my hustle pattern-it works
just wanted to let yall ladies know my new little pattern i did last night and i got alot of dances from guys---> spend one whole song with small talk with a guy, then when th next song is coming on, be like "oh hey, u want me to dance for you?" and since you just "made friends" with him, he'll more than likely say yes. if not, go spend that song making a small connection with someone else, and when u hear the next song starting, ask him for a dance, and so on so on, and it turns into a little pattern...it worked well for me.
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Originally Posted by LuckiCharm
just wanted to let yall ladies know my new little pattern i did last night and i got alot of dances from guys---> spend one whole song with small talk with a guy, then when th next song is coming on, be like "oh hey, u want me to dance for you?" and since you just "made friends" with him, he'll more than likely say yes. if not, go spend that song making a small connection with someone else, and when u hear the next song starting, ask him for a dance, and so on so on, and it turns into a little pattern...it worked well for me.
I'm with you with talking for a song, but maybe not "oh hey, you want me to dance for you?"
Seems too easy to say no to. Maybe something more like, "since we have gotten to know each other a little, would you like to get to know each other even better and have a little fun?"
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I used to ask guys if I can kidnap them and it worked but now I sit and talk with them for a few minutes (normally one song) ask them in a seductive voice if they want a dance and if not I go off but go back after my next set and see if they have changed thier mind.
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Yea, this really does work but only if the club is busy and guys are buying--this is what I do too and it makes me alot more money than usual on good nights and a little more on bad nights. But you do get alot more rejections this way as well so you must keep motivated.
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I'm with you with talking for a song, but maybe not "oh hey, you want me to dance for you?"
Seems too easy to say no to. Maybe something more like, "since we have gotten to know each other a little, would you like to get to know each other even better and have a little fun?"
Ya, if I'm trying to use the second song as a marker after I've sat down, like if I know it's getting busy and I need to move on, sometimes I'll act like the song that just started just makes me crazy horny and I'll turn to them, look kind of pouty and say "this song makes me crazy, I want to go in back and dance for you now" but say it like what I really mean is "I want to have sex with you. Now."
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Lucki Charm, that's a good approach, but change your wording to " I know you are ready for a (some) dance(s) now, aren't you"? As Emily said, you want to phrase your statements in a way that is hard to say no to. The way I worded your question makes a person feel awkward saying no or not agreeing with you, right?
You'll learn more about this in the Dancer Wealth seminar, should you ever decide to take it.
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I'm just a customer, so the advice from the experienced dancers is far more important. But for what it's worth from one guy (prototype -- well educated, middle aged professional who usually comes to clubs only when travelling) :
I would respond better to either Emily's or Tina's question, because your question sounded so offhand -- almost like you weren't very interested yourself.
Tina's is cleverly worded, but at least for me, it would sound contrived -- straight out of a paperback sales book. I'd still say yes if I liked her, but the "assumptive sale" bit would put my guard up. (Again, she knows better than me -- it must work with a lot of guys.)
But Emily's question really would connect with me, because it touches on exactly why I come into the club -- I am on the road, with the choice of hanging around or going back to a hotel room -- getting to know somebody better sounds pretty good.
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Your pattern is widely used and pretty effective. I personally would react the same no matter how the "do you want a dance" question is phrased. I think the key is to talk up the customer during the first song.
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Yeah, I noticed that if you sit with a guy for a song, make small talk then go for the kill he'll more than likely get a dance. If you just approach them and the second thing out of your mouth is "wanna dance" he'll think he's just another guy you're trying to get a dance from. (even though that's really what it is) But make him feel like you have his attention at least, then go for it. I think this approach works better.
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I am in desperate need of hustle tips. I started stripping 1 month and a half ago and I have a hard time making a dime. I've always considered myse;f an attractive girl and a good dancer, I think my stage shows are good. I don't have much pole skills but I move slow and I know how to be sensual. I do a lot of eye contact on stage, where I have a hard time it's at hustling. The clients feel that I am uncomftable going to small talk them for a dance so they often reject me when I pull, very akwardly, the "would you like a dance". Basically I'm not confident in my selling skills and I don't know what to say. The worst is that the more I think that I'm not good at it the less I'm good at it simply by thinking that I'm not good at it. I spoke with some girls at my club and they suggested to wera a dress when I walk around . Would anyone have some advice, I'd like to travel but if I can't make $ in my hometown would want to imagine what it would be like elsewhere
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Would anyone have some advice, I'd like to travel but if I can't make $ in my hometown would want to imagine what it would be like elsewhere
Okay, let's start with the basics. Whenever I coach someone on sales I always ask them to list the top three types of resistance you get from your customer when you are selling them on a dance. Now this is important, so you may want to ponder this question for a while and don't just answer this question off the cuff. Really think about it long and hard. When you can identify your top three, then we have someplace to go.
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Okay, so I came up with the three types of resistance I get which is
1) They seem to be only interested in watching the stage shows
2)My going up to see them lets them feel sollicitated and annoyed
3) The topic of conversation is too down to earth, everyday, there is no sexual fantasy