Are they trying to set me up
I have been at this new club for about one and a half months. These girls want me gone!They try to send men they know to try and to get me to go home with these men. They make statements such as They don't talk to men for free. They are not cheap hores. The men have to pay for there time. I chat with the guys and get a few dances and I move on! I make my money and leave, they give me the most disgusting looks. This club has a lot of rules and these women knew the rules. I was eating at a table with a customer. I seen girls do it before! One of the girls told the manger I was eating with a customer at the table. he call me in the office. He told me the dancer are not to eat with the customer. We arre to eat in the dressing room! Since i was not aware of the rules because he forgot to tell me! I will not get in trouble but for future reference not to eat with the customers. Then that bitch had the nerves to ask me did i get in trouble. I told her to go suck a dick! SHe on the other hand did not get any dances. Than the girls in her little click wanna to be nice to me and find out how much money I made and wanted to get in my business. Than later on that night wanted to introduce me to thier customer. Who just wanted to give me their number and fuck me! have anybody went threw this before? IF you did what did you do?
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Yeah these girls definitely sound two-faced. I find that at strip clubs in general, it's better to be too skeptical/suspicious, than to be too gullible/naive. You never know who is your friend at a strip club. It is a very cut-throat, competitive dog-eat-dog business, since after all it's all about girls trying to make the most money they can.
You made an important point. The girl who snitched on you, wasn't getting any dances...but it sounds like you were. She was probably jealous that you've been making more money than her lately, and is trying her best to get you "gone" so that her competition is eliminated. I wouldn't trust anyone who she's friends with either, not that this judgment is fair, but it's safe. It sounds like the girls don't know how to make money, or "move on" to the next customer, so they are bitter about their shitty income and trying to prevent you from doing better. How catty. Some clubs have more cattiness than others, unfortunately this sounds like the kind of club that does not have a good aura about it. Unless you really like the money or the club's atmosphere, are there any other clubs you could check out? Maybe some clubs where the girls are more laid-back? I know, most clubs the girls are catty, but this club definitely sounds worse than my club, where generally people aren't real snotty.
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It sounds like the clubs in Eugene Oregon! Nasty old ugly washed up girls being mean to all the other dancers who come in.
I worked at club like this for the better part of a year before I left. If the owners/managers want to keep their nasty mean dancers, they can have 'em! I now travel to work, and am happier this way.
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Yes, happened to me at my first club. The girls went to customers and told them I had AIDS while I was on stage. The customers told me and I was so hurt. I left that club many times in tears. They would make stuff up and come up to me to start fights. I was always running to the manager. I lasted 3 months then left. All my club experiences since have been great. I didnt go back to that club for FIVE YEARS because of how those girls treated me. When I did go back it sucked anyway and I left after a week.
Its because I was new. I was flat chested (of course no one likes me) I was making money (of course im doing extras)...
Not all clubs are full of b*tches like this. Where I work now I get along with everyone...everyone gets along with everyone. Its a small, tight knit club and theres not room for problems. Like Philly said, maybe you should try to find a diff club now that you have some experience under your belt. Good luck hun!
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What she said! These girls are too stupid or socially dysfunctional to learn how to make money. Whether you stay should depend on whether you feel physically safe from this gang of bitches, the manager can be counted on to be fair to all or only the favorites, and the money is worth the hassle until they get tired of harrassing you. I had the same experience from a girl who insisted I stole her money from the stage when coincidentally I did dances all day and she did 2. After work I waited outside for my boyfriend to find the new club and pick me up. Her friends came out with their boyfriends and loudly discussed beating "theives" up to teach them a lesson.>:( Some people cannot be trusted so if they become menacing cut your losses. Oh, and dancers don't have to be old to be desperate. This chick was 23 beautiful with near perfect fake DDs and beautifully done extensions. She pretended to be sweet and supportive all day. She had the goods she just wasn't as tough a bitch as I was to deal with their obnoxious NY style rejection. I threw it back at 'em and still made the sales.
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THis club is a bikini club. I can not do full nude. This suppose to be the best place to make money with little to no contact. These women I do not know why they will waste thier time talking about me. When they can make money. I don't see why I should look at the other girls as a threat if I am siting on my ass doing nothing! I feel safe physical stand point. I was just amaze about how these girls are when they just sit on thier ass and complain.
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I was just amazed about how these girls are when they just sit on thier ass and complain.
Read SW lately? Kidding...No, we werent full of crap... yea, many many many girls do this... sit in the dressing room bitching about not making money rather than being out there making money. Will I ever understand it? No. Do I try to understand it? No...
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i have a question? what do you do when one of these crazy girls threatens violence and she may know where you live?
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tell the manager, befriend a policeman, avoid her at all costs, don't associate with co-workers OTC ever again.
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^^^management didn'y give a f*ck and she found out from a dacer who lives in my neighboorhood. i was just wondering what other girls would do...i just quit
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I hate it when girls ask me how much I make and try to get in my business. I have no quarms telling them there are being too personal. They usually will back off if you let them know if a nice but curt manner that you don't discuss how much you make.
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The funniest thing about these stoopid bitches is, once they run off the hot girl who makes more money than them, they STILL don't make any money because they spend too much time building cliques and playing queen bee. Don't sweat it hun. Make your money and ignore the dumbasses.
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I chat with the guys and get a few dances and I move on! I make my money and leave, they give me the most disgusting looks.
That is the right attitude to have. Hell, that's what I do at work. I've been at my club a little over 3 months and I STILL rarely talk to anyone. I'm cordial to all, but I'm there to work and make my money and that is that!!! Hell IMO it's good that their giving you dirty looks, and talking about you. That means you're doing something right ;D Just keep doing what you're doing, and smile/wink at them while you're off to give ANOTHER dance!