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Ummm, buy her a cookbook? :-\
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^LOL...good answer! I have no clue where to go with this one...
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She does have quite an unusual way to drop hints.She apparently,likes you more than just friends.
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Yeah, my take is that she likes you more than just friends. You say she's 18 or 19? Those are the kinds of things a girl her age normally does to try and get a guy she likes to pay her some attention, and to see if he likes her too.
If you don't like her more than just friends, don't break her little heart and teach her how to cook or take her out to dinner or anything, buy her a cookbook or a few boxes of Mac and Cheese and let her be.
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Yea, she likes you.
If you're not seeing anyone - are you ABSOLUTELY positive you don't want to start something with her? I mean, you're friends already, and I have found my strongest relationships were based on friendship to begin with.
It's not like you are preparing to marry her or anything. Besides, at 18 - she will probably go "Oh - look - another butterfly!" and be chasing some other guy in a month or two.
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"Oh - look - another butterfly!" and be chasing some other guy in a month or two.
:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
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Maybe she thought you were a good enough friend to go cook for her? Perhaps she is trying to add you to her meal deal roster?
I don't, won't and can't cook - haven't even attempted to make a meal for several years now. I have often relied on my wonderful friends to do it for me, (actually some of them insisted after seeing what a disaster I was in the kitchen...) I feel I am a little more polite about it though than just sending a text at the last minute and I would buy the food and wash up and stuff in return! I at one point had different friends cooking on different days of the week, you should check, lol!
Heh - it hadn't crossed my mind until now - I hope none of my male friends thought I was trying to hit on them with the not cooking thing! :-D
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I LOVE to cook,especially for the people I care about and like.Italian,New Orleans and Chinese cooking is prepared in my kitchen on a regular basis.
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She likes him, but not in that way. She was just bored.
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Yea, she likes you.
If you're not seeing anyone - are you ABSOLUTELY positive you don't want to start something with her? I mean, you're friends already, and I have found my strongest relationships were based on friendship to begin with.
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Yea, I'm pretty sure I do not. She's too young. if she was a few years older then maybe. ::) I mean this girl has gone off and asked other people if I liked her. :O That started some drama and I had to have the like you as a friend talk and know she's not txting me as much. I think the best course here is to back off abit. Yes?
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Umm sorry to be the bearer of bad news. But personally speaking from a girl who doesn't drive...she called you cause she wanted somone, ANYONE to take her out to eat.
But yea, go buy her a cookbook.
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I agree with CK. I think everyone is reading way way more into the txt msg. Speaking as someone that is lazy and tries not to cook and once upon a time couldnt cook... I bet i sent tons of those msgs out before.
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I don't know, from the sounds of it, they aren't really good friends, they just work together and know each other as kind of a social friend, and since she has gone around asking other people if he likes her, yeah, she has a HUGE crush!
Fearless, just back off a bit from her, since she obviously isn't getting the clues that you don't like her that way!
Good Luck!
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I can't really cook either but I just buy food. Doesn't she have a Subway nearby or something? Sounds like she's trying to flirt.
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I can't really cook either but I just buy food.
OK,new OTB policy: Anyone that passes through New Orleans or any city I'm residing in at the time gets a home cooked meal from me.
:P
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I don't know, from the sounds of it, they aren't really good friends, they just work together and know each other as kind of a social friend, and since she has gone around asking other people if he likes her, yeah, she has a HUGE crush!
Fearless, just back off a bit from her, since she obviously isn't getting the clues that you don't like her that way!
Good Luck!
I think that pretty much sums up the "friendship". She was always txting to see what I was doing etc. We had a talk and she told me that so&so said I liked her. I basically told her that I do like her AS A FRIEND. Turns out so$so never said that but rather they didn't know. Now she's barely talking to me and has stopped txting so either she had/has crush and is now feeling rejected or I've confused this poor girl.
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Just forget about it. If she does like you , then she can keep hinting and you should keep forgeting about it, unless it becomes creepy or something. if it gets to extream talk to her, but if she keeps puting herself out there and hinting and you play dumb, she's chalk it up to you being an idiot, and her not wanting an idiot.