidence and believe in themselves.
Many of us have been there. It requires a bit of an attitude adjustment. Pick what you like about yourself and focus on it.
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isla-u are so sweet!
it is nice to hear from u-
i was actually considering going out of town to work for a few days-
or try somewhere in aylmer or something,
but i go to school starting on feb20-
so ,uh-i dunno
its a weird feeling i have about going to work;
i started working at this massage place part-time-
and...uh yeah-
there's so much more freedom and$$ in dancing-
got any hustling tips for me?
Ps:do u have transportation?(ie:car)
what gym do u like?
p.s.s:palma_
mama
htm 8) :D
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I agree with Kittensgirl.
Hot routines trump a whole lot of other attributes. Implants do not make money like a hot stage routine will. That’s the best time and money you could spend in this biz. IMHO
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Katia, I have alread PM-ed you (PM = Personal Message) with what I'm about to say here however I will say it again in case you check this thread before the PM. ;D
Two words: Hustle Hut!
There is another section of Stripperweb called Hustle Hut. Go there. Read. Try some of the suggestions. Read some more. Try more suggestions until you find the ones that work for you.
:boobies: won't improve your money if you do not know how to SELL. This is a SALES business after all. Work on your 'hustle' first and foremost. Then, and only then, once you have worked on your 'hustle' (sales skills) you feel that :boobies: are still warranted (also, never consider a BA due to this work - that's something you will have to deal with FOR LIFE ).. then go ahead.
I'm concerned that you are selling the wrong product. If you think the product you are selling is your body ... you really REALLY need to get over to Hustle Hut as you are wrong. Your body is part of the product you are selling not the product itself.
;D