How do you have a girlfriend experience with someone without becoming their girlfriend if it's an around the clock kind of thing?
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How do you have a girlfriend experience with someone without becoming their girlfriend if it's an around the clock kind of thing?
I wish I knew the answer to that-I'd be having more fun at work!
Can you elaborate more on why you are looking into GFE?
GFE is an escorting term. You basically have a client that you see on a more emotional level. There is kissing, touching, oral, etc involved. It "seems" like there is a connection there, without it being only about sex.
Well, a custy of mine told me he was looking for a "Girlfriend Experience" without the actual girlfriend. We have had dinner together and are friends but never have had sex, so I guess I don't understand what this could mean? I mean, I can't be anyone's girlfriend because I am married and I am not having sex with him either.
Maybe he just wan'ts to do things that You would do with a girlfriend with out the commitment....
A "girlfriend experience" is having a girlfriend without the commitment and complications of a real relationship.
Like a fake relationship. Hell, what would be in it for me then? How could that possibly work?
where did the term girlfriend experience come from?Help me I very lost!
It can work out for You if he buys You stuff =p. You can't have a realationship with him anyway because You'r married.... But its nice to have sumone take You out to dinner or buy You nice things sumtimes :D....Quote:
Originally Posted by greenidlady1
You mentioned once that you have an open marriage so I don't see why it wouldn't work for you.Just make sure you keep both men happy.Quote:
Originally Posted by greenidlady1
It is an escort term.A lot of men seek this type of experience through escort services/agencies.Quote:
Originally Posted by leilanicandy
Yeah we are open but I am not sexually attracted to him. I mean I don't mind having dinner but that's the extent of it. Plus, how would I be his girlfriend without developing feelings? Do you just pretend to like them romantically or something?
Huh. I've heard of GFEs in lapdances, but. . .
Maybe he wants calls and sappy emails and occasionally being asked to take you to see a show or something?
If you feel like pursuing it further, ask him what exactly he means. I've been a fake girlfriend over the internet before, but never in person.
Pretend he's a high paying customer at the club.Quote:
Originally Posted by greenidlady1
Well, he's not really. I mean he use to be. He use to come in a spend 300 each night a couple to three times a week. The he stopped coming as much. Now, he only comes by once a week or so and gives me 100 bucks each time. He says he doesn't like to get dances because he can't touch.
So you have taken this outside the club???Does he compensate you outside the club???
Yeah, we went out to eat dinner and he paid for it.
He should be paying for your time too.Quote:
Originally Posted by greenidlady1
I think the best thing you could do is ask him what exactly he is looking for in his proposed "GFE".
I just did it a while back because he use to come in and a lot of money on me. He wanted to take me out for dinner, so we met at the restaurant and had dinner. But he recently mentioned this "GFE" thing to me and he didn't come right out and ask but he was talking about it and I just listened. I didn't know what to say but if it involves sex it's a no go. I am just not attracted sexually. I mean, he has money. Why doesn't he just get a real girlfriend or hooker?
The reason why most wealthy men don't want real relationship is because like I've mentioned before,they don't want a committal.They also don't want a hooker because they don't want "professionals",or women that do this for a living.They want their happy medium.
whoa I guess I had a totally different thought of what a gfe was. I thought you meant like 2 strippers (co-workers) hooking up at work or something.. wow I'm lost now /:O lol
Sounds to complicated especially since I am not willing to give sex.
Many guys feed on the rush they get from chasng the unattainable. Maybe that's why he's not going after a "pro"?
It sounds like he's rather enjoying trying to make you a prostitute. First he got you hooked, then he tapered off the money, then he got you outside of the club for free.
Since it doesn't seem like boundaries are a strength of yours, I think you should just cut him off.
I think you are right Lena.