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hehe got on stage
So I got on stage!
It was for a wet t-shirt comp and I had to get up and dance (alone!!) for 2 songs while pouring water everywhere.
I was so freakin nervous but I did it! It was so much fun, though I can't really remember what i did.... No I wasn't drinking, I guess my brain just disconnected. I didn't even have tme to think: "Oh my gosh I'm on stage!"
So I had hot pants on and stripped down to a g-string and didn't fall off my shoes.
YAY!
But I dunno about a career as a stripper. My boyfriend came to the comp and decided he didn't want me doing that for money. He got all jealous and stuff.
I don't want to hurt him (we've been together 4 years and I adore and love him SO much!) so I guess I will have to try and compromise with him.
I might just keep on waitressing.
I tried to ring PP, MG and Dancers here in Sydney today to try and speak to the lady who hires people to ask if they have any waitressing positions but she was always unavaliable. When she finally called me back I was in a tutorial and couldn't run out the door to take the call in time >:( Darn.
Hopefully she will re-return my call tomorrow.
I'm still kinda considering working at a lingerie restaurant and waitressing/dancing there. I think my bf will be slightly less concerned about that. Well, we'll see.
Anyway I've managed to do a lot of rambling here. Sorry about that! Hahaha :P
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Re: hehe got on stage
Sounds like fun. But why should your boyfriend "decide" for you? /:O
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Re: hehe got on stage
There are PLENTY of options for you esp. in Sydney:
* Modelling
* Promotions work
* Bikini, Lingere, Topless waitressing work for agencies at pubs/taverns and private parties
* Lingere waitressing at a 'lingere' restaurant
* Waitressing within a strip club (best to actually go to the club itself to apply than phone calls and you to call them as strip club managers are so bad at their jobs!)
Whilst compromise is good and healthy part of a relationship... make double-ly sure that your boyfriend has a good long hard look at himself and what is the real 'issue' about you and stripping. Does he consider you "his property" ? Are you comfortable with the belief ? Can the issue he has be resolved some way: ie he has an issue with you sharing your body with a room full of strangers... remind him that they are just looking and never touching.. only he can touch and gets to really 'have' you etc.
If he is scared that you will leave him for someone better.. well.. how you deal with that will be up to you. Find out the real reason he has an issue with you being a stripper. Then find out a way to help him 'overcome' that issue or just stick to waitressing.