Advice on custy situation (long)
Hi ladies. I'm not sure if this belongs here, but here goes. There's a custy that comes in every Friday and every time he comes in he gives me a couple hundred dollars (at least). The problem is, he's a perv! Everytime I see him, he'll try to stick his tongue in my mouth, ear, etc , touch my "area", or some other vulgar act. Last week he asked me to meet him, but I wouldn't. Yesterday, he mentioned that I "lied to him", which I never said that I would meet him. He gave me some $ (less than usual) and said "call me tomorrow, don't stand me up". Here's the thing, there is no way in hell that I'm gonna go out with him, but is there any way I can keep him as a customer? Have any of you been in this situation and what did/would you do? Thanks a million!
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This is a good question, but you should have searched the forum. Lurcked fo months then discovered seaching and this site has a ton of info. I can't think of a question and not find a thread on the topic in the archive. When I think of one that isn't, I will post it. This one is all over the place. Maybe you didn't know to search for "how to keep a regular"... enjoy the encyclopedia of opinions on this topic.
IMO, anwser him during the dance at the moment he's the most vulnerable. Then say [earnest whisper into ear while holding face] "Baby, god I wish sooooo bad we could meet outside. Fuck it hurts that we can't." Never explain more than that, just wink. It'll drive him nuts.
FWIW
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Nothing lasts forever, especially in the strip club.....
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For a couple hundred dollars and now LESS...Not worth the hassle.
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^^ agreed not worth it. Youve already stated your boundries physically and personal. Besides, he sounds manipulative saying "you lied to me". Games and touchy feely isnt worth it to me. His donation will only get smaller and smaller (seeing is how he'll never get what he wants from you). He'll move onto another girl.
If you really dont want to deal with it..ignore him when he comes to the club or "break up" with him.
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Yup! Unless this is a game between you two I wouldn't go on 'seeing' him. He's delusional, vindictive, aggressive--not good.
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Thank you ladies, you're great!