they could be making drug deals
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Exactly! That's why I call them Brokeback. They will sit there trying to talk to their 'boy' while he's chatting with one of us. Interrupting, trying to distract him, trying to talk him out of buying her a drink but drinking on his 'boy's' tab. They're like closeted ball players copping a feel 'for sport'. Also, some guys are very good at picking up Gaydar from other dudes. It's really true.
The other night 2guys sat at the stage bought a bottle of crystal drank it together and never once looked at the stage, I think it was their first date.
Holy great clubs, I hope you know how good you have it hahaQuote:
Originally Posted by Cally
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First, let me say I'm queer myself, and I'd never do this to anyone who I thought was actually queer and living their life honestly.
But sometimes when customers come in and won't spend, and they're doing any one of a number of things that signal "yes I'm HETEROSEXUAL yes HETEROSEXUAL MALE HERE" I'll start teasing them.
Like, I've done the thing where I mention being bi, and a guy says "That's hot", so I mention that bi guys are totally hot too, and talk about reading gay porn online. Which in some cases is enough to set them protesting like crazy . . .
I'm hoping that the cognitive dissonance ("Strippers dig bi guys! Whoa!") helps crack up their homophobic ways when they go home. Political subversiveness. =)
There was one time I was dancing on stage and this gaggle of guys was watching football. I said loudly to another customer that "you know, maybe they prefer the sweaty guys on TV . . ."
Again if I thought it was true I wouldn't say it -- it's only an insult to a man too insecure to shrug it off and too much of an asshole to spend his money on the strippers.
I can see how it'd be a safe place for those hiding in the closet: the men around them will be focused on the strippers, not on male social dynamics, so if they violate some rule of appearances the heterosexual SC customers will be less likely to notice and probably less likely to act up or get violent about it -- they're there to pay for female attention, there's not the same degree of volatility of 'striking out' and turning on their own.Quote:
Originally Posted by The Other Owner
After reading this, I can understand why strip clubs are "so 90's" for a lot of people and declining in popularity.
People love to go to places where they are inferred to (or flat out told) being gay, cheap, and a looser. Or maybe they don't...