How Long It Will Take For A Customer To Start Hating You Girls?
Myself I have experience this syndrome. After a while the girl does not seem friendly and becomes cold....
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How Long It Will Take For A Customer To Start Hating You Girls?
Myself I have experience this syndrome. After a while the girl does not seem friendly and becomes cold....
wow, bad night atthe club hon?
Someone needs to slip over to the blue side and have a convo with Mr. Punk.
Why in God's name, even after your worst night at the club, would you possibly dedicate even a scintilla of energy into hating a dancer?
Obsess much?
*Sigh* Hate is such a strong word...not that I really give a crap. :P
After about the third time a non-customer has dicked me around, wasted my time, pormised to make me a star, offerd to take me home and give me the best sex I ever had, or made dancing for him a completly horrific experience, is when I stop turning on the charm. Then they start to hate me, I guess.
Do I mind being hated? In this sontext, no, not in the least!
I wouldn't dwell on it too long. You're there to have fun, right?
This is such a blue sided thread hehe
Looks like youre already there and it seems you are the one who is cold. You must come to a forum and say it.
Mayve you need a break from the whole SC thing all together. If you hate the girls...why go in?
Sounds like Destiny broke up with him. How COULD she?
After all this time you have been a member,you are gonna post something like this?????Either you still have not a clue on proper strip club etiquette or you need a few trips to the psychologist's couch.
This reminds me of an event a few years ago.Quote:
Originally Posted by colleen
At the time, a friend of mine was a playboy photographer. The real deal.
We got to talking about sc's in my area and one that I have been to. He checked out the site on the web (as is usual during a chat like this) and was awestruck by this one dancer who also had her own web site wanting to be a model.
So he is like, drop down there and give her my email and phone number. So I do this. He never hears from her. I find out later I am the bad guy for "trying to look like" I am a playboy photographer - something I never said I was.
All I said was, "Hey, some dude I know who photographs for Playboy saw your web site and wanted me to give you his email and phone number. Here they are, good luck." I stuck around to watch the show for a bit and then bailed.
I just grin when I think about this girl who at least could have gotten her picture on the table for a chance and yet had the energy to bad mouth me.
Oh well... .:P
I won't use the word hate. but it is true that some girls do not treat old customers as good as random guys. because they think regulars money is guaranteed.Quote:
Originally Posted by poriland4
Since this is a question that for the most part the dancers cant answer, it is somewhat Blue, as suggested by several posters. On the other hand, I think the dancer members could provide some insight from their perspective. Most experienced dancers can see when the custy is getting messed up and drifting into an emotional Hades.Quote:
Originally Posted by poriland4
We'll let the thread stand for now. If it gets ugly then its likely to get zapped by yours truly or Jay Z. Fair warning, OK?
FBR
Perhaps that says more about you than it does the dancers. Just a thought :OQuote:
Originally Posted by poriland4
It is so poorly expressed that I don't know which part to answer.
She became cold so you started hating her?
Or started hating her and then she became cold?
Why not ask your wife if she hates you yet?
As a matter of fact...my wife loves me....and hates me......so it must be something that makes you all jealous........
So....yeah, Erase This Post...it Sucks!
Yeah, you're a little burned out. This a 'how long have you beat your wife' question. More set up than earnest query. Since you're not having a good time hang with your friends for a few weeks.
Yea, it really is..Quote:
Originally Posted by Deni
Yea, can you give us the full story on this??Quote:
Originally Posted by threlayer
I've never had this happen with a fav or ATF and I go back five or six years with some of my favs.Quote:
Originally Posted by poriland4
Start by looking in the mirror. Are your expectations changing? It's not uncommon for a customer to expect some sort of progression in the dancer/customer relationship (no logical reason for this is needed) but it's unrealistic. The dancer is looking for a steady customer and nothing more. It's important not to lose sight of that. If a dancer feels you pushing too hard she will sometimes decide your money isn't worth the associated time and energy involved in obtaining it.