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Ready to go to VIP, then his friends are ready to go..
Someone help! This happened to me exactly 3x on Friday. Everytime I got the guy juiced and ready to go to VIP, his friends would butt in. I mean like I would literally have the guy by the hand, and while we're walkin he'll say to his friends, "hey i'll brb, gonna go do this VIP" then his buddys would just jump on him like a vulchar (sp) and tell him they are ready to go.
How can I get the friends to stop BLOCKIN ME?! >:(
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Re: Ready to go to VIP, then his friends are ready to go..
UGH~ i hate this! it happens to everyone though. i just tell his friends that we'll be right back, we are off to have a good time. they can wait 5 mins! or say that he already promised hed let you dance for him and that you don't want them to spoil his fun. try to get the money anyway!!
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Re: Ready to go to VIP, then his friends are ready to go..
But VIP's at my club are 30 minutes long...
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Re: Ready to go to VIP, then his friends are ready to go..
agh i hate this too!! at my club they are 30 minutes long as well..
Best way to do it, is for you to say " we'll be right ..Im going to go give him a dance"
dont say vip and dont say how long youll be gone ;)
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Yup! What she said. They don't need to know jack. Say 'we'll be back in a few minutes, we're getting drinks'. They won't money-block because they'll be thinking about booze while you get him situated for the half hour.
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That sucks BIG TIME. The best thing I'd do to avoid that is...take one of my closest girlfriends with me to talk to the guys. Or if I'm going to VIP, I'll tell my custy to pick a girl for his friend. Usually, it works.
On really busy nights, like sat or sun, when there are bachelor parties. I get about 2-3 girls to work with me. We just go around together working on all the guys.
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Re: Ready to go to VIP, then his friends are ready to go..
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Originally Posted by Optimist
Say 'we'll be back in a few minutes, we're getting drinks'. They won't money-block because they'll be thinking about booze while you get him situated for the half hour.
Ha, we don't serve booze. Just pop and red-bulls :P
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I would just hold him by the hand put the stripper mojo on. You have some sexy eyes - those are more powerful than you know. Remind him quickly how much fun youll have and tell his friends to let his friend have a good time.
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Even worse are the friends who don't want to leave..., they just want to talk thier buddy out of spending his own damn money. "Aww dude ,you know we're here till _(fill in the blank) we still got more partying to do". Or, "dude ,like 5 years ago in _ (fill in any city but the one you're in),I totally got scammed in the VIP room ,it's not worth it". HATERS- Makes me sick..........
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That sucks. It's why I hate trying to hustle guys that aren't by themselves, it's happened to me a lot of times too. Um, try telling him something like "A real man doesn't ask his friends for permission before having some fun with a lady," Just try to remind the guy that he will have more fun with you than in the car with his friend.
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It always seems that situations like are totally dependent on who is the dominant friend. If the dominant friend wants to leave its a lot harder to get the other guy to still go dance. If he's the dominant friend than he'll easily be like "hey buddy let's stay for a little longer and when I'm done we can leave." Guys are weird like that I guess.
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^^ i hear ya
i like the dominant ones
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Here is what you can say..."While having a really fun time may not be your cup of tea, it certainly is John's here, so we're going to have a great time and we'll be back before you know it but for John it's going to be a trip he won't soon forget."
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Ugh!!!! That happened to me twice last week. Once they had to leave, and the other time his friend said that it was too expensive!!!! WTF!!!!??? It's not YOUR money. Grrrr.....
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I hate when that happens...it's usually the ones with no money trying to get their friend who has money to leave.
I like what Tart said...just tell his friends that you're just going to do a dance and you'll be right back. They don't need to know how long the dance is. ;)
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Just my guess, but if it happen three different times. The guy you are trying to get to VIP must be in on the "Don't let me got to VIP and spend all my money". If I guy was really there to have a good time, then he wouldn't care what he friends said.
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yuck......theres been times where im already in the vip doing dances and the friend/friends come back to get him! in the middle of a dance! what is with these guys? cant they let someone else have fun?
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OMG I hate this! You get the guy ready then the "friend" starts in with the crap about how much it is, the group is about to leave (when in reality they stay like another two hours), etc. The guy backs out and your like Aaaaaaahhhh wheres my hour room? God I hate that!
-lil e
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Re: Ready to go to VIP, then his friends are ready to go..
In my opinion, this happens more often on fri/saturdays which I hate working and barely work anyways. But I usually say something like "you had your fun, now it's time for us to have OUR fun. We'll be right back" and grab him by the hand and that's that.
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Re: Ready to go to VIP, then his friends are ready to go..
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Originally Posted by
GuyPOV
Just my guess, but if it happen three different times. The guy you are trying to get to VIP must be in on the "Don't let me got to VIP and spend all my money". If I guy was really there to have a good time, then he wouldn't care what he friends said.
I have to agree with this to a certain extent. Last Friday I was priming one guy for VIP and all of a sudden his friends all just wave and walk out. I'm bricking it for a second but then the guy just waves back and stays sitting with me. Guys have mobile phones, they can call or text to meet back up again. If they really wanna spend, they'll stick around.
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Agree with what some other girls have said. I swear, some men secretely tell their buddies "get me out of this!! " because more times then not, it seems way to well played out and fake. Almost like their friends are repeating what VIP dude told them to say. What I haven't learned, most the times, if a dude is gonna let his friends tell him not to spend his money, he was never intending on spending it to begin with. Especially when they say they are leaving, and then hang around the club another 20-30 minutes. I chalk up my losses and move on. No since in sitting around for 10 minutes trying to convince the haters, when in reality it's more than likely the guy I'm trying to get back in VIP who doesn't want to go.
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Def. They tell their buddies "whatever you do, don't let me go into a VIP with one of these girls" and they make a pact and stick to it so his buddy will seem like he's cockblocking but in reality, that was their plan all along. Can't deal with the BS, so I don't work weekends lol.
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This happens on the weekends sometimes, a lot of younger guys carry on like this and it's so frustrating! They feel like they are doing their mate a favour and that he'll thank them for it in the morning. Guys like this should go to a bar instead of loitering in a SC.
Try to get your customer away from his friends, "No worries, why don't we have a drink together" and escort him to the bar. Once the friends are out of the way, you might be able to coax your customer into the VIP area without them realising. If you can't convince the friends to let you drag him away then say something like, "why don't I get a friend for your friend/s and we can go and have a lesbian show/little naked party etc?". Or take all of the friends as a group and charge them per person i.e. $50 per guy instead of $50 per 10 mins etc.
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Right ^^, the trick is to get him away from his stupid friends LOL. And once he is in the VIP room, either turn his phone on silent or turn it off completely.