How do you approach the men and maintain the conversation to get them to buy dances $$$$$$
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How do you approach the men and maintain the conversation to get them to buy dances $$$$$$
Make eye with the customer and approach him with a smile on your face. When you get close to him say "Hi, I'm _____" and extend your hand to him for shaking. Most guys, at this point, will shake your hand and introduce themselves. If he holds your hand for 3 seconds or more he's going to buy a dance from you either now or later, but don't ask him yet. Instead say something like "how's it going today/tonight?", and then take it from there. Within 2 minutes of chatting, you should ask him to buy a dance by saying "would you like to go party with me in the private dance area?" If he says "Ok", then you're golden. If he says "Not now, maybe later", tell him "Ok, I will check on you later", then shake his hand and give him that winning smile and move on to the next customer. Don't forget to check on that guy about 1/2 hour to 45 minutes later.Quote:
Originally Posted by exotic0690
On the other hand, if he holds your hand for only less than 2 seconds during your introduction, then you will need to work him a little harder to sell him a dance: meaning you will need to spend a little more time talking to him to get him to buy a dance. If a guy is not talkative or outgoing, it is best to talk a little bit about yourself because that will break the ice and will give him an opportunity to ask you some questions about yourself which will ultimately make him more open and more comfortable talking with you.
Never ask a guy who is not talkative too many questions. That will turn him off because he obviously doesn't like to talk about himself with someone he just met, and so you will just annoy him if you keep asking him questions like "what do you do for a living", "do you have kids", etc.... Only spend about 5-7 minutes chatting up a non-talkative/introvert customer and then ask him to buy a dance. If he says "Ok", you're golden; if he says "Not now, maybe later", then give him that winning smile and shake his hand and don't forget to check on him after 1/2 hour to 45 minutes later.
Let me know if you have more questions on approaching customers, I will be more than happy to answer them as best I can.
Instead of asking about a particular part of breaking into the conversation to get money (so we could be more helpful) or even using the search button, it seemed like she wasn't making the effort. I'm starting to despise seeing repetitive questions on this site.
So exotic, please, for a quicker and hassle-free response to your question, be more specific or do a search.